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Make Your Home Among Strangers

Jennine Capo Crucet (Goodreads Author)

3.70 · Rating details · 1,997 ratings · 315 reviews

The arresting debut novel from award-winning writer Jennine Capó Crucet

When Lizet—the daughter of Cuban immigrants and the first in her family to graduate from high school—secretly applies and is accepted to an ultra-elite college, her parents are furious at her decision to leave Miami. Just weeks before she's set to start school, her parents divorce and her father sells ...more

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Aug 03, 2015 Angela M rated it really liked it

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Just after I started reading this book , I came across an article on LitHub by Jennine Capo Crucet on how she was inspired to write this book . I always appreciate hearing what might have been the one little or the one big thing that created the spark to write a particular book. I'm including a link to the article because it really illustrates how much she knows of what she writes . http://lithub.com/when-a-novel-demand...

The novel begins with Lizet who is a lab manager in a research group study
Just after I started reading this book , I came across an article on LitHub by Jennine Capo Crucet on how she was inspired to write this book . I always appreciate hearing what might have been the one little or the one big thing that created the spark to write a particular book. I'm including a link to the article because it really illustrates how much she knows of what she writes . http://lithub.com/when-a-novel-demand...

The novel begins with Lizet who is a lab manager in a research group studying "the demise of coral reef systems everywhere ", but the focus of the story lies in her past. She's one of two daughters of Cuban immigrants living in Miami and she's smart enough to get accepted into an elite college in New York. Just as she leaves for college her family is falling apart . They are abandoned by her father and forced to move to a small apartment .

At school Lizet gets quite lost in her first semester , floundering in her classes . She doesn't fit in with the well to do , white college students and isn't always honest with them . These people don't really understand who she is or where she came from and at times she doesn't seem to know either . She goes home on break and doesn't feel a sense of belonging there either.

This theme of identity and belonging also plays out with other characters. Some may remember the plight of Elian Gonzalez, the young Cuban boy whose mother dies when trying to seek asylum for them as they come across on a raft from Cuba to Miami in 1999. I distinctively remember being gripped by this little boy's story and will never forget the scene I saw on TV, when he is taken away from his Cuban relatives to be returned to his father in Cuba . Crucet has fictionalized him into Ariel Hernandez and Lizet's mother becomes intimately and fanatically involved in trying to keep the young boy in the U.S. where he "belongs ". Lizet 's mother who seems to have lost herself as her husband deserts her and her daughter leaves for college. She latches on to the cause of saving Ariel , even making up stories about her own immigration. I felt sad for her but also for Lizet and her sister who feel abandoned by their mother and their father .

Ultimately this is Lizet's story as she rises to the challenge of finding herself , while torn between cultures , places, loyalties to her family and to her own dreams . While slow going at times , I found myself invested in Lizet's coming of age story and I'll be watching for what Crucet may write in the future .

Thanks to St. Martin's Press and NetGalley ...more

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May 18, 2015 Esil rated it really liked it

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3 1/2 stars. Make your Home Amongst Strangers has the makings of a really good book, and it was good but some aspects didn't quite work for me. As a first novel though, it is very strong and I will definitely look for the author's book of short stories and next novels. The story takes place in 1999 and 2000. Lizet was born in Miami to parents who immigrated to the U.S. from Cuba when they were teenagers. Lizet's world is the Cuban community in Miami until she is accepted at a fictional Ivy Leagu 3 1/2 stars. Make your Home Amongst Strangers has the makings of a really good book, and it was good but some aspects didn't quite work for me. As a first novel though, it is very strong and I will definitely look for the author's book of short stories and next novels. The story takes place in 1999 and 2000. Lizet was born in Miami to parents who immigrated to the U.S. from Cuba when they were teenagers. Lizet's world is the Cuban community in Miami until she is accepted at a fictional Ivy League school in New York State. From then on, she experiences the challenge of not belonging anywhere. She is ill equipped to understand the Ivy League world she has entered -- a world that is quick to pigeon hole her as a minority student and that she too often misreads. At home, no one except her father who is estranged from the family, has any understanding or respect or interest in the route she had chosen. In the background, her mother is developing a public persona as part of the campaign to keep Ariel Hernandez -- the Cuban boy whose mother died on a raft from Cuba to Miami -- which irks Lizet and distances her from her mother further. The story is told in the first person from Lizet's point of view. One of the strengths of the book is that Lizet is far from perfect and her reactions and impulses often do nothing to help her circumstances -- many times I wanted to give her a shake. This is a strength because it feels more real and certainly is a more realistic picture of the challenges involved in bridging such broad cultural and economic divides. It was also a really interesting glimpse into the Cuban American community --which I recognize is not unidimensional. Unlike many Americans, because I am Canadian I have had an opportunity to travel to Cuba many times, generally as a tourist but sometimes for work. As a consequence, I don't have a sense of polarized negativity toward Cuba that comes through in this book -- although I don't have rose coloured glasses either I can assure you. So it was interesting to see Cuba from Lizet and her family's perspective. The weaknesses for me are probably typical of a first novel -- at times is felt long and a bit meandering. And I found the subplot involving Lizet's mother's involvement with Ariel's story didn't quite work for me -- her mother never jelled as a real person. Certainly, it was still worth the read -- especially to see Lizet struggle between her two worlds. And the political undercurrent is important -- the author makes a real dig at the poverty -- in both senses of the word -- of the public school system Lizet comes from in Miami and how elite universities need to step up their game to create a more hospitable environment for students who don't come from privileged backgrounds. Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an opportunity to read an advance copy. ...more

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May 18, 2015 Elyse Walters rated it it was amazing

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Compulsively Readable ....A universal tale..... going off to College...being
classified as a minority student ... And all the trials and tribulation that come along
with it.

Liset is from Miami ...
Parents are cuban immigrants ... having recently divorced ...
Older sister Leidy, is living at home with her mother in a small apt. ( with her new baby, Dante, as a single mom)
The father left his wife at the same time Liset leaves for her Freshman year to Rawling's University in New York.
Liset leaves ...more

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Jul 19, 2015 Diane S ☔ rated it really liked it

3.5 Lizet, youngest daughter of Cuban parents, is accepted as a scholarship student at a prestigious college. Her parents marriage breaks up, her dad moving out at the same time Lizet leaves Miami to go east to school.

Lizet is an interesting character that we will see change and grow throughout this story. The first in her family to go to college she has a rough road to tow. She doesn't feel that she fits into her college's environment, misses her familiar life back at home. That however, is cha ...more

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Sep 23, 2015 Marie rated it it was ok

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This book was fine, not what I expected based on the description, and got tiresome as it progressed. I'm a little suspicious when newer, younger authors (especially those who look suspiciously like their main characters) write a book centered on leaving home and going off to college. It makes me wonder if perhaps they haven't had enough life experiences to write about other topics, and this book in particular screams of a tweaked memoir passed off as fiction.

To me, there were several glaring pr This book was fine, not what I expected based on the description, and got tiresome as it progressed. I'm a little suspicious when newer, younger authors (especially those who look suspiciously like their main characters) write a book centered on leaving home and going off to college. It makes me wonder if perhaps they haven't had enough life experiences to write about other topics, and this book in particular screams of a tweaked memoir passed off as fiction.

To me, there were several glaring problems.

First, there's supposed to be this big huge independence vs. family dichotomy, which would be great, except Lizet's family doesn't seem all that loving or capable of a single emotionally intelligent thought. They are all mean-spirited, callous, petty, and unable to think past the present moment. None are likable, and as a reader I experienced no internal tug whatsoever toward the possibility that Lizet should spend more time with them. The only one who stood out as mildly reasonable was Omar, and even he was strangely unable to grasp why a college education might be important.

Second, I'm not at all convinced that Lizet IS smart or capable enough to go to Rawlings, a fact that the story relies upon. She sounds like someone who would benefit GREATLY by going to community college before attending a college or university, learning how to properly cite her work, how to handle herself in an academic setting, study habits, etc. and then doing much better in that college once she transfers.

Third, I don't believe that the "typical white person" opinion of Ariel/Elian Gonzalez was depicted correctly. I was nine during that event and lived in a typical, largely conservative suburb and listened to teachers and friends' parents talk about this political issue. NONE of them thought that Elian should be sent back to Cuba. Their opinion was that America is the most glorious country of freedom, liberty, and justice, under God, undivided, for all, and we must save this godless communist soul that has washed up on our shores of liberty.

I typically enjoy rambling family dramas, but the problem with this novel is that in order to build up a book around unlikeable characters, the characters have to be nuanced and interesting. These characters were not. I didn't understand Lizet's dad's motivations or actions, nor did I find her mom sympathetic in any way. Lizet was fine to me, maybe only because I was also a very stupid new college admit who thought moving out of my parents' home was a big huge deal, and I also made frustratingly stupid mistakes that could have easily been prevented. This book was fine, I made it through and even looked forward to reading it, but it didn't impress me, and I can't think of anyone I would recommend this to. ...more

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May 24, 2015 Navdeep Singh Dhillon rated it it was amazing

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I've often wondered about the experiences of minorities at Ivy League colleges, and this novel explores this with some real depth. The characters are very accessible and it's wonderfully written. Jennine tackles a subject I've always been curious about, but have never seen represented in fiction: the experience of being a minoritiy in a very white space. Liz secretly applies to an elite college, and leaves Miami to attend, which creates a fall out back in Miami. At college, Liz suddenly feels li ...more

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Feb 22, 2015 Taryn Pierson rated it liked it

This book should be required reading for high school teachers and undergraduate advisors. Having taught high school myself, I understand quite well how wide the gulf has become in the US between the skills required to earn a diploma from a public high school and those demanded by most four-year colleges. It's why universities now find themselves having to offer more and more sections of remedial courses—many of the 18-year-olds arriving each fall don't have mastery of the basics. They may have g This book should be required reading for high school teachers and undergraduate advisors. Having taught high school myself, I understand quite well how wide the gulf has become in the US between the skills required to earn a diploma from a public high school and those demanded by most four-year colleges. It's why universities now find themselves having to offer more and more sections of remedial courses—many of the 18-year-olds arriving each fall don't have mastery of the basics. They may have graduated high school and met college admission requirements, but they aren't able to write an essay or read and comprehend complicated textbooks. And the task is even more difficult for students who are the first in their families to attend college, like Lizet, the main character in Make Your Home Among Strangers.

Born in Miami to Cuban parents, Lizet grew up attending public schools along with her older sister, Leidy. In her senior year of high school she decides to apply to Rawlings, an elite liberal arts school in New York, without her parents' knowledge. She is terrified of disappointing them and feels conflicted about abandoning what would surely be a comfortable, certain future with her boyfriend Omar, but something in Lizet, some spark of ambition, won't let her settle for the same life all her peers are set to live. She wants something more. So when her acceptance letter arrives, she decides to leave Miami and pursue her dreams in New York.

But Rawlings isn't anything like Lizet expected. She may have been a star student at her underfunded public high school in Florida, but at Rawlings she's barely able to keep her head above water. She pushes herself, studying nonstop, but it's clear she is totally unprepared for the level of rigor college demands. Beyond her serious academic concerns, Lizet also struggles to adjust to the social cues of the other students, who are almost all white, and they to hers. Case in point: her roommate always introduces her by announcing, “This is Lizet. She's Cuban.”

When a young boy named Ariel Hernandez makes national news, Lizet's roommate and friends force her into the awkward and unenviable position of unofficial spokesperson for all Cuban people. Ariel and his mother attempted to escape Cuba on a raft bound for Miami, but when only Ariel survives the trip, his presence in the US causes a whirlwind of controversy as to where he really belongs. The situation stirs up lots of ambivalent feelings in Lizet, who has never had to explain or justify her “Cuban-ness” to anyone before.

The culture shock Lizet experiences when she arrives at Rawlings is the most compelling aspect of the novel. The author does a great job of putting the reader inside Lizet's head to explain some of her more self-destructive choices early on—which is reason enough to read this book, I think.

I did have a few quibbles with the writing, though, which kept me from fully engaging. At several points the narrative loses momentum, a problem that could have been solved with a few judicious cuts. Oddly, Lizet as a narrator goes on far too long, yammering and navel-gazing, yet despite the constant flow of words, her motivations often remain obscured. Some of her choices, particularly how she acts toward Omar and her parents, were completely inexplicable to me. That could certainly be attributed to my lack as a reader, but since I felt I understood some of her other actions, such as choices she made at school, it seems more likely that those scenes back in Miami could have used some fine-tuning.

With regards to St. Martin's Press and NetGalley for the advance copy. On sale today, August 4!

More book recommendations by me at www.readingwithhippos.com ...more

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Aug 08, 2015 BookgirlonGoodreads rated it did not like it

One of the most boring books I have ever read. I did actually finish it, somehow. The story could have been interesting, but it dragged painfully and the writing was not beautiful so you didn't just enjoy reading for the sake of reading great prose. I could tell the author thought that's what she was doing the way she would end chapters with these sentences that were meant to be devastating in their simplicity but no they were just BORING. I think the idea of a novel that tries to bridge a gap b ...more

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Aug 10, 2015 MARILYN rated it liked it

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Not a bad book but rather tedious and boring at times. I thought the issues faced by family to be real, but didn't care much for the characters.

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May 30, 2017 Rebecca McPhedran rated it really liked it

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Lizet Ramirez is a first generation college student from Miami. Her first year at college coincides with a young boy from Cuba coming to the United States. She is an outcast in her family because of her choice to go away to school.
Her guilt at being away from her family, as well as the social and academic challenges she faces at a prestigious school, put a lot of stress on her. You root for her the entire time, and the story is structured as such, that you are constantly afraid that she will be ...more

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Jan 11, 2015 Renae rated it liked it

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I think any work of fiction has the potential to touch someone, to impact them, regardless of content. However, those books where you see your own experience mirrored in characters’ lives tend to mean more. They validate you, make you feel less alone. For me, Make Your Home Among Strangers was one such book. The story of its protagonist, Lizet, was one I could easily identify with, one that made me nod my head and think “I’ve totally felt that!” at almost every page. So, in this way, it’s specia I think any work of fiction has the potential to touch someone, to impact them, regardless of content. However, those books where you see your own experience mirrored in characters’ lives tend to mean more. They validate you, make you feel less alone. For me, Make Your Home Among Strangers was one such book. The story of its protagonist, Lizet, was one I could easily identify with, one that made me nod my head and think “I’ve totally felt that!” at almost every page. So, in this way, it’s special.

There are not, at least as far as I know, many books about first-generation Latino college students, and Jennine Capó Crucet has talked about how she wrote this book with that specific audience in mind. So, for me, a first generation Latina college student, reading Make Your Home Among Strangers was this process of understanding that others felt the way I have over the past few years and recognizing similar experiences, while also appreciating the differences between my life and Lizet’s—there is no universal Latina reality.

Which is not to say that Make Your Home Among Strangers was only a book about Latinas in college, or that only Latinos who’ve gone to college should read it—I imagine that anyone might read this book and gain something from it, regardless of ethnicity or situation. However, for me, the sense of recognition and belonging I felt while reading this book were what stood out, what made me stop and think.

I think of that moment, freshman year, when my White roommate would make offhand comments about Mexicans that she didn’t intend to be offensive, but only served to make me feel more alienated in an already uncomfortable environment. I think about all the comments about “affirmative action” I’ve received from fellow students when I reveal that I attend college on a full-tuition scholarship for Hispanic merit recognition. I think about the complete befuddlement and lostness that I felt (and sometimes still feel) when attempting to navigate the complex world of college—sure, there’s the office of academic success and intercultural affairs, which exists to help students like me, but the last thing I want to do is admit that I’m in over my head.

For all these reasons, Lizet’s story resonated with me. I’m not Cuban and I certainly can’t speak to those specific themes in the book, but she and I have much more in common than is typical when I read a work of fiction. This is, again, why books written by marginalized authors, about marginalized characters, are so important. Recognizing yourself in a book is more validating than one might think, and that’s what made Make Your Home Among Strangers so important to me. ...more

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Mar 27, 2015 Dottie rated it it was amazing

Recommends it for: people interested in the emigrant culture and its effect on a second generation

Recommended to Dottie by: Book Browse

A really interesting look at what is really involved when a young person attempts to leave their home - with their parents expectations - and move into what is really a different culture. Lizet is the daughter of Cuban emigrants whose only goal for her is marriage to her high school boy friend and life in the neighborhood. She is a very bright young woman who manages - without her parents knowledge or approval - to gain acceptance to a very selective college in New York. Unprepared for the cultu ...more

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Aug 17, 2015 Susana rated it liked it · review of another edition

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Tenía grandes expectativas centradas en este libro: admiro profundamente a los escritores cubanos en Cuba y aún más a los exiliados, retratan con humor, amor, amargura, realismo, poesía, desencanto, con un profundo sentido crítico, la realidad difícil de un país que concibió un gran sueño, una gran utopía, que muy rápidamente devino en pesadilla, escritores de la talla de Eliseo Diego, Jesús Díaz, Daína Chaviano, Leonardo Padura, Guillermo Cabrera Infante, Zoé Valdés, por mencionar solo los prim Tenía grandes expectativas centradas en este libro: admiro profundamente a los escritores cubanos en Cuba y aún más a los exiliados, retratan con humor, amor, amargura, realismo, poesía, desencanto, con un profundo sentido crítico, la realidad difícil de un país que concibió un gran sueño, una gran utopía, que muy rápidamente devino en pesadilla, escritores de la talla de Eliseo Diego, Jesús Díaz, Daína Chaviano, Leonardo Padura, Guillermo Cabrera Infante, Zoé Valdés, por mencionar solo los primeros que vienen a mi memoria.

De allí que, cuando vi entusiastas recomendaciones sobre el nuevo libro de una escritora "cubano-americana", i.e. hija de cubanos nacida en Hialeah, Florida, USA, esperé ansiosamente su publicación. No es que el libro sea malo, no es lo que esperaba, pero debo confesar que la culpa es toda mía, porque muy probablemente represente a esas nuevas generaciones de hijos de cubanos, nacidos en los Estados Unidos, con experiencias más cercanas a cualquier inmigrante latinoamericano que a los familiares que permanecieron en la Isla, al menos en lo que sus expectativas y sueños se refiere. En particular, me resultó particularmente ajena, como mujer venezolana, que el sueño de las adolescentes cubano-americanas sea "atrapar a un buen marido", sin ninguna aspiración de estudiar, trabajar, hasta diría de formar parte del american dream, concentrados en su barrio cubano-americano, que habla español y mantiene las costumbre cubanas.

Desde mi punto de vista, lo más interesante del libro es el choque cultural que enfrenta la protagonista cuando sale de Hialeah a estudiar a Rawlings, una prestigiosa universidad, y, por primera vez en su vida, se encuentra inmersa en la cultura norteamericana, y necesita estudiarla para entenderla; la ceguera de la madre en aceptar el mérito que supone que sea la primera en su familia, la primera en su barrio, en lograr tan meritoria distinción, ser aceptada en una universidad de primera línea.

El evento central del libro, sin embargo, es la reacción del pueblo cubano de Hialeah ante la llegada del balserito Ariel, que evidentemente es un tibio disfraz de Elián González, aquel niño que fue el centro de las noticias hace unos 15 años, por la infructuosa batalla campal para que se quedara en Estados Unidos. Y aquí abundan los elementos que no terminaron de convencerme del libro; por ejemplo, la protagonista se queja que sus compañeros de estudios de Rawlings no entiendan que una madre esté dispuesta a dar su vida y arriesgar la de su hijo para escapar de Cuba, en busca de mejores condiciones de vida, pero en ningún momento se explica o plantea en el libro las precarias condiciones de vida en la isla, la represión de la disidencia o la inexistencia de espacios democráticos, es una especie de dogma o auto de fé por parte de los hijos de inmigrantes, que todo el mundo debe compartir y conocer "porque sí".

Al final, la única salida de la protagonista es aceptar su "transculturación", abandonar quien fue hasta ese momento, su "cubanidad", para poder explorar otro estilo de vida, más americano, en palabras de Jennine Capo Crucet:

"...and there was nothing left for me to do except for what I did: I walked away, back to where I’d come from, grabbed my bag, then left that house and eventually that city, kept leaving, year after year, until where I was from became, each time, the last place I left, until home meant an address, until home meant only as much as my memory of that morning would betray."

Un libro ligero para conocer las desventuras de una joven cubano-americana en la actualidad. ...more

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Sep 15, 2015 Tina rated it it was amazing

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"Make Your Home Among Strangers" follows Lizet Ramirez, a young Cuban-American woman leaving her home in Miami for the elite campus of Rawlings College. As the first in her family to attend college, Lizet faces the challenge of trading in her family and heritage for an academic world that leaves her both confused and isolated in her freshman year. Add on to that the tumultuous arrival of Ariel Hernandez (think Elian Gonzalez circa 2000) in Miami and her mother's obsession with his case, and Lize ...more

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Sep 29, 2015 Linda Doyle rated it really liked it

As a Latina who attended a highly regarded university, I am able to relate to this story of a young Cuban-American who leaves her Florida home for a college education at an elite institution in upper state New York. She is torn about her decision, feels she doesn't deserve a college education, that she is separating from her family by choosing to move away. Her sense of alienation within a white student population is very real and intricately described.

There is so much I admire about this book: ...more

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Jul 06, 2015 Melissa rated it did not like it

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I really wish I could say that I liked the book, but I can't. I forced myself to finish it, waiting for the story to take a better turn, but it never came. I honestly just wanted to shake all the characters up, so they could move on and do something with theirs lives...

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Oct 10, 2015 Lauren rated it it was amazing

This is a breathtaking debut and a must-read for anyone who works with first generation to college students. Added bonus that the author used to work for One Voice in LA! Capo Crucet's novel is both engrossing and heartbreaking - I very much look forward to her next work.

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Jan 23, 2016 Linda rated it it was amazing

Oh, this book! Jennine Capo Crucet has written a beautiful, terrible, moving story that will keep me thinking for a long time to come about how difficult it is to go home and how one really defines home in the first place.

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Dec 22, 2015 Rincey rated it liked it

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3.5 stars

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Sep 10, 2015 Sarah Jedd rated it it was amazing

This book. You guys. Go read this book.

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Apr 18, 2018 Sheri rated it really liked it

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I really liked the first half or so of this book. I found Lizet to be very compelling and Crucet is full of astute observations about humanity: "I was doing something I'd done hundreds of times before, but I was suddenly aware of my performance of making cafe con leche, of trying to pass for what I thought I already was." and especially about race and class issues.

As a first generation college student myself (and one with a MS and almost a PhD), I get the tension between family who does not und I really liked the first half or so of this book. I found Lizet to be very compelling and Crucet is full of astute observations about humanity: "I was doing something I'd done hundreds of times before, but I was suddenly aware of my performance of making cafe con leche, of trying to pass for what I thought I already was." and especially about race and class issues.

As a first generation college student myself (and one with a MS and almost a PhD), I get the tension between family who does not understand the culture and students from stronger cultural capital at a small, elite private school: "I didn't want to see myself anymore--I recognized it as exactly that, even at the beginning of it, when I couldn't name it: Lizet playing a part. I'd thought a shirt from Leidy's clubbing stash would cover me by not covering me, would turn me back into El, but I was separate from her now, aware I was putting her on, and that colored everything." . I also get the money worries and embarrassment. What I didn't get (and maybe this is a race/cultural thing) was the jealousy and anger from her family about having been left. Yes, it makes sense that Leidy was jealous (sibling), but I never understood Mami at all (at first I also didn't understand Papi, but then it came to be clear that he was in fact proud, just hard for him to show it).

The second half of the book was a huge disappointment (in part because I just didn't get Mami's character). I remember the Ariel fiasco, but I didn't live in Miami at the time and certainly don't remember it being such a big deal. I also don't understand the extent to which people got involved. And yes, maybe this is just a white girl perspective, but once they had gone over the deep end I don't understand why it was Lizet's job to pull her back. Leidy needed Mami's earnings and help; Leidy could feel abandoned. But why was it on Lizet to abandon her life and try to fix her crazy mother? Why is it selfish to move on instead of sit in a sinking ship? This was addressed a bit at the very end with the Professor's confusion, but not enough in my opinion. I felt like Lizet's identity struggle was real, but her family should have been in support of her moving on to the larger world.

Overall it was a great glimpse into the Cuban world of Miami with good insight about the discombobulation that comes when one no longer fits in the world in which one grew up, but is not yet comfortable with the world into one is growing.
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Jan 30, 2018 Kathy rated it really liked it

This ended up being more interesting, deep, and thought provoking than I thought it could be. It's an interesting look at the immigrant experience from the first-to-go-to-college child. Set at the turn of the millennium with the backdrop of the Ariel Hernandez drama, it deals with the theme of what is family and the ties that bind them and when, if ever, do we owe family members at the cost of our own hopes and dreams? It's maybe more like a 3.5

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Aug 23, 2018 Nick Moran rated it really liked it

A moving depiction of what it's like to exist between places and identities - both real and invented - as well as the tension between the stories told about people and the stories people tell themselves. There are obvious parallels between the central dramatic event and the protagonist's situation, but in the end I was very impressed by how Crucet leaned away from the obvious. This is a thought-provoking, necessary book and I'm excited to see what's next from the author.

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Jan 31, 2019 Kevin English rated it really liked it

This is the book that I wish I would’ve read my first year of college as a first-generation college student.

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Jun 05, 2017 Livia rated it it was ok

Shelves: boring, couldn-t-finish, slow

I actually ended up not being able to finish this book, but felt it pertinent to write a review anyway. I'll start off by saying some aspects of this novel were very relatable for those of us who are the first in our immediate families to attend college. Being utterly ignorant to the little details of college that escape those of us who are first-generation college students is one of our biggest collegiate barriers. Lizet's surprise at needing a "summer plan" was one such example. I disagree wit I actually ended up not being able to finish this book, but felt it pertinent to write a review anyway. I'll start off by saying some aspects of this novel were very relatable for those of us who are the first in our immediate families to attend college. Being utterly ignorant to the little details of college that escape those of us who are first-generation college students is one of our biggest collegiate barriers. Lizet's surprise at needing a "summer plan" was one such example. I disagree with some of the reviewers who claim she was utterly unprepared for college and would do better at a community college: the entire point of the novel was that Lizet DID have a place there, she just needed help to navigate this absolutely foreign institution. If you aren't a first generation college student, there are some aspects to this book that will be lost on you, such as these little things Lizet missed, feeling out of place among her white and legacy peers, her occasional erratic behavior, and the feeling of suddenly being a stranger among your family, like when she feels the dissonance at the dinner table. The one scene that I was really struck by emotionally was the part where she sees her mother in the airport, and feels as though she's seeing her for the very first time as "tacky Cuban" (something along those lines) and feels guilty for seeing her mother through new eyes. This was one of the most relatable aspects of the book to me: being thrown into a new, academic world for months at a time, only to return to your roots and see something completely different than what you remember is jarring. Crucet did a good job with this.
However, overall the book was really disappointing as a whole. Many times I found myself staring at a sentence trying desperately to understand what Crucet was trying to say. I was honestly very shocked that the book didn't end at the scene where Lizet is meeting with her father at Christmas-it seemed to, for the most part, wrap up the book semi-nicely. Even if the book was disappointing up to this point, everything afterward just felt unnecessarily. I still had about 20 or 30 more pages to go before calling it quits, but what's the point when every page just felt as though it was saying the same things over and over again? Meh. Many parts of the plot were absolutely confusing for me simply because I didn't understand the character's, mainly Lizet's, thoughts or motivations. If we had more explanation for why she felt certain things or did certain things then it would probably have read smoother. I didn't understand the father character at all, either. He was so callous toward the family and it went unexplained throughout the entirety of it.
Basically, this book was like reading about the antics of a bunch of reactionary people whose actions hardly make sense and don't know how to communicate with the other. It's not really worth the read, although some parts are interesting. ...more

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Sep 12, 2016 Allison rated it really liked it

Shelves: timemagazine

If I were to put this book on a "genre" bookshelf, I think I'd stick it first and foremost on a coming-of-age shelf. After all, the protagonist and narrator Lizet is on a mission to find her "true" self as she leaves her urban working-class Cuban home in Miami and ventures north to Rawlings College in New York. There, she experiences the culture shock of lots of white people and a school that expects her to be better academically prepared than she is.

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Aug 18, 2015 Karen rated it it was amazing

In all the books I have read (and I have read a lot) I rarely find the main characters from Miami. There is a special something that brings you there instantly. Author Jennine Capot Crucet describes the sights, the sounds, and the air perfectly. I can hear and see the characters. Lizet is a young girl graduating from Hialeah Lakes High School. She is the very first student to be accepted to Rawlings College, a prestigious, small, expensive college in New York. She has never been away from home, ...more

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May 12, 2016 Kathy rated it liked it

Raised in the Cuban-centric area of Miami, Lizet, the daughter of Cuban immigrant parents, is accepted into Rawlings, an elite Northern college. Once she is there, she struggles to fit in both academically and socially. She chafes at her classmates pigeon-holing her as the "Cuban" girl and is jealous of their wealthy, carefree lives. Meanwhile, back in Miami, her family is falling apart. When Lizet left for college, her father abandoned the family and sold their house. Her mother and single-pare ...more

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Oct 24, 2017 Rusmir rated it really liked it

Shelves: 2017

I really liked this book. It spoke to me as an immigrant and as an educator. The voice of the narrator is so strong and we need to hear more of these voices in literature.

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Jul 22, 2015 Deborah rated it liked it

Shelves: netgalley, own, tob-2016

In an article apparently originally published on BookPage but reprinted on LitHub, Jennine Capó Crucet explains what led her to write Make Your Home Among Strangers:

I imagined the book to be this fictional road map of the first-generation college student’s experience, one that shows some of the ugly things race and class differences force on us.

In its focus on race and class differences, this book is particularly timely, given the recent spate of student "demands" on college campuses across the ...more

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