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Love Letters to the Dead

3.82  ·  Rating details ·  47,037 Ratings  ·  6,536 Reviews
It begins as an assignment for English class: Write a letter to a dead person. Laurel chooses Kurt Cobain because her sister, May, loved him. And he died young, just like May did. Soon, Laurel has a notebook full of letters to people like Janis Joplin, Amy Winehouse, Amelia Earhart, Heath Ledger, and more -- though she never gives a single one of them to her teacher. She w ...more
Hardcover, 336 pages
Published April 1st 2014 by Farrar, Straus and Giroux
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Emily May
May 07, 2014 rated it did not like it
Dear Famous Person,

You are so cool. My name is Laurel and I go to High School but I am still going to talk to you in the passive, immature voice of a 10 year old and then occasionally break out into beautiful metaphors about the sparkles in Sky's eyes and how just one glance from him makes fireflies dance in my stomach (or something equally nauseating beautiful).

"There is something fragile like moths inside of him, something fluttering. Something trying desperately to crowd toward a light. May
Khanh (the meanie)
Dear Kurt Cobain,
Mrs. Buster gave us our first assignment in English today, to write a letter to a dead person.
For me, this book was pointless, puerile, and pretentious, with a character who is the passive, dull YA contemporary equivalent of Bella Swan or Luce Price.
It’s hard to be myself, because I don’t know exactly who I am. But now that I’ve started high school, I need to figure it out really fast.
The main character was simultaneously too naive and juvenile, while never letting me forget
Wendy Darling
4.5 stars Months ago, I had to put Love Letters to the Dead down because it was making me so desperately sad. Almost a full year later, I read the last half of it with a lump in my throat and tears dripping down my face. This is a profoundly moving meditation on grief, written with rare sensitivity and the kind of prose that nearly stops your heart with moments of quiet, anguished beauty.

Review on the blog:

Strongly recommended for fans of If I Stay.

Ash Wednesday
Our flushing hearts, trying to climb the stars - how with the wrong wind, we can fall.

I don’t think I’ve ever felt so many contrasting emotions for a book as I did for this one. My first impulse was to rage quit this as early as the second Cobain letter, followed by derisively laughing at Laurel’s puerile drama. Then I felt some alien tug at my heart over Aunt Amy and her Jesus Man and got teary-eyed over the story behind her parents’ broken marriage. Reading this book felt a lot like
Una historia con la que he conectado por pasajes, con personajes secundarios que realmente no aportan nada y en general, una trama que da tumbos.

Cartas de amor a los muertos me ha parecido una novela simple, llena de situaciones clichés y con una manera de ser narrada que creo que a veces era más una lacra que una virtud. Que está bien 'introducir' a personajes como Kurt Cobain o Amy Winehouse, pero queda demasiado en el rollo alternativo que se convierte finalmente en mainstream, y por tanto, n
Dec 27, 2013 rated it it was amazing
Reminiscent of Perks Of Being A Wallflower, Love Letters To The Dead is too beautiful, too meaningful, and too heartbreaking to describe with words. An incredible, moving and very important story with a beating heart and bright soul. It's one of those books that everyone ought to read, own, and share with all their friends.

don't miss it
Jan 19, 2016 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: estantería

Cartas de amor a los muertos es una novela autoconclusiva epistolar recientemente publicada en español. Llevaba mucho tiempo queriendo leerla y tenía unas altas expectativas que de alguna manera no ha cumplido pero a la vez me ha sorprendido porque es muy diferente a como esperaba.
Como digo, de alguna manera he sentido cierta decepción con este libro. Había un gran hype en el Estado español, unido a las opiniones buenísimas que había
Kelly (and the Book Boar)
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Obviously Mitchell and I aren’t the target demographic for this book, so take my rating with several grains of salt and I’m going to keep this short and sweet sour, just like myself. Love Letters To The Dead could have been a perfectly A-Okay book for me. The basic storyline is Laurel’s sister May is gone and Laurel is lost in her grief. She swaps schools in order to get rid of the “sister of the dead girl” stigma and is presented wit
Rashika (is tired)
***This review has also been posted on The Social Potato

WARNING: This book may cause you to spend a whole day feeling down.

“There are some things I can’t tell anyone, except the people who aren’t here anymore”

This is honestly a very hard book to review. It brought out a lot of mixed feelings in me. I went back and forth between being pissed and loving the book and it wasn’t until the 3rd third that I decided that this book was wonderful. A warning though, if you don’t like drama, avoid this.
Aj the Ravenous Reader

"You can be noble and brave and beautiful and still find yourself falling."

Although the title is a blaring warning that this is going to be a tough and probably a torturous read, I boldly ignored it because look at the book cover. Doesn’t it look beautiful? Its invisible strings had this unrelenting tug at my eyes and my heart that made me give in and grab the book. ^^

I really didn’t know what to expect from this book but what I did not expect is that the entire story is written through let
Anj (seaweed books)
Sep 22, 2017 rated it it was ok
Underwhelming. I had expected a beautiful story when I went into this book. What I got was an annoying protagonist, one- dimensional characters and a history of celebs who died at a very young age. If I had written this review right after I had completed the book, I'm sure that half of it would have been in caps. I was that annoyed.

The beginning was quite slow and I had to plough through those pages. I was expecting the book to get better, but then, how wrong was I? I was completely wrong. Thin
May 03, 2014 rated it liked it
I ended up enjoying this book and the characters a lot, but it was SO similar to Perks that it annoyed me. I love the idea of writing letters to someone who is dead, and I love how the author included facts and things about the famous person's life. The characters were lovely and the writing was beautiful. Getting over loss is never easy, and I really liked how the author approached it.
The romance aspect felt a little forced to me. There wasn't much build up or substance or....anything, until cl
Jul 03, 2014 rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: tragedy lovers
“What I told you about saving people isn't true. You might think it is, because you might want someone else to save you, or you might want to save someone so badly. But no one else can save you, not really. Not from yourself. [...] You fall asleep in the foothills, and the wolf comes down from the mountains. And you hope someone will wake you up. Or chase it off. Or shoot it dead. But when you realize that the wolf is inside you, that's when you know. You can't run from it. And no one who loves
Shelby *trains flying monkeys*
This book is a hard one for me to decide how to rate. There were parts of it I really liked and there were parts of it when I thought my eyes would glaze over and never recover.
Laurel is given an assignment to write to a dead person. She begins to do so and never turns in the assignment. Once she starts she keeps going with it and changes to several past celebrities and historical figures. She has moved to a new school to help cope with her sister Mae's death. Hoping that a new school will shie
Raeleen Lemay
Apr 03, 2014 rated it it was ok
Shelves: lgbtqia, young-adult
I have no idea how to explain how I feel about this book.... Like it was good... But I hated it? My emotions are confused.

Video review to come (possibly)
Maria Espadinha
Apr 17, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
O Peso das Memórias

May e Laurel crescem juntas partilhando o mundo, até àquele dia fatídico que Laurel, se possível, eliminaria do calendário, para que tudo regressasse ao outrora!...
Laurel e May, May e Laurel, irmãs e cúmplices, juntas e felizes, duas e uma!...

Com o trágico desaparecimento da irmã, Laurel perdera aquele mundo construído e partilhado. O mundo em que sempre se conhecera, desaparecera! Só ficara ela - Laurel - mas onde raio estava o resto? Aquele resto que também era ela e sem o q
Ashley Daviau
Oct 16, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book tore my heart into pieces and left me a total mess. It was both absolutely beautiful and devastating at the same time. I wasn't expecting the whole book to be in the form of letters but when I saw it was, I was thrilled. I loved the idea of it and it totally sucked me in. I related to the main character Laurel in many ways and I think that's a big part of why I loved this book so much. I went through a very difficult period right around the same age as she is during the story and so I ...more
Michelle (Pink Polka Dot Books)
2.5 Stars
Overall it was a letdown. Immature characters and predictable drama :(

Laurel is given an assignment in Freshman English to write a letter to a dead person. While she doesn't turn in the assignment, for the rest of the year she continues to write to dead celebrities about her life. Her sister died and she's starting at a new school district, meeting new friends, navigating potential pitfalls, and meeting boys. As the year goes on Laurel meets a group of friends and a boy that makes a maj
Oct 08, 2017 rated it liked it
Nothing is worse that when someone who is supposed to love you just leaves.


I felt a bit like climbing a ladder with this one. Only the rungs felt a little rusty and unstable at times. At first, I thought it was more along the lines of, what I call, a 2 star book, but slowly, and steadily, I watched my opinion of this book rise. I definitely considered giving it a 4 star rating, but whilst, there were parts where I stopped for a second and thought 'wow', unfortunately I had to chip it d
Apr 04, 2014 rated it did not like it
Tedious. Repetitive. Pretentious. Love Letters to the the Dead is too similar to The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky. Yes, a copy.
Jun 19, 2015 rated it liked it
the art of losing's not too hard to master
though it may look like disaster.

Love Letters To The Dead is, in sum, about loss, grief and guilt; all welded together into a sharp weapon that keeps stabbing at the heart of Laurel. Once I began this novel, I found striking resemblance with two books: Love, Rosie because of the presentation of the story in the format of letters and All the Bright Places because of an on-silent-mode central character (like Violet Markey) who has lost her sister. Nonethel
crni biser
Jan 13, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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"Zabluda je da tuga ujedinjuje..."


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Jillian (bookishandnerdy)
Oct 30, 2013 rated it it was amazing

I AM A MESS RIGHT NOW, BUT OMG THIS BOOK HAS TOUCHED ME SO DEEPLY. I can't even coherently gather my thoughts. Just know that I wholeheartedly recommend you read this book. A heartbreakingly beautiful story about grief and growing up. A story about forgiveness. Love, friendship, and family themes are all present. This book will grab hold of you and won't let go. I'm SO in love with this book. In love with Laurel's story. May's story. And every other cha
Dayse Dantas
Apr 16, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Dear Kate Chopin,
there's something extraordinary about writing letters the dead. I think it's because it's kind of freeing to write something to someone who will never ever read it. You don't feel silly about getting too deep or too poetic or too weird or nonsensical. And it's better than writing a diary, because a diary is basically one talking to oneself, and sometimes we don't want to talk to ourselves, we want to talk to someone else, but we can't because we don't want to sound too deep or t
Heather 'Bookables'
Apr 03, 2014 rated it really liked it
Shelves: contemporary

I have been anticipating this book since last year. I thought the premise of the book sounded amazing & it was! Now I will say if you are fan of Stephen Chbosky's 'The Perks Of Being A Wallflower', you will LOVE this book! Fun fact, Ava actually worked for Mr. Chbosky for awhile & gave him some of her writing and he urged her to write a novel. So as you can tell he was a big influence over this book.

I thought the book started off a little slow so I
Ruben (BooksVlogs)  Arauz

La Autora escribe hermoso, como si fuera un poeta, sin embargo la historia está regular, los personajes algunos buenos, otros regulares, lo que combierte está lectura en una regular para mi, sin lugar a duda es una historia un tanto real un tanto pendeja.....Sin más que decir...Éste NENE....(Hasta termino las cartas mejor que Laurel xD)
Jan 30, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: ya


You all are well aware by now that I am completely and helplessly obsessed with YA books. I’ll read just about anything in that genre. Literally. I can’t get enough of it. I don’t know if I never grew up from my own teenage years, or if I felt that my teenage years weren't what they were supposed to be, or if I just have some weird fascination with teenagers. What I do know is that I can’t say no to YA novels.

Love Letters to the Dead was brought to my attention by one of those stupid fake Dea
J.m. Darhower
May 28, 2014 rated it it was amazing
Love Letters to the Dead is the type of book you either love or hate. There's very little middle ground. Either you find it utterly brilliant, or you have a hard time even making it through the damn thing. And I can see why some might not like it... it's certainly not for everyone. I stayed up all night reading the book. Literally. All night. I finished the last word 45 minutes before my alarm went off.

And I don't regret it for a second.

I was awestruck by the author's bravery in tackling the sub
India Jade

4 stars. Love Letters to the Dead is an amazing book, but I made the mistake of going into it with really high expectations, and that made it seem like it wasn't as good as it could have been.

I hate when I do that.

Maybe when we can tell the stories, however bad they are, we don't belong to them anymore. They become ours. And maybe what growing up really means is knowing that you don't have to just be a character, going whichever way the story says. It's knowing that you could be the auth
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