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Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World

Shirley Hershey Showalter (Goodreads Author)

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“I promise: you will be transported,” says Bill Moyers of this memoir. Part Mennonite in a Little Black Dress, part Growing Up Amish, and part Little House on the Prairie, this book evokes a lost time, in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, when a sheltered little girl with big dreams entered a family and church caught up in the midst of the cultural changes of the 1950’s and

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Sep 18, 2013 Clif Hostetler rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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This memoir transports the reader into the world of a girl growing up in a Mennonite family on a farm in Lancaster County, PA in the 1950s. For many it may appear to be a quaint childhood environment far different than their own. But for me it was a reminder of the many ways that my own childhood experiences were similar to those of the author. There are obviously plenty of differences between us, but hardly a chapter went by in this book that I didn’t think of similar experiences from my own li This memoir transports the reader into the world of a girl growing up in a Mennonite family on a farm in Lancaster County, PA in the 1950s. For many it may appear to be a quaint childhood environment far different than their own. But for me it was a reminder of the many ways that my own childhood experiences were similar to those of the author. There are obviously plenty of differences between us, but hardly a chapter went by in this book that I didn’t think of similar experiences from my own life.

Perhaps my introspective reaction to the book has been influenced by the author Shirley Showalter’s many blog posts encouraging and coaching others to write their own memoirs. I’ve been following Shirley’s on-line comments since 2009 when she had a blog titled “One Hundred and One Memoirs: Because One Hundred Isn’t Enough.” We’ve been Goodreads.com friends from that same era as well. Even though we’ve not met in person I feel our acquaintance has reached an advanced stage of cyberhood friendship. Thus, for the reasons noted above and others, my response to this book is probably more emotional than it would be for most other readers.

Her chapter titled "Standing Up To The Bishop" reminded me of religious experiences from my younger years that I now view with less than positive enthusiasm. Would survivors of those experiences be the same people today if they had been spared the experience? When I noticed that Shirley had included a Glossary at the end of the book I immediately checked to see if she include one of the most important words of my youth, "worldly." Yes, it was there under "The World." If you think that the word "world" is a synonym for "planet earth," you don't understand the theological significance of the word. If you want to know the real meaning of the word you'll have to buy the book and see for yourself.

Under Acknowledgments I noticed that Shirley included thanks to "... critics of my faith... . You have been my teachers and mentors, too." It was thoughtful of her to say that. She even included some recipes at the end of the book for those who wish to experience the taste of cooking from the Pennsylvania Dutch branch of the Mennonite Church. (Not all Mennonites come from that ancestry.)

I might also mention that Shirley has been the master of building social media buzz in anticipation of this memoir. She's been running a virtual workshop on how to write a memoir. She's been sending frequent writing prompts that encouraged subscribers to write about their memories. Another example was a "New Beginnings Challenge" in which she asked participants of share hopes, dreams, adventures and challenges over the 100 days prior to the date of publication for the book. The winner of the "Challenge" received (if I remember correctly) an overnight stay at the Forgotten Seasons Bed & Breakfast which is the Home Place in Shirley's story.

Thus when she gave away twenty copies of the book through the Goodreads.com giveaway program, over nine hundred people entered their names. Presumably there were more like myself who didn’t enter because we had already purchased the book. It made my initial concern upon hearing that she was giving away twenty books seem foolish because my first thought was that maybe fewer than twenty people would enter. ...more

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Dec 22, 2013 Laurie Buchanan rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

While reading this engaging book, I couldn’t help but draw similarities between the Mennonite culture and the bonsai practice that focuses on long-term cultivation and shaping of small trees grown in a container. The Mennonite society is tight-knit and contained, and of utmost importance — much like bonsai — they honor their roots.

Throughout this captivating — and oftentimes hilarious — recount of the author's adventures and her desire to live large, I thought of Shirley as a giant redwood. Whil ...more

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Dec 04, 2013 Susan Weidener rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

From beginning to end, Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World is a love letter to being Mennonite. Shirley Hershey Showalter writes on the last page of her memoir, “I realized by writing this book that one of my first names for love was Mennonite.”

And so it is that we journey with her into a way of life few of us will ever experience. I read the book with the interest of one who grew up near Lancaster County, Pennsylvania. I was familiar with Mennonite women wearing prayer caps; women From beginning to end, Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World is a love letter to being Mennonite. Shirley Hershey Showalter writes on the last page of her memoir, “I realized by writing this book that one of my first names for love was Mennonite.”

And so it is that we journey with her into a way of life few of us will ever experience. I read the book with the interest of one who grew up near Lancaster County, Pennsylvania. I was familiar with Mennonite women wearing prayer caps; women who shopped in nearby grocery stores or brought produce to farmer’s markets in communities where I lived. Mennonite men, a father and son, had worked on my home, installing new windows and doors. Wearing plain black clothes and straw hats, they worked with tireless perfection and expert craftsmanship. Still, I wondered: Who are these people? I imagined their lives as passionless and constrained, their community a place where lack of individuality was not just glorified but demanded. Yet as Showalter writes, her youth was filled with the same ambition and desires that most of us experience. By embracing our universality early on in the story, she takes us into her world and the “arch cellar of memory.”

She describes the joy of experiencing the beauty of the Pennsylvania countryside in all its rural splendor, the baked sugar cookies and other culinary delights in her mother’s kitchen. She admits she wanted to please both her mother and father, almost as a son would and that being male held more opportunity than being born female. Her innate curiosity and intelligence helped her sort through many questions and dilemmas that appeared along the way as a girl who harbors big dreams and a longing to experience the “glittering world” outside the boundaries of the Lititz Mennonite community.

Showalter’s mother, Barbara, loved the arts, “especially music, acting and dancing.” She was also a writer and poet at heart. A bit of a rebel and a woman longing for glamour, Barbara ends up getting a “concession” from the bishop at her wedding - flowers, which were “frowned upon” and wearing white pumps, only if she agreed never to wear white shoes again. “Sixty-four years later, Mother has kept her promise,” Showalter writes. “Close inspection of her closet might reveal some very light beige shoes though.”

Despite the humor, there is a certain bitter sweetness to all of this, yet Showalter writes in clear prose, almost as a journalist might, the daily routine of farm life, of being a churchgoing member of a community rooted in family, home and the virtues of steadfastness.

If there is any fault to this memoir, it is that there is little indication of a darker side to this life or true doubts on the part of Showalter. One glimpse of her distress is when a new bishop begins railing about sin and shames girls showing stray hair under prayer caps. Eventually, young Shirley decides to “pull out the Olympia typewriter my parents had given me for Christmas. The gift was a concession to the idea that I would go to college. . ."

She writes a letter to the Lancaster Bishops Conference Board “expressing her concerns,” yet never points a finger at the “insensitivity” of the offending bishop. Rather, she quotes the mercy and love of Jesus in John’s Gospel. Eventually, the bishop leaves the Lancaster Conference to join others seeking a “purer church.” Although Showalter admits the letter may not have made a difference in the end, the experience gives her a sense of the power of the written word and her own desire to write.

Meanwhile the glittering world continues to entice. Showalter asks her father to stop the car so she can look at the faces of the actors at drive-in movies; he agrees only to slow down. She approaches her mother to help her understand “courting and mating rituals.” Her mother gives her a book about “dating, marriage and sex with a spiritual context.” Once again, it is to the family and the community where young Shirley finds her answers and peace.

"Blush" ends as Showalter heads away from Lititz to do what few Mennonite girls did – attend college and pursue her dream of teaching and lifelong learning. Showalter concludes with a chapter on why she is still Mennonite, although after we finish this book the explanation is hardly necessary. We have entered her multi-faceted world and are transported along with her. Her love for her church and community is a gift she generously offers us, her readers, through this heartfelt memoir.
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Sep 19, 2013 Dnicebear rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

I feel a lot of warm cooperation and community surrounding this book: in the way Ms Showalter herself, through her blog, involved us in the making of the book, in the way her publisher really makes the book shine, in the way several of Ms Showalters' communities embrace the book's coming out.

I loved this book so much I purchased 3 copies, 2 to share and my own to read aloud to my husband.

I blush to admit that I also felt (feel) some envy...partly because Ms Showalter does have a lot of 'communit ...more

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Jan 02, 2014 Sonia Marsh rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

If there are three words that define what Shirley Showalter does not want to be in her life, they are: plain, dull and boring.

From the start, we get the feeling that standing out from the community, yet still belonging, is what Shirley wants more than anything.

Shirley grew up in a very loving family and has admiration for her mother from a young age. This desire for a mother and her daughter to not be plain starts when Shirley is given the same name as actress Shirley Temple. Her mother even per ...more

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Nov 05, 2013 Joan Rough rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

I was charmed and delighted with Shirley Hershey Showalter's, "Blush, A Mennonite Girl Meets A Glittering World," her memories of growing up in a conservative, Mennonite farm community in Pennsylvania. Her wish "to be big," not in the sense of being tall, "but big as in important, successful, influential," went against all that her church and family represented. To be Mennonite was to be plain and simple: in dress, speech and in all behaviors. And to be female and wear a prayer covering on one's I was charmed and delighted with Shirley Hershey Showalter's, "Blush, A Mennonite Girl Meets A Glittering World," her memories of growing up in a conservative, Mennonite farm community in Pennsylvania. Her wish "to be big," not in the sense of being tall, "but big as in important, successful, influential," went against all that her church and family represented. To be Mennonite was to be plain and simple: in dress, speech and in all behaviors. And to be female and wear a prayer covering on one's head was to stick out like a sore thumb ... part of a religious subculture that a good part of the rest of the world doesn't notice or choose to understand. In large societies like our own, we're all too quick to point fingers at and make sometimes cruel jokes about those who are different from the rest of us. Whether it's our skin color, religion, political affiliation, or sexual orientation, there is always something to gossip and make nasty judgments about.

Reading through Shirley's memories of her first eighteen years of life, I was struck by how "BIG" she was even when she was small. She seems to have had an intuitive side that brought her through difficult moments in a family and church that she went along with and believed in, despite having her own dreams and aspirations for something more. And though following the rules, she never became the expected Mennonite wife, wearing a prayer covering, raising a handful of kids, and helping her husband by doing whatever is necessary to run a sometimes not so profitable farm. Shirley seemed to know, if only on an unconscious level, that she would be more, while still respecting and hanging on to the structural ideals of her church and family. She has done more than succeed as a past president of Goshen College and work with the Fetzer Institute.

From the beginning, Shirley, named by her mother after the famous child star, Shirley Temple, loved to be with her dad, riding along with him on the tractor and helping out in the other innumerable daily farm chores. Later when her brother and sisters came along, she loved being their teacher, showing them the ways of the natural world, the church, their family and even perhaps the glittering world beyond her parent's farm. She "blushed" her way through awkward moments when she could barely contain her urges to go beyond what was expected of her. Her parents seemed to understand her concerns and differences with the Bishops of the Mennonite community, allowing her to think for herself while guiding her with gentle kindness.

Of the many heart-warming stories in this memoir, one of my favorites is when her younger brother, Henry, getting a "new" second-hand bicycle. Envious of her brother's good fortune and frustrated by her own old and worn bike, Shirley, tries to paint hers in an effort to make it look better with the odd cans of paint that are stashed in the barn. She never asked permission to do it and makes a huge mess that most parents would have a huge fit about. When Shirley tells her dad, about her misadventure, adding that "I think you must love Henry more than me," he rushes out, purchases the proper paints, takes her bike apart, and repaints it to make it look almost like new. Though her mother reminds her about envy, her father doesn't lecture her on what she has done wrong. This special love and Mennonite kindness, prevails throughout the entire book, making me wish at times that I had grown up as a member of her family.

Filled with tidbits about history of the Mennonite church, family stories, along with recipes, footnotes and a glossary of terms I had little to no clue about, Shirley's book took me on a journey through her early life and who and what has influenced her to become the woman she is today. She says it all best in the final pages of her book in, "Why I Am (Still!) a Mennonite."

In this complicated world we live in, reading "Blush," was a happy and refreshing visit into a simpler, less thorny way of life. ...more

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Sep 18, 2013 Kim rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Recommends it for: everyone

Recommended to Kim by: goodreads.com giveaway

Shelves: true-stories

this is the book I won from goodreads.com and Is a first reads book
this is a good book to read
it is about the author Shirley Hershey Showalter. she grew up in a plain Mennonite home. this memoir tells the story of a Mennonite girl who might have left the church but found another way

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Nov 19, 2013 April Yamasaki added it · review of another edition

A beautifully written memoir about faith, family, home, and growing up.

I was privileged to host author Shirley Hershey Showalter on my blog, and invite you to read the interview. ...more

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Sep 26, 2013 Marian Beaman rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shirley Hershey Showalter’s Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World sings the song of her early life as a Mennonite girl in 250 pitch-perfect pages. Born into a family of Lancaster County Swiss Mennonite parents, the author recounts the story of the first 18 years of her girlhood on an 100-acre dairy farm in the 1950s and early ‘60s. The book delivers in its promise to play out her memories of school, church, and home, “the three legs of my childhood stool,” as she puts it. “Each carrie Shirley Hershey Showalter’s Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World sings the song of her early life as a Mennonite girl in 250 pitch-perfect pages. Born into a family of Lancaster County Swiss Mennonite parents, the author recounts the story of the first 18 years of her girlhood on an 100-acre dairy farm in the 1950s and early ‘60s. The book delivers in its promise to play out her memories of school, church, and home, “the three legs of my childhood stool,” as she puts it. “Each carried both sweet and sour memories” of ways this plain girl fit in and ways she stood out as different.

Her melody line bravely hits the sharps and flats of her experiences. She grabs her reader by the hand to walk into their farm meadow as she and her brother Henry play amid the Holstein cows and fragrant bluebells by the creek on a cloudless, spring day. We learn secrets of good Pennsylvania Dutch cookery in her mother’s kitchen and are privy to recipes of delicious dishes in an appendix to the book. She lets us hear the congregation joyously singing hymns of the faith a cappella in 4-part harmony though in a sex-segregated sanctuary. But her song turns to a minor key as she vividly describes the sudden death of her infant sister, her by turns affectionate and adversarial relationship with her conflicted father, and later in a brush with a rigid Mennonite bishop.

This memoir abounds in artful motifs. In the preface the author is sitting on the sandstone steps on the way down to the arch cellar of The Home Place, now known as Forgotten Seasons Bed & Breakfast. She describes the arch in this cellar as the entrance to a storehouse of provision for her parents and grandparents against the want of the Great Depression and a bunker of bounty during the Cold War. Indeed, the book succeeds as documentation of major political currents and cultural icons of the era: Eisenhower and later Kennedy, the Studebaker Lark, the Phillies, Elvis. Other visuals include a map of the Lititz environs, her family tree, along with beloved family portraits and snapshots.

For me as a reader, the most endearing arch in her story is the rainbow in her mother’s invented story of “The Magic Elevator,” which she, a diarist and aspiring writer herself, wrote at age fifteen and has adapted for her children and grand-children through the years. Her mother, Shirley’s first mentor, challenged the norm in a story she recounts early in the book: Although the Rules and Discipline of the Lancaster County Mennonite Conference condemned worldly weddings, including carrying a bridal bouquet, Shirley’s mother Barbara Ann craftily transformed the family’s plain living room into a fancy bower of flowers and palms for the ceremony. After all, at church we sing fervently of beauty in “This is My Father’s World," she must have reasoned. Evidently, Shirley was not the first Mennonite in her family with moxie.

Shirley’s story sings because it rings true. And, yes, Shirley, you did go home again. The Oh! at the center of her story leads readers to a fresh discovery of home, where one’s heart is nourished and where, as T. S. Eliot puts it, we can all “arrive where we started / And know the place for the very first time.”

"There are many ways to arrive at a place, many of them unimaginable at the beginning of the journey." BLUSH posted by Marian Longenecker Beaman on http://marianbeaman.com ...more

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Oct 17, 2013 Sherrey rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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Shirley Hershey Showalter gives the reader a view into the life of a Mennonite farm girl in the 1960s, an intimate look. I have visited Pennsylvania, specifically the Lancaster County area, and I have seen Mennonite and Amish farms, those farm families on the streets of various small towns, and the shopkeepers from whom I purchased items to bring home. But seeing is not the same as living as an Amish or Mennonite and then sharing it on the written page. Thank you, Shirley, for giving me a marvel Shirley Hershey Showalter gives the reader a view into the life of a Mennonite farm girl in the 1960s, an intimate look. I have visited Pennsylvania, specifically the Lancaster County area, and I have seen Mennonite and Amish farms, those farm families on the streets of various small towns, and the shopkeepers from whom I purchased items to bring home. But seeing is not the same as living as an Amish or Mennonite and then sharing it on the written page. Thank you, Shirley, for giving me a marvelous trip into Mennonite farm life.

The author and I are about the same age so I related on a very personal level with her growing up years and the things happening in the world at that time. What I found most amazing is that, although I grew up a Methodist and the author a Mennonite, our lives were startlingly similar, almost mirror images. The Methodist Church had at that time, based on family values, some rigid ground rules, as the author experienced in the Mennonite church, family and community.

On another level, the author and I had similar dreams -- writing, college, moving on, experiencing the world. We both fought similar battles to carry out our dreams. Today, except for a difference in where our professional lives took us, we connect in a parallel world called the Internet in memoir and writing communities.

For me, this book took me on a journey of reminiscences of my life, including dreams, frustrations, disappointments and more. Another reviewer, who grew up on a farm, felt similarly in that she could relate so closely with the author's life as a farmer's daughter.

I share these words with you not to detract from the review of the book but to show you just how effectively Showalter has written her stories down. They are real, and you can feel the rhythm of each day as she follows her father around the family farm. And Blush is built on a theme of universality, and Showalter accomplishes this beautifully.

Showalter's desires to move into the more "glittering world" as a college student and writer were also the dreams of her mother as a girl. The reader senses the author's mother encouraging her with unspoken words. Once again, palpable stories full of description and the members of the author's family.

A message of faith runs through Showalter's stories as an undercurrent to the stream of her life with its dreams and yes, its rules. And in the epilogue, it is clear why she chose to stay with the Mennonite Church in the end.

My Recommendation:

For a memoir that will keep you reading and perhaps, like me and other reviewers, thinking back over your own life's experiences, Blush is that memoir. Showalter's writing style is fluid, colorful, and honest. Her stories speak to us of life as it really happened, life on the farm but with an insistent pull to the "glittering world."

I received a copy of Blush from the author via her publisher in exchange for a fair and honest review. ...more

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Sep 29, 2013 Kathleen Pooler rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shirley Hershey Showalter’s honest and engaging account of her first 18 years in a Mennonite farm community is so compelling, I read it in three sessions not wanting to put it down. Not only was I transported into her world of fields and meadows, Sunday dinners on the farm and the strict rules of the church regarding dress and deportment, I was invited inside her thoughts and feelings about her place in her family, her church and her world.
As she introduces us to her ancestors, with a detailed p Shirley Hershey Showalter’s honest and engaging account of her first 18 years in a Mennonite farm community is so compelling, I read it in three sessions not wanting to put it down. Not only was I transported into her world of fields and meadows, Sunday dinners on the farm and the strict rules of the church regarding dress and deportment, I was invited inside her thoughts and feelings about her place in her family, her church and her world.
As she introduces us to her ancestors, with a detailed portrait of her parents, she lays the foundation for her own coming-of–age story. Her mother, Barbara Hess dreams of being an actress, writer, independent woman but becomes “plain” upon her marriage to H. Richard Hershey. Her father is the first son of seven children who had a conflicted relationship with his own father. Both her parents act out their pasts in Shirley’s childhood. Barbara, while maintaining the Mennonite ways seems to nurture Shirley’s independence. Her “magic elevator “story cherished in childhood becomes an ongoing source of inspiration and hope as she grows and faces challenges in her life. Her father remains more rigid about the Mennonite teachings and eventually gets lost in his own world. “Daddy is back”, Shirley proclaims in her teen years when she witnesses the return of her father’s engagement in her life. We see how as a young child, he responds to Shirley’s confession that he must love Henry (her younger brother) more because his bike is nicer than hers. He immediately takes her to the store to buy paint to restore her bike to look as nice as Henry’s. Through it all, we get a sense of clarity about where Shirley came from. She is loved and valued for who she is.
Shirley weaves in political events and church teachings in a well-researched, detailed way which gives context to her own responses. Her reflections on the “sweet and sour” events in her life—sudden death of a baby sister, school achievements, impact of JFK’s assassination , her sometimes conflicted relationship with her father-- engage us with their honesty and believability. At the end she adds a glossary of terms and Mennonite recipes which bring us closer to her story. Although Shirley educates us on the Mennonite way of life, her message is universal—finding your unique voice in the world while still remaining faithful to the people and values that have shaped you.
By the end, I felt like she had taken me by the hand to show me how she negotiated her way to her own glittering world, on her terms. A beautifully written memoir that educates, engages and entertains its readers, it is a succulent feast.

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Sep 19, 2013 Mary Gottschalk rated it really liked it · review of another edition

Reading, at least for me, is at its finest when the author spirits me off to new places and introduces me to new ideas, but in a way that elicits a “shiver of recognition.” I save the highest praise for authors that evoke empathy for the challenges the characters face in an otherwise unfamiliar environment. This is as true for memoir as for fiction.

From this perspective, Blush was very fine read for a city girl (me) who knew little about the inner workings of a Mennonite farming community. I so ...more

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Oct 31, 2013 Lisa Kearns rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shirley Hershey Showalter takes the reader into her traditional Mennonite family, as she tell of growing up a small community that revolved around her church. I've long been intrigued by their simpler lifestyle and big, close families, and this book gives an intimate glimpse into what it means to grow up Mennonite.

Shirley (a distant relative of the Chocolate conglomerate founder) tells charming stories of milking cows and roaming the woods and farms near her home. She also tells of attending pub ...more

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Oct 19, 2013 Liz Waters rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

I was not raised in a Mennonite community, but I was raised in the same time period as Shirley Showalter, and many of the questions that plagued her in her youth also plagued me in my staunch Episcopalian upbringing. I, too, puzzled over the different approaches to worshipping God since our household also included my very Baptist grandmother. Why was one hymn acceptable in my church, but not another? Shirley's visit to a Presbyterian service resonated with me as I recalled the religious contrast ...more

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Dec 11, 2014 Shari Larsen rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shelves: 2015-challenge-books, new-to-you-authors-2015, nonfiction-2015, ereader-2015, 50-states-2015

This is the author's story about what it was like to grow up as a sheltered Mennonite girl with big dreams in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, as her family and church dealt with all of the cultural changes of the 50's and 60's. The author writes with gentle humor and affection about her years of growing up, and finally, being the first of her family to go to college.

She also tells the story of her parents when they grew up; her mother had her own unfulfilled dreams of being an actress and a writ ...more

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Sep 20, 2013 Gina rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shirley Hershey Showalter's memoir on growing up Mennonite is much more than simple story-telling. Although I grew up in Pennsylvania and had some interaction with Mennonite families, I found that I had a lot of misconceptions as to how they lived, what they believed, and how they thought about non-Mennonites. Showalter does an excellent job educating the reader on Mennonite life, seamlessly intertwining the lessons in cultural understanding (for us) with her own life experiences and life lesson ...more

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Sep 20, 2013 Cawti rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shelves: firstreads, asylum-library

Book received free through Goodreads First Reads. I was not and will not be reimbursed for this or any other review.

Journey with Shirley Hershey Showalter as she remembers her life as a young Mennonite farmgirl outside Lancaster, Pennsylvania. Mrs. Showalter's writing is lyrical and fluid, and draws you into her story; begging you to feel each moment right along with her. Her love for her Church and her family come across beautifully in every page, sharing with the reader the joy and peace she's ...more

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Oct 08, 2013 Laurie Gray rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Out of a tradition created and controlled by HIStory, Shirley Showalter tells us HERstory—a personal and spiritual memoir of growing up Mennonite in a rural area outside Lancaster, Pennsylvania. It’s an authentic story of Showalter’s formative years and personal journey to discover the value of education, the beauty of language, the unifying strength in song, and the power of love. A gifted storyteller, Showalter carefully selects the unique events in her life that most resonate with universal c ...more

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Feb 01, 2014 Patricia Hullett rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shirley Showalter has written a wonderful memoir that I enjoyed very much. I am a couple of years younger than Shirley so I could relate to all that she wrote about in this time frame. I won this book from Good Reads and was so excited as I love to read stories about the Amish, Mennonite, and Quakers. When it came I was surprised that it was a signed copy by Shirley ~ that makes it so very special! Reading this I felt like we could have been friends as children. I was so happy when she won a ver ...more

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Feb 16, 2014 Caren rated it liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: adult-nonfiction

This is a sweet memoir of the author's years, after World War II, growing up on a farm in a Mennonite community in Lancaster county, Pennsylvania. The nice thing about this memoir is that it is told with great affection for her family and community, and with respect for her faith. She went on to become a college professor and then president of a Mennonite college in Indiana. I thought it was interesting to read how her father's personality chnaged after he had bought the family farm from his fat ...more

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Sep 20, 2013 Emily rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shelves: first-reads, non-fiction

Shirley Hershey Showalter took me to another world that I didn't want to leave! I want to read this book again and again and again.

The author is a successful, accomplished woman who comes from a tradition that had caused me to wonder whether that would be possible. I love the story of her upbringing, where she came from, where she is going.

I was able to learn a lot about the Mennonite world, of which I must admit, I knew just shy of nothing.

The only bad thing I can say about this book is that ...more

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May 20, 2013 Rhonda Rae Baker rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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Holy cow, what a beautiful memoir that is written with such grace!

I recommend this memoir to absolutely everyone for within is a message to all of us. I found myself completely riveted with Shirley's prose and the underlying current of empathy for mankind. I’ve been in and around religions my entire life and have never witnessed such kindness and compassion for mankind as a whole. I'm left with a desire to reconnect with others again for there is truly goodness in the world.

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Sep 19, 2013 Cher rated it really liked it · review of another edition

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I was delighted to read "BLUSH" by Shirley Hershey Showalter. I found the book insightful and funny at times. I knew nothing about Mennonite life, but after reading I found I can relate to some of Shirley's feelings about wanting more than what's offered. I loved the personal pictures in the book. It makes it easier to put a face to some of the wonderful stories within the book. I would recommend this book to my friends. It's an interesting book to read. ...more

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Sep 21, 2013 Ben rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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This book was especially interesting to read after learning about memoir in a class Shirley taught over this past semester. In every chapter-essay of the book, I read examples of Shirley practicing what she preached to me in class (and in the margins of my essays), which was refreshing. And although I don't think we agree on every component of what makes a memoir great, her book makes a fantastic argument for what she believes. ...more

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Dec 16, 2014 Michelle rated it liked it · review of another edition

I really enjoyed this book. Having grown up in PA, the Amish and Mennonite cultures were always something that fascinated me. I thought all Amish were Mennonite and all Mennonite were Amish. Certainly, not the case! I enjoyed the author's ability to make her life story interesting, touching, and understandable. I certainly feel I understand more about the Mennonite culture now. Liked it a lot!! ...more

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Jul 18, 2013 Melanie Springer Mock rated it really liked it · review of another edition

I read an advanced copy of this memoir for a Mennonite World Review book review I'm writing. Loved it. It's clear Shirley Showalter is a student of memoir, and knows how to tell a good story. The best Mennonite memoir I've read. ...more

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Nov 26, 2016 Leonard rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

I always love reading a non-fiction book with characters in it who I used to know or interact with. I did not know the author but I knew a few of the other people mentioned in this title. Showalter writes about the early years of her life growing up in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, where she attended public schools and experienced the tensions that used to exist between plain dressing Mennonites, usually a minority in public schools, and those who were not Mennonites. I experienced much the sa I always love reading a non-fiction book with characters in it who I used to know or interact with. I did not know the author but I knew a few of the other people mentioned in this title. Showalter writes about the early years of her life growing up in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, where she attended public schools and experienced the tensions that used to exist between plain dressing Mennonites, usually a minority in public schools, and those who were not Mennonites. I experienced much the same when I attended Conestoga Valley Junior High School, probably no more than ten miles from where Showalter was going to school at the same time. Unlike Showalter however, I switched to Lancaster Mennonite High School in 10th grade where Mennonites were in an overwhelming majority, while the author of this fine biography went to a Warwick public high school in Lititz.

I especially liked the information the author shared about the relationships and tensions in her family, especially between her father and grandfather. She was apparently a sensitive and perceptive child. Often those imperfect relationships in Mennonite families during that era were treated as something to be ignored or denied. At the very least you would not talk about it to others because that would damage the image you want to present to the public. Such denial made the problems worst and caused more pain and hardship as well as sometimes even driving people away, who no longer feel welcome at home.

Also fascinating to me was her experiences with the Mennonite church hierarchy, especially in that particular congregation. Her bishop's belief that he, on the judgment day, would have to answer for the souls of each person in his congregation reminds us of some of the burden these men, (and they always were men), undertook.
The extra restrictions placed on women and girls, questioned by many even when it was happening, is clearly, from today's perspective, one of the grave injustices of that place and time. Although not all Mennonite congregations were alike, and the strictness of the leadership varied with changes in pastors and bishops, many Mennonites growing up in the 50s and 60s in Lancaster County had experiences similar to those of Showalter.

Several times while reading this I thought of novelist Harry Crews' great biography, "A Childhood: The Biography of a Place," not because there are a lot similarities between the experiences of Crews and Showalter. Showalter's book sticks to the facts of her history whereas Crews blurs the boundary between memory and imagination. But both books focus on childhood or youth: Crews ends before he reaches junior high age while Showalter includes the early teen years and high school. Both books provide a lot of detail about life in their respective environments. Both families have to work hard to survive. Crews faced more hardship than Showalter. In both families there are key individuals who seem to be the anchor of the family. Often that person is a mother. The geographic location was of great importance in the lives of both writers and in their biographies.

This is more than just the story of one girl who grew up to be a college president, but also a look at a time in history that is largely gone, even at that location. Times have changed and so have the beliefs and worship of Mennonites in Lancaster County. Although I have not lived there for over 40 years I still feel a strong connection to the people and Mennonite traditions and beliefs of that geographic location. I may be biased but I think this is a great read. ...more

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Nov 06, 2013 Saloma Miller rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

It took me a long time to discover that God made me a feisty, curious, plain Mennonite farm girl for a reason. ~ Shirley Hershey Showalter

If you substituted the word 'Amish' for 'Mennonite', I could have written this statement. It was written by a kindred spirit, Shirley Hershey Showalter, whose first memoir, Blush: A Mennonite Girls Meets a Glittering World, was launched in September. Rich in sensory details, this is a memoir of a happy childhood, with two responsible parents who were farmers i It took me a long time to discover that God made me a feisty, curious, plain Mennonite farm girl for a reason. ~ Shirley Hershey Showalter

If you substituted the word 'Amish' for 'Mennonite', I could have written this statement. It was written by a kindred spirit, Shirley Hershey Showalter, whose first memoir, Blush: A Mennonite Girls Meets a Glittering World, was launched in September. Rich in sensory details, this is a memoir of a happy childhood, with two responsible parents who were farmers in the tradition of their Anabaptist ancestors before them.

Even though hers was a happy childhood, Showalter had aspirations early on of living life beyond the world she knew: she dreamed of becoming a teacher and an academic. I will not go into many details of the book, because you will want to experience Showalter's life story for yourself, from her earliest childhood memories until she left home at eighteen years old.

I believe this is an important book for several reasons.

Showalter's story is authentic. You know all those books called "Amish romance novels" on the market today -- the ones that show a young Amish woman in a pastoral Amish setting on the book covers? These are "happy" stories too, but they often lack authenticity. (Unless you read the books written by the only Amish-born author of this genre, Linda Byler.) Furthermore, the hundreds of books in this genre miss something very important in their pages -- what it's really like when a feisty, curious girl is born into a Plain culture. There is only one way to know what the tension between the community and the self is like and that is to have experienced it.

Showalter lived this struggle. When the young people in her congregation were asked to "rededicate their lives to Christ" several years after she had been saved and became a member of the church, most of the young people complied and did so. Showalter did not follow the other young people who had been asked to come forward. I found myself sitting right beside her on that bench, feeling alone and different, and yet knowing she was doing the right thing. To resist going with the group takes tremendous courage, and I know that lonely place well.

I keep thinking this: After all the Amish romance novels, after all the reality television shows about Amish and Mennonite teenagers going off to big cities, after all the trumped-up stories about what it's like to be lured into the world, aren't people the least bit curious about what life in Plain communities is actually like, and what it really feels like to be torn between two worlds? Blush is just such a story. After reading Blush, I found myself hoping that Showalter will write a sequel. I have a feeling that the tires spinning on the gravel as she leaves home to attend college was a new beginning in Showalter's life. I want to discover that new life with her, as she invited me to do with her childhood in "Blush." ...more

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Feb 07, 2014 Naomi rated it liked it · review of another edition

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This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. To view it, click here. Disclosure: I received this book for free through a First Reads giveaway.

When I first started reading this memoir, I mistakenly assumed the author was writing about how she eventually left the Mennonite faith. However, I was mistaken. Yes, she did rebel in her own way while growing up, especially with the help of her mother. Yes, she did leave her home community, rather than marry and settle in the area as expected, to pursue an education at a college. However, it wasn't as much of a departure a ...more

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Sep 24, 2014 Sarah rated it it was ok · review of another edition

I won this book from a Goodreads First Reads Giveaway.

Honestly? I thought it was a little boring. I thought it would be a coming-of-age story about growing up in Mennonite culture and how she essentially found her own way, but it's not. The story stops just when she gets out and, I assume, finds her own way.

I also thought it may be a bit more about how modern Mennonites live. I've always been fascinated by groups (religious or otherwise) who live differently. This book didn't really explain th ...more

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Shirley Hershey Showalter grew up on a family dairy farm in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, and went on to become the president of Goshen College and a foundation executive at The Fetzer Institute.

The word “pioneer” best describes Shirley Hershey Showalter’s career. She was the first person on either side of her family to atte Find me on my FB author page: https://www.facebook.com/ShirleyHersh...

Shirley Hershey Showalter grew up on a family dairy farm in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, and went on to become the president of Goshen College and a foundation executive at The Fetzer Institute.

The word “pioneer” best describes Shirley Hershey Showalter’s career. She was the first person on either side of her family to attend college. She was the first woman president of Goshen College, she helped the Fetzer Institute pioneer a unique mission fostering awareness of the power of love and forgiveness in the foundation world, and now she has written BLUSH: A MENNONITE GIRL MEETS THE GLITTERING WORLD http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17...

Shirley has always loved teaching and learning. After graduating from Eastern Mennonite University in 1970 and teaching high school English for two years at Harrisonburg (Virginia) High School, she entered graduate school at the University of Texas at Austin, from which she received the Ph.D. in American Civilization in 1980.

She joined the Goshen College faculty in 1976, becoming professor of English in 1989. She published numerous articles and personal essays, not only in her field of early 20th century American literature but also in spirituality, higher education, and leadership. She also won the Sears Roebuck Teaching Excellence and Community Leadership Award.

In April of 1996, Showalter was named the 14th president of Goshen College and served there until November 1, 2004. During those years, she was awarded the John S. and James L. Knight Presidential Leadership Award and other honors. The endowment grew from $46 million to $90 million; a $24 million music center was erected and many improvements were made to the campus. After intensive community dialogues, the college established core values and a strategic plan for the next decade.

On November 1, 2004, Showalter joined the Fetzer Institute as Vice President-Programs. She helped the Institute organize its staff and program around three areas: individual and community transformation, science and spirituality, and communication and outreach.

She is now a writer, blogger, and consultant living in Harrisonburg, VA. She is the mother of two adult children and grandmother of two little ones. She and her husband Stuart spent the 2011-2012 academic year taking care of grandson Owen while living in Brooklyn, NY. Most of her memoir was written in Brooklyn.

She revised her manuscript In Virginia while gazing at the Allegheny mountains which extend northward into Pennsylvania, the land of her birth.

Shirley can be reached through her website: http://www.shirleyshowalter.com, where other material (for individuals, book clubs, Sunday school classes) related to her memoir Blush can be found.
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