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Как Пруст може да промени живота ви

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В недалечната 1997 г. Ален де Ботон сменя писането на романи с написването на едно дълго и вълнуващо есе със заглавието „Как Пруст може да промени вашия живот”, а книгата изненадващо става бестселър в категорията "Помогни си сам!".

Книгата, с която читателят може да разплете връзката между Монти Пайтън, потомката на Софроний Врачански и Марсел Пруст ни предлага решения на с
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Paperback, 226 pages
Published 2014 by Евролайн груп (first published 1997)
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BlackOxford
Words Are Your Homeland

One of the most important deficiencies in the philosophy of science (and business, which prides itself as a practical science) is the idea of efficiency of inquiry in scientific method - how to get an answer to a question at hand with the least possible effort. Efficiency is predicated on the idea that it is possible to pare down the world to some essential core - somewhat like finding the right principle in law - such that the matter seems to resolve itself through compel
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Matt Evans
Jul 10, 2008 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
My wife and I fell in love reading this book together (way back in September/October 2002). I don't know what anyone else will think of this book, but I'll never enjoy reading a book more. B and I left a note on Proust's grave when we visited Paris on our honeymoon. He is the (gay) patron saint of our marital union. Here's my best advice: read this book with a loved one.
Caroline
Jan 01, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Caroline by: Susan Riaz
At the risk of horrifying Proust aficionados I must admit that I did not read this book as a precursor to reading Proust, or even as a pleasurable supplement to his writings, but rather I read it instead of reading Proust. I have tried Proust in the past and I have failed.

Well, this book has come to my rescue, and I loved it. Not only did Alain de Botten explore and celebrate Proust's foibles and philosophies as a writer - he also gave us a fascinating picture of the man. We warm to Proust, we a
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Manuel Antão
Mar 10, 2017 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2017
If you're into stuff like this, you can read the full review.

A Strangely Claustrophobic Experience: “How Proust Can Change Your Life” by Alain de Botton “

"To make [reading] into a discipline is to give too large a role to what is only an incitement. Reading is on the threshold of the spiritual life; it can introduce us to it: it does not constitute it."

Quote from one of Proust’s books, In “How Proust Can Change Your Life” by Alain de Botton
 
“Even the finest books deserve to be thrown aside.”

In “
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Zanna
Jul 29, 2013 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: philosophy
With the gentlest possible mockery, de Botton makes a compelling case for celebrating and learning from an unlikely teacher: Marcel Proust. Here is some of his advice

Live passionately because we might die any time

Look for the familiar in art; be sensitised by it and improve your ability to notice and describe, and thus be at home everywhere; expand understanding of people's emotional depths

Learn from suffering, relish the insight it offers, use it to grow

Be honest about your feelings and attempt
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Daniel
Jun 30, 2009 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
A few years ago someone pointed out to me that the words "envy" and "jealousy" mean slightly different things; in the first case, the word implies only that you want something someone else has, whereas the second also includes the idea that you have a just claim to the desired object. Having said that, I would say that I am jealous of Alain de Botton rather than envying him; I mean, does this guy say anything deeper than what I spout off after a few glasses of wine? This little book contains suc ...more
Jon
Aug 11, 2009 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Written by Alain de Botton, How Proust Can Change Your Life is something of a conundrum. The book is at once a piece of literary criticism and a self-help book, and at the same time neither of those. That is, it analyzes the literature and life of Marcel Proust and is structured in the regular "how to" fashion of self-help manuals (with chapter titles such as "How to Suffer Successfully" and "How to Be a Good Friend"), but unlike most contemporary literary criticism it is written for a public au ...more
Kenny
Apr 14, 2019 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: french, proust
‘'THE SAD THING IS THAT PEOPLE HAVE TO BE VERY ILL OR HAVE BROKEN A LEG IN ORDER TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO READ IN SEARCH OF LOST TIME.’'
ROBERT PROUST


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More about Proust himself than how reading Proust can change your life, Alain de Botton's book was interesting if slight. It would be a great read for someone unfamiliar with Proust prior to reading IN SEARCH OF LOST TIME. An interesting read overall.

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Edward
Apr 18, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I just read that Oscar Wilde, when asked to provide a list of the “100 greatest books”, divided the list into three categories: books to be read, books to be reread, and books (overly praised) to be avoided at all costs. After 15 years I just REREAD de Botton’s book, and I can report that it’s definitely worth putting in the second category.

As expected, I had forgotten much of my first reading, and now I’m trying to decide if de Botton’s nine chapter headings, each beginning with “How to” is a
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Kaelan Ratcliffe▪Κάϊλαν Ράτκλιφ▪كايِلان راتكِليف
It Didn't Change My Life Unfortunately

Forewarning, this is quite a biased review that simply speaks from my experience of reading this novel, it's content very well may not apply to you. I feel I may have gone off the deep end without meaning to (considering this was a book I read on the side of others).

Please still consider picking this book up.

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I have to admit, this is the first book I've actually struggled to complete this year due to a lac
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W.D. Clarke
Most readers have a "guilty secret" kind of read that they secretly don't feel guilty about reading at all. After finishing a book that's more of a challenge, (say, v5 of ISOLT, which I just finished and loved, perhaps more than any other volume with the possible exception of Swann's Way) they may feel the need of a "palate cleanser", and gravitate to a mystery novel, for example: they may wish to be reading something, but also want to let the experience of the previous, more demanding book perc ...more
Marius van Blerck
An interesting book, with a misleading title. It is NOT about how Proust will change your life. Rather, it is a book exploring various themes in Proust's life and writings, some of which may parallel your own experiences, and some of which might explain some types of behavior. The book is often insightful and clever, but ultimately I was a little disappointed, as the author often opted for superficiality to make his point. This book could have been so much better if it had not been hampered by t ...more
Lyn Elliott
I relished every page of de Botton’s short, witty book about Proust’s life and work, written with affection and a keen eye for the ridiculous, as when we first see Proust: ‘a reclusive, moustachioed novelist, not known for his interest in golf, tennis or bridge [though he had once tried draughts, and twice aided in the launching of a kite], a man who had spent the last fourteen years lying in a narrow bed under a pile of thinly woven woollen blankets writing an unusually long novel without an ad ...more
Susan
Dec 27, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is a wryly humorous book, written with tongue firmly in cheek. The author uses a ‘Self-Help’ layout to unveil both a short biography of Proust himself and to incorporate the writer’s thoughts to show us how to appreciate his work and life in general. There are chapters on how to Love Life, Read for Yourself, Take Your Time, Suffer Successfully, Express Your Emotions, Be a Good Friend, Open Your Eyes, Be Happy in Love and Put Books Down.

Along the way we read of Proust’s meeting with James Jo
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Roxana Chirilă
How can Proust change my life? Well, he probably can't.

I read this book with one purpose in mind: to determine whether to start reading Proust at all. You see, I find it difficult to abandon books, and if a book is famous, the problem is even greater: whenever someone mentions it, I'll remember I haven't finished it and maybe I should.

Luckily, Alain de Botton saved me: I vaguely remembered him as being a "famous philosopher" or something of the sort, so I decided to kill two birds with one stone
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Antigone
Jul 02, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Marcel Proust was not built for speed. His health was poor due in large part to a severe asthmatic condition he developed as a child and struggled with throughout his maturity. While this did not prevent him from serving a year in the French army and, later, pursuing an active social life among a wide circle of friends, his physical exertions were few and his constitution so fearfully unreliable that he judged himself unable to engage in the practice of a standard profession. A brilliant mind, h ...more
Evanston Public  Library
If you think that a lazy, hypochondriacal, long-winded 19th Century French fancy man can have no relevance to your everyday life, then this book may just change your mind. No prior knowledge of Proust or his epic, seven volume novel In Search of Lost Time is necessary in order to read and enjoy this book, which falls somewhere between the realms of biography, lit crit, and self-help manual. In between sprinklings of delightfully odd facts from Proust’s life, De Botton analyzes the man’s notoriou ...more
Laura
Feb 14, 2008 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
"Proust said the great momments - like when he ate the madeleine dipped in tea - are those when we escape time. We do what we do in the present but we experience the same action in the past. Thus we are nowhere, neither in past nor present, the miracle of an analogy has freed us from the lockstep of time. He does not explain why this freedom should be so desireable, but presumably it is because time moves in only one direction, toward weakness and death. We embrace the things that allow us to tr ...more
Darwin8u
Dec 16, 2012 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2013
A nice petite primer on Proust. It travels similar ground as Bakewell's How to Live: A Life of Montaigne, Bryson's Shakespeare: The World as Stage, and even Wright's The Moral Animal: Why We Are the Way We Are. These books are not quite biography, not quite self help, but books that use the respective author's life/work/time as a peep stone into our own world.

Don't be distracted by De Botton's hyperbolic title. Neither he nor Proust is claiming any special power to change your life, but what th
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Smiley
Jan 08, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: philosophy, favorites
During my visits to Australia in the late 1990s and early 2000s, I noticed this paperback on display in various bookstores, thinking its title quite interesting but I had never known Alain de Botton or read him before. So I kept postponing finding a copy to read till I came across a second-hand, dog-eared copy in a now forgotten bookshop or a mobile one in Bangkok.

As an overview, this book looks at practical philosophy from which its readers can wisely apply in daily life. It's definitely one of
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Tanvika
Jul 11, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: living-now
A night
On the roof
My head is thinking laboriously
Brambles and thickets of triviality
Orange figures dance merrily
In the bitter cold
Seeing it ceaselessly
Gratitude enters
Imprinting a mark
Auspicious.







R.
Aug 16, 2007 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: violently miserable writers
Shelves: 2007
Sometimes it's the book you grab at the last second--not the books you came to the library for--that you end up sitting up with all night long.

Afterwards, sat outside with Mickey and reminisced about our childhood and what we expected from the future.

Also, that what we really wanted at 2 a.m. was a truckstop-black, piping hot coffee..."Yeah, me too! Why is that?"

We both...we both get that craving at 2 a.m.

Earlier, I picked up my copy of the new John Vanderslice album from Barnes & Noble (t
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Laurence
Having had In Search of Lost Time on my to read list for a while, but not wanting to dive into the deep, very unknown depths, I read this for guidance. And Botton as usual makes some very interesting insights while covering many of the themes, so served well as guide.
Thing is, after dipping the toe in, I no longer want to read Proust's seminal work.

I think Botton was able to condense what I would likely find an excruciating reading experience.
Jason Pettus
(Reprinted from the Chicago Center for Literature and Photography [cclapcenter.com]. I am the original author of this review, as well as the owner of CCLaP; it is not being reprinted illegally.)

I recently had the chance to hear philosopher Alain de Botton talk on the "On Being" podcast, and found him to be really fascinating; much like the Existentialists of Mid-Century Modernism, he's a "spiritual atheist" who has dedicated his career towards the pursuit of meaningful ritual and ethical code-bu
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♥ Ibrahim ♥
I am disappointed. I give de Boton credit for for being so much a genius and talented as a writer but his writing style is enormously disorienting for me and I can't keep up with him. I can't help but sense a nihilistic, atheistic spirit reeking from every page penned by him, thus feeling empty. Having read thirty pages or so in the book, I just could not keep going. I still can't see any practical value to what he was writing even though the book is supposed to be about "changing" my life. If a ...more
Beth Bonini
I’ve listed this book as ‘self-help’ more in jest than seriousness. Although the contemporary cultural philosopher Alain de Botton does make some salient points about human nature, drawing on Marcel Proust’s writing, I don’t think you can really expect this book to teach you ‘how to be happy in love’ or even ‘how to read for yourself’. There’s an underlying humour and irony in even using Proust as any kind of role model, much less lifestyle guru - and probably the most memorable bits of the book ...more
D.E. Meredith
Mar 11, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I never wanted to read anything by Alain de Botton on principle, giving into my deeply held, class driven prejdices thinking he was the epitome of the well heeled, Oxbridge/Havard (?) "Intellectual Snob", telling us how to live our lives - like what the hell does he know, from his Ivory Tower? How wrong could I be? I loved this book. Wry, laugh out loud funny in places and deeply touching. I take my hat off to you, Mr de Botton.

My University education - posh Cambridge college, sure but I was fro
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Ben
Feb 23, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I found Alain de Botton's How Proust Can Change Your Life much more enjoyable and interesting than I had at first imagined. I encountered this book at a used bookstore a few weeks ago, not knowing much about it (but having heard it mentioned at some point and referenced in Edmund White's little biography of Proust). I picked it up, read the back cover, flipped through it and passed. A week later I was in a different used bookstore in a different city and this book found me yet again. I once more ...more
JP
Sep 13, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Fabulous!!
Whether I should have read this book after reading Proust "In search of lost life" or this review book initiated me to order the book of five volume.
The author detailed about the Proust life and character which he displayed in books and in his life.
Lovely book
It contains the best portion of the Proust books and characters and interpretation in deepest way
I will come back after reading the Proust divine book of
In Search Of Lost Life!!
Ai Nhi
Dec 22, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I would sincerely recommend the chapter "How to be a good friend" of this book to those troubled by the feelings of lacking in authentic soulmate type of friendships in life.

First, the author wittily structured the book's title and table of contents in the cliche fashion of self-help book to make jokes of the bad quality of many superficial self-help books with “How to” and “Changing life” promises on the market. Obviously, I think Alan does not believe in reading a book to change one's course o
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Alain de Botton is a writer and television producer who lives in London and aims to make philosophy relevant to everyday life. He can be contacted by email directly via www.alaindebotton.com

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