How To Be Assertive... Without Being A Jerk!

by David Jackson

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Dear Friend,

As a former “pushover” in my previous life, I let people get away with all sorts of things... from friends borrowing money and never paying me back (and letting it happen repeatedly) to letting jerks have their way when they abused me - physically, mentally, emotionally.

Later on, it led to a lot of problems with self esteem and depression.

After several years, and after going through countless self help books and analysing myself to the point of exhaustion, I had finally “cracked the code” to being truly assertive... without being a jerk.

You see, I had gotten fed up with the way people were treating me. I didn't enjoy taking a backseat when I should have stood up for myself... unfortunately, in my attempt to be a more confident person - I had taken it too far - I was a jerk!

And the worst part is... I didn't even realize until I took a long, hard look at myself when my best friend, and girlfriend both gave me ultimatum. Something had to change... I wasn't going to go back to being a pushover, and I didn't want to be a jerk either.

I realized where I had gone wrong and fixed my personality quirks up... as a result, I'm now much more confident, and "cooler" than ever before...

I know I'm not alone in this bizarre situation, so I decided to write this report - "How to be assertive... without being a jerk!"

Inside, you'll discover ...

- How assertive you are now (and how to determine if you're in fact, a jerk - you may be surprised)...

- Why we become unassertive, and what to do about it.

- The difference between passive, assertive, and aggressive communication (I'll cover everything from verbal to non-verbal communication)...

- How to reduce physical tension if you are excessively passive - or overly aggressive

- How to say "no" without sounding like a jerk

- How to deal assertively... even in the face of harsh criticism towards you

- How to give criticism assertively (this is important, especially in professional environments)...

- How to behave assertively when you are disappointed

- How to give and receive compliments assertively

- Simple and effective ways to quickly change your "thinking style" to be more assertive

- How to improve your assertiveness (even if you are very meek right now)...

- A "point system" to grade yourself so you know how you are improving

- Questions you must answer if you want to progress and become a more confident, assertive person... whether in your business or personal life.

- And much, much more!

All the exercises contained in this report come from experience... and they’re all designed from the ground up to help you overcome your fears of being a confident, more assertive person.

Take this report for a spin today - you will not be disappointed.

I wish you all the best with your new found abilities... they’ll take you to places in your personal and professional life you probably can’t imagine at this moment!

Yours sincerely,

David Jackson.

68 pages, Kindle Edition

First published September 24, 2011

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Thriller author: David Jackson (DS Nathan Cody and Callum Doyle series, 2 space profile)