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Nora Webster

3.58  ·  Rating Details ·  11,131 Ratings  ·  1,857 Reviews
From one of contemporary literature's most acclaimed and beloved authors comes this magnificent new novel set in a small town in Ireland in the 1960s, where a fiercely compelling, too-young widow and mother of four moves from grief, fear, and longing to unexpected discovery. Toibin's portrayal of the intricacy and drama of ordinary lives brings to mind of the work of Alice ...more
Hardcover, 373 pages
Published October 7th 2014 by Scribner (first published October 2014)
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JZ NJ I think the ghost discussion, was the pivotal moment when. Nora faced her fears head on. She asked Maurice, who would be ok----everyone was fine…moreI think the ghost discussion, was the pivotal moment when. Nora faced her fears head on. She asked Maurice, who would be ok----everyone was fine except Conor, and one other person. She persisted in asking who that other one was, and I think it was Nora herself.
I think Nora harbors fear about Conor dealing with his father's death, Conor who sees and questions everything,whom she needs so much as the last paragrpah depicted, her cozy world, with Conor upstairs, Conor doesn't have the outward symptom like Donal, of stammering, he seems ok, but.........
So I think the ghost scene was the moment when Nora Confronted her future without Maurice- after this she allowed his clothes to be removed, and she burned the letters.
If you were referring to the " truth" I wondered if she meant did he know the truth that he was dying- remember there was a reference which said he was moved to another place,thinking he was recovering.(less)

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Most of us lead lives of quiet desperation, knocked about every so often by rude shocks or lifted up by brief, brilliant joys. But our quotidian troubles and triumphs rarely create ripples beyond our own little ponds.

As readers, we often gravitate toward lives played out on a grander scale—adventures, dalliances, crimes, and misdemeanors far more colorful than our own. But reader, if you haven’t experienced the transcendent storytelling of Ireland’s Colm Tóibín, you may not know what it’s like t
Oct 20, 2014 Laura rated it did not like it
Another admirable book that I wish I could say I enjoyed more than I did. I understand that Nora is grieving and that we can only assume she loved her husband, although there’s scant evidence to support this. I have no idea why seemingly perfect Maurice would ever have married Nora, but let’s assume she was a vivacious, engaged spouse before grief took away any semblance of personality. But the Nora we spend 373 pages with is one passive, emotionally estranged individual. I suppose she’s let gri ...more
Ron Charles
Oct 14, 2014 Ron Charles rated it really liked it
Colm Tóibín’s most recent book was about a grieving woman, too. But she was the mother of Jesus Christ, so the stakes seemed somewhat higher. In his new novel, “Nora Webster,” the Irish master has posed an entirely different challenge for himself: Rather than imagining the angry rant of the Virgin who changed human history, he describes a mother who never accomplishes anything unusual, never claims any position in the affairs of the world at all.

It’s far more believable and, ultimately, more mir
Diane S ☔
Aug 20, 2014 Diane S ☔ rated it really liked it
In plain and unsentimental prose, Toibin gives us the story of a woman, Nora Webster, whose husband of many years has died. Leaving her alone, with two younger boys and two older daughters, she must find her way through life for herself and her children.

I enjoyed this quiet and unassuming novel, watching Nora and the boys change as Nora learns to live her own life. I loved the moment, three years later, when she realizes she can do what she wants now, that there is no one who can tell her she ca
Rebecca Foster
Oct 14, 2014 Rebecca Foster rated it liked it
A subtle portrait of a bereaved family in late 1960s Ireland. Nora, 40, has lost her husband Maurice to sudden illness. Repressing her own grief, she helps her four children move on. She will sell the summer house, get a job, and try to maintain a semblance of normality: vacations in Ireland and Spain, hobbies, and the school year’s rhythms. But how to keep going when life has lost all purpose? “When she asked herself what she was interested in, she had to conclude that she was interested in not ...more
Laura McNeal
Nov 21, 2014 Laura McNeal rated it it was amazing
I don't know how he does it. The sentences are deceptively plain, and at first the novel feels almost colorless, odorless, mute. If you tried to explain the plot to someone, and you said, "It's about an Irish woman with four children whose husband dies while she's in her 40's," and you said that she didn't meet anyone or fall in love again, and there's no adultery, no startling revelation, no reversal, no trip to India or the Appalachian trail or the Outback, the book might sound as if it has no ...more
I wanted to like Nora Webster by Colm Tóibín, but in the end I was left disappointed by the book. This was one of those books that from the start I never got into. Disconnected would be the word I would use to describe my feelings on the story. I was reading the story but I never felt anything towards it. The end result was the complete opposite of what I was expecting from the book when I read its synopsis.

I wanted to feel something for the title character, Nora Webster. I was looking to read h
switterbug (Betsey)
Dec 05, 2014 switterbug (Betsey) rated it it was amazing
t's a modest elegance that pulls you along in this story of 40-ish Irish widow Nora Webster and her family in County Wexford, in Ireland. The gulf between wife and widowhood is daily captured by Nora's inscrutable, withdrawn demeanor and period of emotional turmoil. She is struggling to adjust without her husband, Maurice, who died three months ago. He was a fine teacher and a capable, loving partner, although he didn't share her love of music. It begins circa 1969; no dates are mentioned, but o ...more
Feb 16, 2015 Carol rated it did not like it
Virtually nothing of interest happens in this book. It is a long slog of a widow's daily life and her trials and tribulations which don't amount to much. Nora has no notion of grace and appears ungrateful for all the efforts of people around her who try to help her through her endless grief. The other characters come and go leaving little impression at all.

Then we discover that during her husband's two-month illness, she left her two minor boys with an aunt and never once visited them or talked
Dec 20, 2014 Snotchocheez rated it it was ok

I'm just not understanding the raves on this one at all. The catch words from fellow Goodreaders that drew me to read Colm Tóibín's Nora Webster were poetic, understated, gorgeous, elegant bereavement, Olive Kitteridge (huh? Really? In what alternate literary universe could this hold a candle to Ms Strout's short-storied delight?)

I felt no connection at all to the titular Nora, a Wexford, Ireland (circa late 1960s) mother of four whose husband passes away from heart ailments. And I was totally i
This book settled on to me, and so I settled in to it.

You know when you’re younger, you think that - wherever you are - nothing happens here. Things happen elsewhere. But never here. It’s just regular stuff here. It’s just regular, plain old life. And you itch for the big L ‘Life’. When will that start?
Oooohhh, look, a bit of drama here, aah that wrinkle smooths out into the everyday fabric now, moving on.
Tragedy strikes, such a blow, how can one possibly cope, get over it, pick up with life’s
Angela M
Jan 28, 2015 Angela M rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition

There is no end to the world as we know it , except that it feels this way to Nora Webster and her family as they suffer the loss of a husband and father . There is no violence here in Wexford, except there is in the cities around them . There is no major dramatic event in this place , except for what it seems to this family , but in the world at large a man is landing on the moon.

What I did find here was a quiet reflection on the everyday lives of people from the mundane of Nora's work in the o
Aug 14, 2015 Mary rated it liked it
Shelves: fiction, 2015
This is my second Toibin book and I had the same issues this time around: I mostly enjoyed it and wasn’t too bored, but when I finished I was just sort of 'meh' about the whole thing. I read that Toibin writes about silence and the subtle ways people interact with each other and deal with their pain. Those with families who suppress emotions will likely relate to this; those with fiery, door-slamming families will be left frustrated by the emptiness. I also read that Nora was partly based on Toi ...more
Oct 31, 2014 Emily rated it liked it
I love Tóibín's writing, but this book just didn't do it for me. It's a quiet, contemplative kind of story, focusing on Nora's life after the sudden, early death of her husband. While the relationships are written in an interesting way and I enjoyed reading about life in 1960s Ireland, I didn't feel enough of a connection to Nora for this book to be memorable.

Like Nora, I'm also the oldest of three sisters, and I would have liked this angle to be explored more. There's a long, twisted family hi
What a wonderfully written book. Nora Webster takes you on a journey of an Irish woman who looses her husband and rediscovers her love of music. During this journey, she starts to understand her children and others with more compassion and interest in their lives.

Colm Toibin, short-listed twice for the Man Booker prize, did not disappoint with Nora Webster. One of the Washington Post's five Best Audiobooks of 2014, Nora Webster is a wonderful listening experience. The lovely voice of Nora is rea
I won this book in a Goodreads Giveaway program in exchange for an unbiased review.

Unlike the majority who've read this book before me, I found this book about a widower of four children dull and lifeless. The story is about a grieving woman who must move forward after the death of her husband and put one foot in front of the other which she does very stoically with quiet but admirable strength. Nora very slowly transforms herself from someone who lived behind her husband's shadow to someone who
Nov 14, 2014 Gearóid rated it it was amazing
This was a really lovely book to read.

Colm Toibin seems to have a great insight into human nature.
In this book he really explores grief and loss and loneliness and
carrying on with life even after a real tragedy in a young family.

His characters are just so real and you really connect with them.
It was a very moving story and beautifully written with great descriptions
of the times which happen to be the times when i would have been the same age
as Nora Webesters sons and even have spent summer holid
Mar 27, 2015 Wanda rated it really liked it
Nora Webster is a young widow in 1960s Ireland. She is charming, formidable, weak, heart-broken, and grief-stricken by turns. In age, Nora falls between my mother’s and my grandmother’s generations—about the time that women were supposed to aspire only to being housewives and that men were in charge of the finances and the family. When her husband Maurice dies, she is left as sole parent to four children and provider to at least the two youngest. She has to find her financial feet and deal with ...more
Nov 06, 2014 Helen rated it it was ok
Nora Webster seemed very undeveloped as a character, which I found immensely disappointing. She is a widow who is adjusting to life as one and also coping with her two young sons and adult daughters. There should have been plenty of possible plot lines in this situation but the story totally lacked any sense of depth or direction. I expected to get into the head of this new widow and experience her new found struggles and resolutions or conflicts but that never happened. I continued to read it, ...more
May 05, 2016 Will rated it liked it
Sometimes as you pass in the street, your eyes meet a stranger's for a moment before you look away: it's nothing more than a shared acknowledgement of humanity. That fleeting interaction is at a level only slightly lower than the intensity generated in Colm Toibin's Nora Webster. But despite that, this is a book that slowly began to grow on me.

At the beginning Norah's husband Maurice has just died after a long and awful illness, leaving her with two older daughters Fiona and Aine, and two young
There is a plethora of books written nowadays focused on women’s lives. Here is one about an Irish woman in her forties who loses her husband first after a difficult illness and then death. She has to alone raise and support four kids, two older girls and two younger pubescent boys. The story is set in a small Irish town in Wexford, Ireland, where the author himself was born in 1955. The book speaks of the Londonderry riots and that happened in 1969. The moon landing is mentioned too in the stor ...more
Jan 17, 2015 Darlene rated it it was amazing
I became a fan of writer, Colm Toibin, after reading his novel 'Brooklyn' several years ago. If you are a reader who prefers a story filled with action, then Mr. Toibin's writing is probably not for you. But if you are a reader, like me, who falls in love with characters, I think you will enjoy Mr. Toibin's latest novel, 'Nora Webster'.

In 'Nora Webster', Colm Toibin returns to his Irish home and the story takes place in Wexford, Ireland. The year is 1969 and against the backdrop of the lunar la
Oct 10, 2014 Melissa rated it it was ok
Shelves: netgalley
I received an ARC of this book from the publisher through NetGalley.

I really wanted to like this book, but it fell short for me. I liked the sentiments described by the widow, Nora, as she is trying to put her life back together when her husband dies. Nora tries to make her home as normal as possible for her two young sons. But she isn't quite sure where she fits into the world without her husband.

Nora has a flood of visitors from her family and friends in her small town in Ireland when her hus

I received this book as a digital ARC from the publisher through Net Galley in return for an honest review.

This is the story of Nora, who became widow when she was forty years old and how she struggled to raise her four children without money.

By telling Nora’s story, the author magnificently describes the ordinary life of an Irish town in the late 1960s. Moreover to face her grief, Nora becomes mad by the neighbours’ condolences from which she tries to escape in order to regain her own life.

It s
Jul 18, 2014 eb rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Read a plot overview of Nora Webster, and it might not sound that exciting—a 40-something mother struggles along following the death of her husband—but I found it to be a rip-roaring page-turner. Tóibín is a wizard at capturing the huge tension all humans feel during everyday interactions: clashing with their bosses, getting in fights with their sisters, worrying about their kids. His larger project, I think, is to show us the inner life of a woman whom most people perceive as cold and combative ...more
Nov 10, 2014 Jill rated it really liked it
I’ve always been of two minds of Colm Toibin. On one hand, his prose is meticulously crafted, lovingly rendered, and it’s clear from the very first sentence that the reader is in the hands of a master. On the other hand, there’s something a little detached and reserved about his plotting and characters, keeping me at a respectful distance.

Nora Webster goes further than his past books to draw readers like me in, although the gap still remains. There are no fireworks here: Nora Webster’s beloved h
Aug 23, 2014 Brian rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Set during the late nineteen sixties and early seventies in small-town Ireland, Nora Webster is the story of a middle aged woman struggling to deal with the impact of the death of her husband and to remake her life as an independent person. Her transformation takes place against a backdrop of sympathy, curiosity and prurience from her friends, neighbours and family whose assumptions and expectations only add to her difficulties.

There's a remarkable authenticity to Tóibín's writing and this depic
Sara Steger
Feb 05, 2016 Sara Steger rated it really liked it
Nora Webster is forty years old with four children. Two of them are still young enough to be at home and need the kind of everyday attention a mother should give. But Nora has just lost her husband, Maurice, and this unexpected tragedy has left her ragged and at sea. She finds herself separated in many ways from the children whom she obviously loves and not very adept at taking or giving comfort.

Nora has to decipher what her life is going to be like now, how she is going to be an individual ins
Set in County Wexford, Ireland, Nora Webster tells the story of a just-widowed woman in her 40's with four adolescent and young adult children. The book covers three years from 1969 to 1972. Interestingly, it is events in Northern Ireland from the first riots and arrival of the British Army in Derry and Belfast to the shooting deaths of 13 Catholic civil rights marchers and bystanders in Derry. Nora's life has been centered on home and family, and she finds herself facing a drastic drop in incom ...more
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Colm Toibin was born in Enniscorthy, Co. Wexford in 1955. He studied at University College Dublin and lived in Barcelona between 1975 and 1978. Out of his experience in Barcelona be produced two books, the novel ‘The South’ (shortlisted for the Whitbread First Novel Award and winner of the Irish Times/ Aer Lingus First Fiction Award) and ‘Homage to Barcelona’, both published in 1990. When he retur ...more
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