How Not to Stay Single: 10 Steps to a Great Relationship

by Nita Tucker, Randi Moret

How Not to Stay Single is a step-by-step program full of helpful hints, explicit goal-setting instructions, eye-opening anecdotes, and motivational thoughts. Each chapter includes an action plan--actual assignments for the reader to complete as part of the process of gaining confidence, improving self-esteem, and increasing dating opportunities. Readers are asked to apply the same principles to finding a mate that have gotten them ahead in planning, perseverance, effort, and time.

This results-oriented book teaches you that wanting a relationship is nothing to be ashamed of, that staying in a dead-end relationship will keep you from finding a thriving one, that there are simple and effective ways to increase the odds of meeting the right kind of people, and that you're a good catch and you shouldn't hide it.

How Not to Stay Single presents a unique plan of action for finding that elusive, emotionally fulfilling attachment. It shows you how to stop waiting for a relationship and how to start making it happen. Unlike other relationship books, this book is about changing what you're doing, not about changing you.

160 pages, Paperback

First published August 20, 1996

Reviews

[Leonie Quaife]

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[Kate]

Probably useful for people just getting into relationships too. Helped me think about what is important to me, and about what mistakes I need to not repeat in the future. And that sitting around moping isn't a very good long-term strategy.

[Laura Skladzinski]

Had some good insights and was a very quick and easy read, but I think it's more geared to older singles than those in their 20s.

[Catherine]

Yuck.