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First published December 30, 2014
If you want more, you have to give less.
The Girlfriend Stigma (TGS): a scientific term describing the disgrace girls face from guys when the girls appear to want to hold the title of girlfriend.
TGS. There isn't anything more pathetic.
Say "girlfriend" and boys say "good-bye."
We're doing what people do when they're bored on Saturday nights. We're wandering the mall drinking cherry Slurpees mixed with vodka and waiting for something to miraculously entertain us.
I finally stopped reading because I was sick of the parties and the drinking. I was sick of Aubrey. I was sick of how she never explicitly told Nathan she was anti-relationship. She kind of led him on and I REALLY don't like that. If a guy does that to a girl, he's a scumbag. Why is it okay for girls to do it to guys? If she's anti-relationship—fine—that's her business. But she becomes a bitch if she acts like a girlfriend (going on dates, having sex, texting) but doesn't come up and say, "I'm only interested in sex or a short term 'hang out' thing".
I hated how Aubrey and her friends had planned escapes from relationships. They had a word for it (like 'escape plan' or 'out' or 'fail safe' or something else) but I forget. But the idea was this: when they got tired of 'hanging out' with a guy, they had to end it. But if the guy was clingy and didn't want to end it, they had to make it end. This usually involved staging the girl with another guy while the first guy was watching (so he thinks she's cheating and gets his heart broken). UGH! Not cool, girls.
Then, I got sick of Aubrey putting up with Trip, the guy she lost her virginity to several months before. Trip asks her to "help him study". Which translates to:[Trip is] wearing a sly smile. He's waiting for it to hit me that he graduated high school not because he finished his homework and studied hard, but because he got girls to do his homework and study for him. By study, of course, I mean provide him with the answers.
So Trip asks Audrey to help him study, she thinks the above paragraph, then agrees to help him. I don't care if she's actually going to try to make him study for not... The guy is a right dick face! Screw him. Let him fail out of college. He might actually deserve it.
At this point I stopped reading
I had to deal with all this drama and I was sick of it. Yes, Nathan was cute and sweet. But Audrey and Nathan hadn't had a single REAL conversation yet, even at 42%. Nathan may have thought they did, but at least Audrey's side wasn't exactly real. I felt like she was two-facing him the whole time. I could sort of see the transformation happening because she acted like she wanted to be in a relationship with Nathan, but I was sick of waiting for her to act on it.
*I don't believe in stress; I believe in living.
*Something about him looks put-together. Something about him seems torn apart. Like when a rug is laid down to cover a stain but is still really out of place in the room.