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From the USA TODAY bestselling author of Sweet Thing and Nowhere But Here comes a love story about a Craigslist “missed connection” post that gives two people a second chance at love fifteen years after they were separated in New York City.

To the Green-eyed Lovebird:

We met fifteen years ago, almost to the day, when I moved my stuff into the NYU dorm room next to yours at S
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Paperback, 320 pages
Published August 18th 2015 by Atria Books
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Amy Harmon
Jul 21, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I got a chance to read an ARC of this book. I had never read anything by Renee Carlino before, but I have admired her from afar and had heard nothing but good things. I LOVED this book. And it made me cry. That rarely happens to me. I read with half my brain in critique mode. I can't help it. It must come from writing novels myself, but I can't ever turn off that part of my brain when I read anymore. But my brain was quiet and my heart was heavy in a lovely fat way. I highly recommend.
Christy
Jun 20, 2015 rated it really liked it
4 stars!

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To the Green-eyed Lovebird: We met fifteen years ago, almost to the day, when I moved my stuff into the NYU dorm room next to yours at Senior House….

I love stories about first loves. I love stories that go from past to present. And we all know I love Renee Carlino’s writing. I read Sweet Thing when it first came out and have been a huge fan ever since. This book had so many elements that I loved (view spoiler)
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Angela
Nov 05, 2015 rated it it was amazing
"she was perfect... poetry in motion- the evidence of a life burning well and bright."

I do not say this lightly... This is one of the best contemporary books I've ever read. If you know me, then you know contemporary is my least favorite genre. There are some thing I'd like to clear up right away though. BWWS isn't an action packed book with a massive slap you plot twist, and for some reason it is classified in the YA section of the book store. This novel is simply what it says it is, a sweet
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Aj the Ravenous Reader
Aug 05, 2015 rated it it was amazing
Recommended to Aj the Ravenous Reader by: Arch Bala

""From the time you’re born, you have no control; you can’t choose your parents, and, unless you’re suicidal, you can’t choose your death. The only thing you can do is choose the person you love, be kind to others, and make your brutally short stint on earth as pleasant as possible."



After this first Renee Carlino read, I’m an instant fan!

Grace and Matt first met as senior university students- best friends turned lovers. Each a perfect half of one perfect heart, torn apart by time and fate bu
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Arianna✦❋SteamyReadsBlog❋✦
3.5 Stars!!

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“Before We Were Strangers” is a sweet, emotional story about two individuals who fall for each other two times. It’s a story about falling in love for the first time/finding second chance at love. Intense and heartwarming, but also heartbreaking at times, this story is told both in the past and in the present from both MC characters’ perspective. You certainly will enjoy this story if you’re a fan of missed connections listings.

"To the Green-eyed Lovebird: We met fifteen years ago,
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Hulya Kara Yuksel
Jul 28, 2015 rated it it was amazing
The End and I'm crying so bad.. :( My God, It was phenomenal. This book gave me a lot things to think about. <3
I felt every sad and happy moment while I was reading it. I loved it so much... :)

Please just read this amazing book and don't forget to listen Jeff Buckley's Grace album while you're reading it. Link is below. :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bawbk...







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And Renee, thank you so much for this story. :)



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“You can’t re-create the first time you promise
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London
I need a good hour to sit down and vent everything that was wrong with this book. That fucking pathetic excuse for a hero that I would have loved to punch in the nuts! Ugh don't even get me started

I had fallen in love with him at the beginning only for everything to go completely downhill after 25%!

The book starts out in his POV and for the first 20 some oddd % into the book I was thinking "omg finally a 5 star read!" I was so sure that this was going to be an epic love story but it all went do
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Pavlina Read more sleep less blog❤❤
IT'S LIVE

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5 BEAUTIFUL STARS


Such a beautiful,sweet,heartbroken,intense and emotional story!!I didn't want to finish it!It felt so realistic and unique and I had so many feelings while I was reading it!This story touched me in so many ways that there are moments that I was crying and other moments where I was smiling and swooning because I was so happy!The story is told both in the present and in the past and this made me feel so insi
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Geri Reads
Aug 16, 2015 rated it really liked it
This book sort of sneaked up on me. Despite the fact that it used one of my least favorite plot devices in romance ever, I still ended up liking this a lot.

Matt and Grace met during their senior year at NYU. Grace is a music major while Matt is photography. They immediately bonded from the moment they met through their mutual love of the arts and Jeff Buckley. Slowly but surely their friendship evolved from friendship into something more. They became inseparable but the end of college, miscommu
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Michelle
Jun 22, 2015 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: 01-signed
This blurb was probably one of the most intriguing and captivating blurbs I’ve stumbled across. The moment I read it, this book became an obsession. I needed to read it, I had to.

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Matt has the career most photographers would kill for. Fifteen years, an esteemed position working for National Geographic and a Pulitzer Prize photo adorning his wall. But a career isn’t everything. Divorced and standing still in a city that moves at the speed of light, Matt is lost. Then one day it happens. He sees
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Jaidee
Oct 28, 2015 rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: hopeless romantics
Recommended to Jaidee by: gifted to me by my first love.
4.5 "over the moon with swoon!" stars

2015 Honorable Mention Read

I cannot believe how much I cried and smiled with this sweet contemporary romance.

This book came in my e-mail box last week from my first love when I was sixteen. She wrote some very sweet words and ended by saying that this book made her feel so young and in love (which we were for the year she was visiting from Czechoslovakia). We are still the best of friends and have been there for each other through severe illnesses, divorces
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Allison ❤️Will Never Conquer Her TBR❤️

4 Second Chance Stars!

To the Green-eyed Lovebird: We met fifteen years ago, almost to the day, when I moved my stuff into the NYU dorm room next to yours at Senior House........


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Before We Were Strangers
had a book blurb that captured my attention immediately. What a unique spin on a second chance romance...Missed Connections on Craigslist. Couple that with the fact that this is written by Renee Carlino, the author of one of my favorite NA romance novels, Sweet Thing, I couldn't wait to dive in
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Judith
Aug 20, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
*** JUST AMAZING... ***





This book had me feeling all kinds of emotions...it totally captivated me.Just a wonderful piece of writing.It's a story of the beautiful thing that is first love and second chances.
First love...all the tangled emotions that come with it.The hopes,the dreams,the insecurities but because you love so hard you firmly believe in the future...
Second chances...how mistakes and misunderstanding can shape the pattern of your lives...





The story starts in the present day where Matt i
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Catarina
4 Second Chance Stars.

Matt and Grace fell in love during college and they thought it would be forever. Unfortunately life got in the way and for the next 15 years they didn’t see each other and their lives moved on in different directions.
In only took one random morning for them to see each other again in the NY subway in a way and life bring them together again. But 15 years change a lot of things, so can this be their second change of re-kindle their love or sometimes life is too different
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Aestas Book Blog
Oct 06, 2014 rated it really liked it


Once there was a you and me
We were lovers
We were friends
Before life changed
Before we were strangers
Do you still think of me?

This is a book that grabs your attention from the first few pages. There’s an air of excitement to it — the twist of fate, the second chance, the luck that reunites these two lovers after a fifteen year separation. It’s a feeling that makes your heart race and your palms tingle, it begs you to turn the page, and Renee Carlino’s beautiful writing keeps you lost in the s
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Jennifer Kyle
Dec 14, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
4.25 "Make me Believe" Stars
Wendy'sThoughts
Jul 02, 2015 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: Renee Carlino Fans, Romance, Second Chance
4.5 To Reclaim What Was Lost Stars * * * * 1/2
There are times in our lives we wish we could do over...have different outcomes...But to do them over would mean other, wonderful other things would not exist. So, we think about the past and then put it away and appreciate all the good we have now. Because the past is the past, right...

But what if you had the opportunity to reconnect with the one who meant the most to you...
The one who showed you the best of yourself and you truly loved...The one wh
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Jenny••Steamy Reads Blog••
I’m late to the party on this one.

Keeping it short. This book tugged me in different directions. I loved it, I liked it, and I wanted to throw the book.

This book starts in the present, Matt & Grace seeing each other for the first time in 15 years. It’s a glimpse of each other that ignited unresolved feelings. From there the book goes back to relive their past up until the current future. So many regrets, so many lost opportunities, so much lost love, the amount of hurt, so much unresolved..
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Ramona
Feb 21, 2016 rated it really liked it
Renee Carlino where have you've been all my life?

This was my first book from her and I loved it to pieces. What an original and sweet book it was..
The plot runs throughout a long period of time, beginning with Matt's and Grace senior year at NYU. Grace is a talented musician and Matt a photographer. From the moment they met, a lot of things binds them, like the passion for art and music. Around each other they could be themselves and be happy, despite having difficulties in other aspects of the
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Melissa (Ever So Mela)

Sometimes time is just something, no matter how hard we try, we can't get right. We meet this person. They're peculiar in their own way, having this uniqueness to them that we can't help but befriend. This person that’s able to bring out the very best in your overly complicated and dynamic personality. Who’s able to see through all the BS, who understands you, and not in that superficial kind of way, but the very core of your essence. And sometimes that friendship turns into something so much mo
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Ninoska Goris
Feb 28, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Es la historia de Grace y Matt, los cuales están destinados a estar juntos, pero no se encuentran en el momento correcto.

Captura la magia del primer amor y de cómo puede superarlo todo.

Encontré un pedazo de mi alma en este libro y lo terminé con lagrimas de felicidad. A veces necesitamos un recordatorio de que el verdadero amor lo puede todo.

Definitivamente uno de los mejores libros que he leído.

✨✨✨

This is Grace and Matt’s story, destinated to be together, but the time is not right. Didn’t fi
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Akanksha❤ Søren♰
Loved it.
This book was...
Beautiful
Amazing
Heart Warming
Lovely
Adorable
Perfect!


The authors writing style is so beautiful, simple and yet amazing at the same time.
I loved the story.
A must read. :)
AJ
A ONCE-IN-A-LIFETIME LOVE, AND AN AMAZING STORY OF RECONNECTION.

5 ‘ALL THE FEELS’ STARS


I loved this book! It features two of my favourite kinds of stories - a gorgeously sweet NA romance, and then an amazingly beautiful reconnection between two people years after they parted but who have never been able to let each other go. This story is written so beautifully, I was immediately sucked in, I went on an absolute rollercoaster of emotions and my heart was pounding the whole way through. So standb
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KAS
Dec 01, 2016 rated it it was amazing
I FELL IN "WUV" WITH THIS BOOK!!!

Let me introduce you to .......

Graceland Marie Starr & Matthias William Shore (aka, Matt & Grace)

Their's is a love story that was interrupted by lies and deception. Regret, manipulation, and raw pain tore them apart in the past and threatens to keep them apart in the present.

Let me begin with ....... The Present, after Their Past .......

Matt is thirty-six, divorced and his life is stuck in neutral. He works for National Geographic and for years traveled t
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Natasha is a Book Junkie
FULL REVIEW NOW POSTED:

“You were always with me, Grace. I never found a way to let you go.”

It only takes one visit to New York City to understand why so many timeless works of fiction happen to take place here, why so many unforgettable love stories are inspired by this city, and just how many recognizable icons of this great metropolis are now reminders of some of the greatest books we’ve ever read. And we can now add another one to that list of greats. A love story spanning over more tha
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Kim Bailey
4 STARS

This book is so perfectly sweet.



I absolutely adored the way this book started, with a missed connection. I've always loved reading missed connection ads ... something about them just makes me feel like there's hope for love and second chances. I love second chance romances ... this one was no exception.

Ms Carlino does a wonderful job of taking the reader back to witness the development of the sweet friends to lovers tale of Matt & Grace. Their playful banter and youthful optimism is a
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Jiana
Aug 27, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorites
This book has been on my TBR for a very, very long time. I kept on postponing reading it for no reason. I only decided to read it now because I'm in a very strong slump and I think I needed a contemporary/NA binge to get out of it.

And you guys, I binged it alright! I read it in one sitting. It took me 3 hours. Never in my life have I read an entire book in one sitting and never in my life have I read a book in 3 hours. That's how addictive and amazing this book was. On top of that, giving conte
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Beverly
Aug 23, 2015 rated it really liked it
4 - 4.5 Stars


Time passes, life goes on, places change, people change. And still, I couldn’t get Grace off my mind after seeing her… Fifteen years is too long to be holding on to a few heart-pounding moments from college.


This story, the heartbreak and utter devastation I felt for these characters. For real, my heart just broke for them! The story is told in three parts: Present, Past, Present.

The first present shows where Matt is now, he is working for National Geogaphic, divorced and pretty
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Masooma
Sep 13, 2015 rated it really liked it
Recommended to Masooma by: Aj the Ravenous Reader
This one's for you AJ Happy Birthday, darling <3

All love that has no friendship for its base is like a mansion built on sand.

Matt and Grace meet in their senior year and become fast friends. Matt as a passionate photographer and Grace as an ardent musician. They play and photograph their friendship into strong bonds until they realize that their friendship has started to build a strong castle of love. It's real. It is passionate until 'Life' happens.

At the age of 21, both are young and enslav
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Angela (Reading Frenzy Book Blog)
Let me just cut to the chase. I freaking loved this book! The synopsis sounded unique and, given my weakness for second chance love stories, I knew I had a potential winner on my hands. Well, it delivered all that and a bag of chips! I absolutely devoured it. Before We Were Strangers is easily one of my favorite books of 2015.

The book is divided into two sections: Then (15 years ago) and Now.

Then
Matt, a transfer student from California, meets Grace, a gifted cellist, when he moves into her do
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“The present is our own. The right-this-second, the here-and-now, this moment before the next, is ours for the taking. It’s the only free gift the universe has to offer. The past doesn’t belong to us anymore, and the future is just a fantasy, never guaranteed. But the present is ours to own. The only way we can realize that fantasy is if we embrace the now.” 80 likes
“You can’t re-create the first time you promise to love someone or the first time you feel loved by another. You cannot relive the sensation of fear, admiration, self-­consciousness, passion, and desire all mixed into one because it never happens twice. You chase it like the first high for the rest of your life. It doesn’t mean you can’t love another or move on; it just means that the one spontaneous moment, the split second that you took the leap, when your heart was racing and your mind was muddled with What ifs?—that moment—will never happen the same way again. It will never feel as intense as the first time. At least, that’s the way I remember it. That’s why my mother always said we memorialize our past. Everything seems better in a memory.” 65 likes
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