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Say Goodbye to Crazy: How to Get Rid of His Crazy Ex and Restore Sanity to Your Life

4.62  ·  Rating details ·  97 ratings  ·  16 reviews
If you have an ex-wife in your life that is ruining your current marriage and wreaking havoc with your family, read this book. It will give you the answers you need to live a life free of chaos, anger and frustration. Say Goodbye to Crazy is one of the few books that addresses how to cope with a hostile, angry ex-wife whose destructive behavior is overlooked by the courts, ...more
Kindle Edition, 263 pages
Published May 10th 2015 by Zeta Press
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Johnny Rivera
Dec 22, 2016 rated it it was amazing
As someone who was a victim of a narcissistic ex-wife, I highly recommend this book. It is also a fantastic guidebook for single men who want to marry someday to recognize and avoid these potentially fatal attractions. If you've never seen Fatal Attraction, do so. If you've never paid attention to the Jodi Arias murder case, research it. Narcissists are everywhere; even in church. Narcissists come in all sizes and flavors and often look for positions of trust and leadership. They can be doctors, ...more
Carleen
Jul 26, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book is spot on and eye opening! I have a very close friend with an ex wife whom this book is, I'm almost positive, written about. It scares me that there is a book written about her so that means there must be more of them out there!? That is scary! I am so glad this book exists so that those who are suffering have a sort of guideline to follow in dealing with such an awful person. We bought 10 of these books so we could give them to other family members and friends. Some of who suffer at ...more
Jess
May 30, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Hands down perfect.
Duncan Smith
Jan 17, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I give this five stars for its practical value to those dealing with a crazy ex, and in particular for exposing the gynocentric nature of mental health professionals and mainstream views of male-female dynamics in general. I especially liked the 'Golden Uterus' description.

The only criticism I have is that some of the writing is not up to Paul Elam's usual standard. I've read some of his essays and heard his talks and he is a brilliant writer at times. This book feels a little repetitive in the
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Kevin B
May 16, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Insightful

This book allows one to know that what one experienced in ones own relationship is not an isolated experience. It was reassuring to know one is not alone in dealing with this type of personality, and there are methods and mindsets needed to control future abusive atmospheres.
Angela
Feb 18, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This was the backup for which I was looking !

Repetitive? Some people need repetition to get it. If you or your partner continues to put your relationship second to their ex over an extended period of time, this book may be just what you need to read.
My husband finally saw what I've been trying to tell him for 7+ years.
Lorena
Jan 05, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Dealing with a crazy ex-wife can be earth-shattering. This book gets to the point and hits the nail on the head every time. I read it first and have been able to implement changes in our lives, now I'm convincing my partner to read it (he's the one with the high conflict ex).
Gail
Nov 24, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Best advise for anyone dealing with a controlling ex!

Spot on information in this book. I wished it was around 26 years ago. My husband and I couldn't agree more with this approach!
Rahnesa
May 13, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A necessity

This book is a necessity for step mothers dealing with high conflict baby mamas. The information in this book is valuable. It's not sugar coated, it's honest. I am going to read it again because I still have a lot to learn and put into effect.
Julie
Dec 25, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
On point!

This book helped me understand what my husband had and was going through. It also helped to know that it happened to other people, as well.
Stacey Darrell
Oct 12, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I am sure this author has been sitting on my shoulder for the past 5 years! Loved this book! Thank you!
Anna Ver
Jan 12, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is my go-to handbook for coping. I revisit it with every new incursion into our lives.
Kirstin Dragasakis
May 26, 2018 rated it really liked it
Unfortunately, I found this book very helpful. Recommended by a friend and I recommend it to anyone who is in a similar situation.
Jennifer Rigney
Jul 28, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Practical and to the point!

I wish I had read this book a long time ago. Tons of insight and practical tips for dealing with my fiancé's crazy ex. If you are having trouble with your own Crazy you need this yesterday.
Susan Z
Hmm. This book has a strong bias in favor of MRA-type thinking, but it still features some sound strategies for dealing with high-conflict exes.
Alyssa Elliott
Jan 30, 2017 rated it it was amazing
this book is amazing:)
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