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The Latehomecomer: A Hmong Family Memoir

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In search of a place to call home, thousands of Hmong families made the journey from the war-torn jungles of Laos to the overcrowded refugee camps of Thailand and onward to America. But lacking a written language of their own, the Hmong experience has been primarily recorded by others. Driven to tell her family’s story after her grandmother’s death, The Latehomecomer is Ka ...more
Paperback, 277 pages
Published April 1st 2008 by Coffee House Press (first published January 1st 2008)
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Ella Grace The Song Poet focuses more on Yang's father and his experience as told by Yang. In The Late Homecomer, Yang dives much deeper into her own experience …moreThe Song Poet focuses more on Yang's father and his experience as told by Yang. In The Late Homecomer, Yang dives much deeper into her own experience and talks more about her grandmother and their relationship. Both are great and could be read in any order, but I would suggest reading The Late Homecomer first, as I felt it gave helpful background and context about the war.(less)
CloudFlower I personally don't think they resemble each other much. The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down is more medical and shamanism related. It explores th…moreI personally don't think they resemble each other much. The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down is more medical and shamanism related. It explores the differences in healing between Americans and Hmong, and how a blend of both can be beneficial. The Latehomecomer is more of a memoir detailing a family's passage to the United States and their struggles with finding a new life after leaving everything behind.(less)
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Aug 22, 2010 rated it really liked it
This book hit home for me, literally. Yang and her family move to Minnesota and settle into a housing project very near where I lived when I was in elementary school. Due to the high Hmong population in St. Paul, I went to school with a handful of Hmong kids and reading this memoir makes me realize that although I was in classes with these kids, even had desks adjacent to some of them, I definitely did not appreciate who they were and what some of them were going through at the time. I have no d ...more
I loved this book because it emotionally moved me. I want to feel connection with those I read about, and I certainly did that here.

The book tells about the Hmong people - their traditions, their culture and the role their people played in the Vietnam War. In what is called The Secret War Hmong boys from Laos were recruited to fight against communist forces. After the Vietnam and Laotian Wars, hundreds of thousands of Hmong refugees fled to Thailand seeking political asylum.

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Jenny (Reading Envy)
After reading The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down: A Hmong Child, Her American Doctors, and the Collision of Two Cultures, I was curious to learn more about the Hmong people and "The Secret War." This memoir chronicles the Yang family's escape from Laos into a refugee camp in Thailand (where the author was born) to resettlement in Minnesota. The contrast in cultures and values was stark as the parents as the family tried to make the United States home, even if it's not where the ancestors a ...more
Dec 31, 2008 rated it really liked it
I've been flagellating trying to write a review of this story, I think because I want so badly to relate it to the multitude of political cultural historical events that it skirts, always affected by them but rarely addressing them. That is a credit to Ms. Yang, who establishes herself here as a powerfully lyrical writer, with both feet firm in what I (as an ignoramus) imagine to be the Hmong oral tradition. Though these pages together are a memoir, the Latehomecomer is not Ms. Yang but rather h ...more
Oct 19, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Lovely, moving, highly recommended.
Diane S ☔
Jul 27, 2013 rated it really liked it
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When the United States withdrew from Vietnam, they left the Hmong people in dire straits. One third of them were killed during the war, one third were the victims of genocide by the North Vietnamese and the Pathet Lao soldiers. Those that were alive fled to the jungles and tried to hide and eke out a sort of life.

This is the story of Kao and her family, written and narrated by her and the characterization are very vivid and poignant. She herself, was born in Thailand, in a refugee camp, after h
Debbie Zapata
Dec 15, 2019 rated it it was amazing
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A beautifully written, extremely moving story of a family and a culture determined to survive.

I knew nothing about the Hmong people, and was enchanted by some of their beliefs and customs.

I am otherwise speechless here, I'm sorry.

Just read the book and see the quality for yourself.
Jan 15, 2013 rated it liked it
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The only book I'd read about the Hmong previously was The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down: A Hmong Child, Her American Doctors, and the Collision of Two Culturesby Anne Fadiman. I felt that Fadiman was portraying the Hmong as a mysterious puzzle to be solved. This is the first book I have read from a Hmong perspective. It humanizes the Hmong and gives them more of a context. I place the Hmong in the context of other independent spirited mountain peoples with distinctive cultures such as the ...more
Nov 19, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Halfway through this book I decided that it should be required reading for any non-Hmong person who lives in the Twin Cities/western Wisconsin or in California's central valley--any place where the large numbers of Hmong families have resettled. I later found out it is required reading this year for the incoming class at the University of Wisconsin, Eau Claire. I learned a lot about the incredible struggles faced by the Hmong during and after the Secret War in Laos. The writer's voice is clear a ...more
Apr 09, 2021 rated it liked it
4 stars for the concept.
As for the execution, rounded to 3 stars.
This book was recommended to me.
When that happens, it pains me to be negative about it. I feel that my name will go directly to that black list or that I will be blocked for life. But I can’t and I won’t lie.
I rarely read non-fiction (especially biographies), but I found this memoir somewhat compelling and worthwhile, mostly for the opportunity of learning about a community that I’ve never heard of.
Regardless, it’s not a book tha
May 21, 2018 added it
I am parking this one until I can locate a hard copy of the book as the audio version is very difficult to listen to and just doesn't work for me and think I need a hard copy of this one to get the best out of the book. ...more
Smitha Murthy
If I meet Kao, I want to ask her one important thing: How did you remember so much of your childhood, in such astonishing detail?

I can’t remember what I ate for lunch yesterday, let alone what dress I wore when I was six. So, Kao, help me out here.

It’s hard to rate memoirs. It almost seems insulting. Memoirs are deeply personal and a writer has had the courage to put their lives on screen, on paper for us, and I don’t like assigning these silly stars to such an act of courage.

And courage is wh
Scott Nvenue
Mar 03, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is the memoir of Kao Kalia Yang and of the impact of the Vietnam War on her Hmong family and their journey from Laos to the United States. It is an interesting and true story of struggle and survival, and it is a real addition to the pantheon of American immigrant stories.

The Hmong are a tribal people living in Southeast Asia – primarily Laos and Vietnam. They were famous for their fighting skills during the Vietnam War where they were important allies of the United States. However, they ha
Jul 01, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition

As part of an immigration project I'm working on, I recently spent a lot of time interviewing members of the Hmong community in Minneapolis-St. Paul. For those who don't know, the Hmong are an ancient Chinese tribe that centuries ago moved mostly to Laos, where they fought for the Americans during the Vietnam War.

This of course put them in great jeopardy after the war ended, and thousands of Hmong fled to refugee camps in Thailand and then to the U.S., where the largest single concentration now
Feb 10, 2009 rated it it was amazing
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Kao Kalia Yang tells her family's story from the jungles of Laos to the projects of St. Paul and beyond with grace, humor, compassion and wonder. She retells her grandmother's stories with a respect that leads one to truly appreciate the ease of our lives.

Yang struggled as a child with English, school, and double expectations. She has overcome obstacles most of us couldn't and has become a gifted storyteller, just like her grandmother.

As I drive around St. Paul after finishing the book, I find m
Jan 15, 2011 rated it really liked it
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I really enjoyed this book. Growing up around several Hmong people, I was shocked that I did not know the Hmong story. I read this book and it whetted my appetite to learn more about the Hmong people. Next, I read "The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down." This book explains the Hmong plight very well, and helped me understand The Late Homecomer more. My favorite part in this book was when the family came to the United States and she writes how they took a bath with a strange smelling soap and ...more
Feb 26, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
My introduction to Hmong people was when I first visited my daughter's family who had just moved to Wisconsin. There was a large, happy group of Asian people at the park. She told me they were Hmong. "What is Hmong?" I asked. She said they were from Viet Nam. She was sort of right. They did live in Viet Nam, but really they are a race, a culture, a community without a country. My daughter has since made many friends with Hmong, one of whom recommended she read this book. She did and recommended ...more
Zen Cho
Jan 10, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Strikingly beautiful memoir by Kao Kalia Yang, whom I heard of through the Radiolab controversy last year -- lovely, sad and loving.

Though perhaps it's not for me to say, not being As-Am, I think it's a very valuable representation of an Asian-American experience not often described -- one that's on the opposite end of the spectrum from your Tiger Mothers. The things Yang talks about -- the vulnerability of her parents and grandmother, the role reversal when kids have the skills to navigate a ne
May 19, 2008 rated it it was amazing
Kao Kalia Yang's written words read just like her spoken words sound - eloquent, sparse, and powerful in their own quiet, poetic way. Kalia's book is the first novel published by a Hmong American woman, and as a creative non-fiction memoir of her family's migration from the hills of Laos to refugee camps in Thailand to the cities of Minnesota, it makes a beautiful addition to the long history of Hmong storytelling as well as a promising start to what is likely to be an incredible career for Kali ...more
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This is an interesting memoir by a Hmong-American writer, about the experiences of a community that is opaque to many Americans. The Hmong are an ethnic minority who moved from China to Laos centuries ago; the Chinese outlawing their written language is apparently the reason they lack one even today. Many Hmong assisted the Americans in the Vietnam War, in which about a third of their population died; another third was killed in the persecution after the American army’s departure. The author’s p ...more
I heard her heartbeat answer my hug.

Love, for me, is the reason why we remember our lives in stories, with characters and places, vivid and true. It is easy to talk of the contents of a book. It is far harder to forget the love on encounters between the pages of lives. - the author
Jun 30, 2019 rated it it was amazing
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”A silence grew inside of me because I couldn’t say, that it was sometimes sad to be Hmong, even in America.”

This is how I sometimes feel being Hmong, living in America.

Most of how much I enjoyed this book had to do with the writing. It was beautiful and highly detailed which made this memoir captivating. You could see that Kao Kalia Yang really put time, thought, feelings, and compassion into writing this. (She also did a great job of narrating this on audiobook, FYI.)

This book emotionally res
Jun 05, 2012 rated it it was amazing
My mom gave me this book after meeting Kao Kalia Yang at an in-person event. I had heard of the Hmong people but knew nothing of their story. I found the account of the author's family's struggle during the Vietnam War to be so sad and heart-wrenching... no one should have to endure the fear and danger that they lived through. There is a quote attributed to Mark Twain that goes, "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry and narrow-mindedness." In this book, I traveled with Yang's family to Laos, th ...more
Jul 10, 2009 rated it liked it
This is a beautiful memoir, deftly written, and the arc of three generations of women's lives gives a wonderful resiliency to the text. There are repeated images - walking; typing; struggling to speak - but within the disparate worlds of Laos, Thailand, and the United States each theme takes on a different resonance. The author's focus on words - spoken, then written, and the relationship between the two in more than one language - is haunting, and I got chills when she wrote an essay in high sc ...more
Nov 19, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I worked with a Hmong guy for about a year and he told some stories about the fighting in Laos. He had a lot of kids. It is easy to imagine him as one of this woman's uncles. He had a similar history in St. Paul as her family.

It was really interesting to read about her introduction to America, Minnesota and especially the St. Paul Public School system.

The way she explains her grandmother, the central character of the story, is so slow, showing and not telling, leaving out over-wrought psycholog
Nov 07, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
It is good to know about the struggles of the Hmong people. The author is about four years younger than me, so all of her family's efforts to survive have taken place while I was living a parallel comfortable life. It is healthy to make this comparison and see that they have the same needs and desires and capabilities as my family. They just haven't been as fortunate. This book is beautifully written. What talent! ...more
Becki Iverson
Nov 14, 2018 rated it it was amazing
What a gorgeous, lyrical, important story. I'm ashamed to know so little about the Hmong experience as there is such a large community here in Minnesota. This book does a beautiful job of telling both the high level group commonalities and history of the Hmong, and making the struggle of Hmong people very personal through the poignant memoir about Yang's family's refugee journey. I knew a lot of vague high points of this story but this really hit home for me how scary it was to be Hmong in South ...more
Heidi Burkhart
Jun 26, 2021 rated it it was amazing
A beautiful, sensitive and pretty much heartbreaking story about the pain of a Hmong family relocating to the US after escaping Laos, living in Thailand as refugees, until the family finally comes as immigrants to the US. The American Dream isn't a part of their relocation experience, but despite all, they survive and succeed.

Beautifully written.

Yang is a writer to follow.
Apr 22, 2022 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Kao Kalia Yang's writing voice is so beautiful as she honors the story of her family and many others. A humbling, emotional, and eye-opening read for me. ...more
Sep 09, 2019 rated it really liked it
Kao Kalia Yang is so modest that she’s a minor character in her own memoir.

Memoirs often seem more auto-erotic than autobiographical, written to satisfy the author’s own throbbing ego. In “The Latehomecomer,” Kalia’s book about her family’s experiences as Hmong refugees, she goes hard in the opposite direction. It's almost an experiment- could you write a memoir and not talk about yourself at all? Reading this book, I sometimes wished that there was more Kalia in it. More bragging, more complain
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Kao Kalia Yang is an award-winning Hmong-American writer. She is a graduate of Carleton College and Columbia University. Yang is the author of the memoirs The Latehomecomer: A Hmong Family Memoir and The Song Poet. The Latehomecomer is the first Asian American authored and centered book to be added to the roster of the Literature to Life Program and a National Endowment for the Arts Big Read title ...more

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