How to Flirt: A Guide for Girls

by Lisa Shea

Why is flirting so complicated? If you watch movies, it seems like there are two extremes. On one hand, the beautiful, sexy girl walks up to the hottest guy at the beach and he follows her around like a love-struck puppy dog. On the other extreme, the sweet, typical girl tries to talk to a guy and her tongue ties, her toes trip, and the crowd bursts into laughter.

Flirting is a skill, and like any other skill, it can be learned. All it takes are the right steps to follow, the will to learn, and the patience to practice step-by-step each day to build up your talent. The first day you'll be nervous. The second day you'll be uncertain. By the end of a week you'll be on your way to mastering the wonderful art of flirtation.

Ignore the other books that insist you must be an exotic dancer who works out every day and boasts perfect breasts in order to get the guys. Some books even state that you have to deliberately act like a whore because that's all guys want! What?? Sure, you might get some attention - from the guy who wants to use you for a few hours and make you call a taxi to get home again. They guys who are worth dating will be looking for something more.

The key to flirting is NOT having a killer bod. It's not about being slutty. It's about mastering the ability to connect with a guy in a way that makes him feel special. Guys want to feel cared for. They want to feel paid attention to. But not in a creepy way - in a way that shows you aren't just after their wallet and some free meals.

This book has over 100 pages of tips, suggestions, advice, and step-by-step instructions that have been proven to work. RomanceClass has been live for over twelve years and has helped tens of thousands of visitors. Through those questions, answers, suggestions, and success stories, we've found what works and doesn't work. Let us share our advice with you.

Take that first step toward a fun new future!

Unknown Binding

First published February 29, 2012

About the author

Lisa Shea is a fervent fan of honor, loyalty, and chivalry. She brings to life worlds where men and women stand shoulder to shoulder, steady in their desire to make the world a better place for all. Most of her profits are donated to support battered women's shelters.

Lisa's works are all cleanly written with no explicit intimacy and little language. They are suitable for teens and up.

Lisa has written a wide range of fiction stories. She has medieval romances, modern murder mystery novels, sci-fi adventures, Scottish regency time travel romances, dystopian stories, 1800s-era black-Indian novellas, and Blackstone Valley mysteries.

In short stories, there's a thirty-one part story-a-day mini mystery series set in Salem, Massachusetts through the month of October 2014. There's a time travel series, a Biblical-era series, a zoo mystery series, an art museum mystery series, a diner mystery series with an Asperger's heroine, a romantic proposal series, three sci-fi and two contemporary shorts.

On the non-fiction side, Lisa has written nearly 100 books. There are low carb books, relationship books, green living, journaling, ASP programming, sleep and dreams, wine, wedding and courtship traditions, Melville poetry, and history. There is also a collection of books on self-help topics like working from home, reducing stress, yoga, meditation, using Twitter, running an author signing, and conquering a fear of spiders.

Lisa also writes poetry.

Lisa has thousands of pages online to help aspiring authors learn how to develop time management, write that book, lay it out, and get it published. Visit LisaShea.com for all the details, and free to email with questions!

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