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Small Moments: A Child's Memories of the Civil Rights Movement

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Jim Crow. Segregation. Separate but equal. At the dawn of the Civil Rights movement, these words mean little to Mary, an eleven-year-old Southern transplant in New Jersey. Forced to grow up in an place so unlike her old home, Mary clings onto one thing she knows and loves: Amelia, her family's African American housemaid.

At once a stern caretaker and a tender mother-figure,
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Paperback, 207 pages
Published March 1st 2014 by Wise Ink (first published January 20th 2014)
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Amanda
Nov 11, 2016 Amanda rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a fantastic collection of memories about growing up just before and during the civil rights movement. The author describes her childhood with her brothers and sisters in NJ with their Nanny Amelia. This is a book about race but it's also about family and childhood and understanding the world. At the back of the book there are book group discussion questions and the very last one asks "are race relations better today? If so, how? If not, what can be done? Considering what happened this we ...more
Dorcas
"Small Moments " is a collection of one child's memories growing up during the civil rights movement in New jersey. Close to her heart and a huge part of her life was her African American nanny, Amelia.

I found the book absorbing reading. Ms. Barrow is a master storyteller and you could feel the heart that went into the writing.There's an honesty that at times must have been difficult to put down on paper. Rememberances of her father's racism and lack of familial affection, her own youthful escap
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Sandy
Sometimes when I am reading, I feel as if I am no longer reading the words on the page but I have become a part of the novel. I felt this way while reading this novel which occurs at the beginning of the Civil Rights Movement. The words flowed smoothly and time gently moved along. Amelia had nothing left but this family, her attachment to this world, and the children were her anchor. The connection with her husband and son were gone, their stories were full of heartache and yet her heart loved t ...more
Barb
May 27, 2014 Barb rated it really liked it
I received this book as a Goodreads First-Reads giveaway. This memoir explores the Civil Rights movement of the 1960s through the eyes of an 11-year old girl.

Mary's family relocates from Tennessee to New Jersey with their African-American maid, Amelia, at the start of the Civil Rights movement. The young girl has no conception of the turmoil building around her, she only registers the shifting relationship between her parents and Amelia. Southerners to the bone, Mary's father is openly scornful
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Chandra
Mar 08, 2014 Chandra rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nonfiction
GENRE: Non-Fiction. Not a history book. A life as it was book.

LOOKING AT HER AFRICAN AMERICAN MAID THRU A SMALL WHITE GIRL’S EYES.

SETTING: 1959 – 1964; Segregation in America to Civil Rights era

Amelia MacIntosh aka “Mimi”; a maid for over 12 year. Mary; as she saw Mimi thru her eyes during this period in history.

SYNOPSIS: Amelia MacIntosh moved from Tennessee to New Jersey with the family that she cared for. She loved this family but did they understand her love for them. Did they love her just
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Amy Quale
Feb 12, 2014 Amy Quale rated it it was amazing
I loved this book. Beautiful prose and characters. Small Moments reveals both subtle and stark ways that racism affects us--both now and then. Mary Barrow explores complex human experiences through the eyes of a child. A true coming-of-age story; the narrator is innocent, but exposed to deeply provocative and terrible truths about humanity.
Rochelle
Mar 07, 2014 Rochelle rated it it was amazing
Shelves: january-2014
what a great book something I will read again
Nancy Garbe
Dec 10, 2016 Nancy Garbe rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A valuable perspective

Small Moments is a child's recollection of the Civil Rights Movement of the 1950s and 1960s, aided by her perspective as an adult years later. Ms Barrow has provided bits of information about the racial issues of the times with her recollections to help the reader begin to understand how Amelia felt as a black woman working as a servant for a white family. As a memoir this is a thoughtful tribute to the woman she loved as a child. Every honest attempt to understand another
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SundayAtDusk
Oct 09, 2015 SundayAtDusk rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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Gerald D.
Aug 16, 2016 Gerald D. rated it it was amazing
An exceptionally well-told story of a child—Mary—and her relationship with the black woman, Amelia (Mimi), who takes care of the house, the clothes, the cooking, and most of all the children in Mary’s family. As the book begins the family is moving from Chattanooga to New Jersey because of Mary’s father’s new job. The father is leaving the South, but the South does not leave him: he clings to the white supremacy beliefs he probably learned in childhood and never questions, although he often exhi ...more
David Duncan
May 18, 2014 David Duncan rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: all ages
Recommended to David by: Goodreads
Small Moments by Mary M.Barrow is my seventy - third book that I have received and read from Goodreads. I think the story is a great read for all ages. It is a story of a young white girl, and a black woman who worked for her parents as a housekeeper and a nanny. Her name is Amelia MacIntosh, she played a big role in raising Mary, her brothers and sisters, and playing a big role in the Barrow household.
Mary's family in the 1960's relocated from Tennessee, to New Jersey, when her father quit the
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McGuffy Morris
Apr 07, 2014 McGuffy Morris rated it it was amazing

Mary M. Barrow was born to a large Southern family in Tennessee. As was customary in the 1950s, the Barrow family employed Amelia. She served as both nanny and housekeeper.

Early in the 1960s, Mary’s family relocated to New Jersey when her father found new employment there. Amelia moved with the family, leaving the south and life as she knew it behind. Times were changing for the Barrows, Amelia, and America. It was the beginning of the Civil Rights Movement.

Mary shares her experiences, as seen
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Eliot Parulidae
Apr 22, 2014 Eliot Parulidae rated it really liked it
Shelves: memoir, nonfiction
Small Moments was a pleasant surprise. A friend recommended it to me, but I was a bit incredulous - I don't read a lot of books intended for children and teens, and I was afraid I wouldn't like it. My anxieties turned out to be pointless.

Mary M. Barrow wrote this book as a tribute and memorial to Amelia MacIntosh, a black maid who worked for her family during the 1950s and '60s and had a central role in her upbringing. Amelia suffered a great deal in her life, and the author is able to portray
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Whitney Delgado
May 27, 2014 Whitney Delgado rated it it was amazing
"Small Moments" is a great read. The story is told from a young girl's perspective. The book addresses issues such as racism, classism, politics, and civil rights. Mary wants her mail, Amelia, to love her like her own but as she grows older she realizes that there are different types of love. With Amelia's help Mary learns her place in the world.

Before a few chapters there are little blurbs about historical events which foreshadow what will be addressed in the next chapter without giving it awa
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Jill
Mar 20, 2014 Jill rated it liked it
This is a touching memoir describing the relationship between a young white girl and the black woman who worked for her parents and played a huge role in raising her. It explained, from a child's naive point of view, the complicated relationship that often existed in these families during this time of civil unrest and changes in laws and attitudes towards segretation. A beautiful tribute to Amelia.
Russell Love
Jun 06, 2014 Russell Love rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Must read!!

Must read!!

I could not put this book down. I originally got it as a free book, but inadvertently deleted it. I HAD to purchase it, it was simply too good to not be able to finish it. This is an amazing true snapshot of a tumultuous time in our history written from a child growing up in the middle of it. I highly recommend this book!!!!
Christine Lujan-Hodges
I'll never forget Mimi....

I'll never forget Mimi....

I gave this book the highest rating because I love reading love stories of all kinds.
Be prepared to cry for the lost innocence of a child as well as our country.
I would recommend this as a lesson for everyone.
Laura Shavers
Jun 08, 2014 Laura Shavers rated it liked it
I won this through a Goodreads Giveaway. I liked the book although I think the title is a tad misleading. This book was more of a memoir of the author's childhood and it didn't tie into what was going on too much with the civil rights movement. There were little snippets here and there, but not much. Overall, I still liked it. It just wasn't I expected.
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Aug 10, 2014 Allergykidmom's Book Reviews rated it really liked it
Small Moments is just that, excerpt stories taken from a young girl's life. Interesting stories that show you how much a caretaker and child can come to truly care about each other even during the Civil Rights Movement era. You also get a sort of history lesson with the little excerpts that she puts before some chapters.
Shalea
Nov 04, 2015 Shalea rated it really liked it
I received this book to review from NetGalley.

I was drawn by cover & description of the book and it did not disappoint. Truly enjoyed how the story was narrated through the child's view. Many historical events, family struggles & triumphs.
Kudos to Mary M. Barrow, job well done.
Susan Walker
Jun 17, 2014 Susan Walker rated it really liked it
Excellent book that tells the story Mary, an eleven year old girl and her relationship with Amelia, the family's African-American "housemaid" during the Civil Rights movement.

This is based on a true story and is a wonderful book. I not only read it but am keeping it in my personal library.
Sandy Costanza
Jun 18, 2014 Sandy Costanza rated it really liked it
Shelves: first-reads
This was a wonderful book. Written in separate chapters of memories it depicts a struggling time with many issues we still face today. It is a shame we haven't moved farther ahead as a society.
Merrill
Jun 15, 2016 Merrill rated it it was amazing
Must read!
P Mcfarland
Excellent book. Very moving.
Beth Olson shultz
May 31, 2014 Beth Olson shultz rated it it was amazing
Shelves: first-read
This book is so good that I read it slower than usual. The writing is superb! Won this book from goodreads. Definitely get yourself a copy of this book.
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Mar 10, 2014
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Mary Barrow is a winner of the Midwest Book Award, an Indie Excellence Award Finalist, and Bronze Medal award winner for Reader's Favorites for 'Small Moments: A Child's Memories of the Civil Rights Movement published by Wise Ink Creative Publishers. She has been a professional writer and editor her entire career. She is also the author of 'Sun Protection for Life: Your Guide to a Lifetime of Heal ...more
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