Imagine your worst nightmare indeed. Imagine being blown-off by no less than 4 doctors for years while you present terrifying symptoms, to finally be diagnosed with stage III colorectal cancer. Then imagine being told that the best chemotherapy required to treat this type of cancer, a treatment that is the standard everywhere else in the Western world, is not available in your province. What would you do? Well, Robin McGee became an activist, and this memoir documents her journey in a way that so uplifting it will make your heart sing.
Robin McGee is many things: a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, a beloved friend, a professional, and happily, a wordsmith and a humourist. This book is really a love letter. At the beginning of treatment, McGee begins a blog as a way to update her friends and family on her progress. Eventually this blog swells into a large community of supporters who cheer her on through each stage of her battle, which she cleverly compares to being in the Olympics. When she comes up against the stunning news that FOLOFOX, a chemotherapy that would dramatically improve her odds of survival, is not the standard of care in Nova Scotia, McGee rallies her supporters to deluge the Minister of Health and their MP's with letters, and together, along with some dedicated health professionals, they get this standard of treatment changed in their province. And this is where the love comes in. McGee's book is not only a love letter to her husband and son, but also to and from her community of supporters. McGee intersperses her own narrative with her blog entries and some of the replies she received to them. Uplifted by the love this community has for her, McGee finds the strength to battle on and do something that is truly good: improve the chances for sufferers of this type of cancer in Nova Scotia.
This is a wonderfully paced book, a book that is hard to put down. With a writing style that is eloquent and material that is so moving, I laughed and I cried. But most of all I marvelled at this amazing woman who accomplished so much, with so much grace and wit, while undergoing the horrible trials of cancer treatment. This book is a must read for anyone who has cancer, or has a loved one with cancer, and for community activists who can appreciate the power of the people. As she puts it at the end, hopefully this will be her last cancer memoir but I for one (for many I suspect!) eagerly await a novel from this incredible writer.