It is a kind of goodness that may act as a weakness. If you forgive more than you can afford you may find yourself impoverished In emotion afterward, with a lowered resistance to whatever happens after that.
The secret of a good old marriage like theirs, symbolized, he said to himself. His fanciful humor.
Superiority in warfare itself is not everything. It is only one side of the greatness of the nation, one aspect of the problem of rising above other nations. It is not always possible to win a war; there are overwhelming odds, there are circumstances, turns of the tide
Of course it is not the want for the common people, I must admit. They have so much to bear in a defeat naturally they want to win. But you know they are such a good people with stout hearts and peaceful minds; they are naturally so happy to follow leaders.
It is not a mere question of how we fight or how we live; it is why we fight and what we live for. Victory yes very well, all in due time!
This her optimistic imagination arose once more then merged into a dream then woke again with a start; but waking or sleeping, thinking or dreaming told her what she wanted to think, for one more night
The past was his hobby and his weakness she thought half spitefully with nervousness increasing and increasing and apart from his dear sentimentality and pretension to scholarships what did it amount to? Tumbledown temples, dead religion, obscure dramaturgy, foolishness, and cruelty of myths. The myths of today, as she remembered were worse.
Beauty is not only sentiment. It is mathematics and psychology.
Only we Germans can help it; we have something else, to take heavens place. Yes, the German also sacrifices himself and he loses heart, like everyone else; but it is only personal: the nation does not lose heart. If the German fails, he gives up and goes quietly and stoically, having wound up his affairs in good order as it may be expected of him in circumstances, whatever they are.
Today religion is almost out of date. So few modern people have any sense of ultimate future, of life after they die. Still, in this life, hardships have to be endured, and virtue has to be exercised. And for all of this, in the way of unearthly reward, we look forward to nothing, nothing. Self sacrifice is good, in fact it is necessary, anyway it can not be avoided; and what’s the recompense? What is there, leaving out immortal things, to make it worth while?
Naturally there are 2 sides to everything, 2 ways about everything; that’s fate. But everything can be fixed so that it’s effective for us either way, and that’s art!
I happen to know Americans very well, because my own brother is an American. What a frivolous people, it astounds me us. Always on the go, getting nowhere, drinking and drinking and making merry, talking and talking and, in the end, doing very little.
You must get results. For whether you amount to anything or not downed on it. Results of nothing. You must win, or your war is meaningless.
Nothing is meaningless for us. Everything is just a new beginning a fresh starts. There will be another war, always, we say to ourselves; some war or other. It stands to reason, historically. Forever and forever history will always give us another chance.
Naturally everything in reality has its up and and downs and for you, your destiny goes up and down accordingly; but ours does not. You judge everything by results, whereas we judge by the greatness of the ambition and the undertaking. If you fail it is nothing, nothing. Whether we fail or not, it is a great thing.
My dear, a women’s love is never very respectful, naturally not. She sees too much of her man’s weakness, his incompetence and importance, and how life has worn him down. Please forgive me for all that, now that I am absent, and forget it as much as you can.
I have tried never to be pretentious in the intellectual way. It is not good for a man to show off his worldly wisdom and culture in the bosom of his family.
I suppose this is one reason I want you to talk to my cousins. I shall be happier, and it will help me to bear things with good grace and patience, if I know that they are aware of my little adventure, how it came about, and what my opinion of it is. You need not try to make a good story of it; just the facts. No matter if they feel no great admiration for the way we have behaved; no matter if there is no inspiration in it for them, no particular moral — so long as we are not forgotten! While there is memory there is hope.
It is in the nature of Germans to change every so often to appear to change at the end of a war, where it might be as in the case of our culture before the end. Suddenly they grow tired of war. They love culture, they feel sorry for those whom they have made miserable. It is all sincere that is what makes it so dangerous for us, we have been taught to care more for sincerity than it is worth, in time of peace, they are so likable. Their emotions are so warm and their mind so cultivated they are so comfortable and friendship they take pleasure and doing little kindness, and they are so absolutely convinced of every kind of idealism. There is great charm and knowing them.
Naturally, there will be forgiveness after the war it is the natural thing people will like them again at least the angle Saxons will it is their prediction, somehow, but I tell you liking or not liking doesn’t matter doesn’t matter. The important thing is never to trust them with a mature, mine, one can like people, or even love them without a blind confidence, and then cannot one, but sometimes it seems to me, having been childish myself, all my life, that all the good hearted, men and woman on earth, our children, and only the evil ones have mature minds, and then I despair.
I do not altogether despair as I hear others despairing. I suppose the loss of life and abuse of children, and the ravages of feminine disease have been worse here than anywhere else, but a nation can recover from all this in time I think, if it is given time.
What on earth do they mean when they speak of peace forever? naturally it can only be a little at a time with good luck, and with an effort, great vigilance, good management. Day by day year after year life is like that everything on earth is like that. Have the Americans in the British forgotten tell? Whenever he hears foolish political men babbling about permanent peace to ask them. What about permanent life they believe in that too? What about permanent love, permanent health, permanent talent?