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Slut!: Growing Up Female with a Bad Reputation

3.82  ·  Rating details ·  1,722 Ratings  ·  95 Reviews
Girls may be called "sluts" for any number of reasons, including being outsiders, early developers, victims of rape, targets of others' revenge. Often the labels has nothing to do with sex -- the girls simply do not fit in.  An important account of the lives of these young women, Slut! weaves together powerful oral histories of girls and women who finally overcame their se ...more
Paperback, 280 pages
Published August 22nd 2000 by Harper Perennial (first published 1999)
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Abby
Oct 23, 2007 rated it did not like it
Shelves: non-fiction
Intended to be an exposee into the underbelly of young adult women, Slut purports to examine the power dynamic between young women and men that leads them to label others, deserving or undeserving, of the name "slut". The author had so many amazing opportunities to really delve into the psychology behind the label of "slut" as attached to a teenage girl. Instead, she produced a regurgitation of The Body Project and Reviving Ophelia for Cosmo magazine.

Many times, in arguing for more equality bet
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Brandy
Mar 29, 2007 rated it liked it
Less an "interesting look" and more a "cursory glance" at sexual harassment in schools. It includes some stories from women who were considered the school sluts and have gone on to become strong, independent women, who credit their high-school reputations with their self-assuredness now. Unfortunately, I doubt that's the case for most of the girls saddled with those reputations. Slut! doesn't really cover the main reasons this sort of thing happens, or even why, but it does break the girls into ...more
Daniela
Oct 22, 2008 rated it really liked it
While reading this book I learned a lot of things. The troubles many females go through in their teen years. People don't realize it, but an insult such as slut could live on a woman's life not only her teen years, but as an older woman as well. A point that author Laura Tanenbaum stated in which really caught my attention was when she stated, if a man were to be sexually active, positive expressions would be a stud, ladies' man, Romeo and the list goes on. For a negative expression, there's wom ...more
Stephanie
Jan 16, 2009 rated it it was ok
Hmmm, I have mixed feelings about this book. I liked all the personal stories and specific examples, but I really just felt the book was a sob story. I get that repercussions of being called a slut can be quite serious, and I have no doubt that it continues today, but the book never came up with any real solution. It didn't leave me feeling inspired to make a change or to really stand up and fight against the injustice that is a woman's sexuality. In fact, it made me feel the opposite, that ther ...more
Sophia
I really only made it to page 100... i can even tell you what line made me say "you know... i just cant read this anymore". But ill do it tomoroow, im tired tonight.

Continued.
The exact sentence that made me go "wow this is really bullshiit"... was "These girls unrealistic expectations of fusing love and sex led directly to profound unhappiness." Ok, i know she tries to balance it out in the next paragrapgh (because i just read it when i looked up the quote) rather poorly, but its her entire TONE
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Heather
Jun 15, 2009 rated it it was ok
I had 3 problems with this book.

1. It outright says that males don't face similar ridicule or pressure. This is completely inaccurate. Sexuality is used against boys just as much as girls. Boys are called fags and sissies. Their masculinity is questioned and they are pressured to be promiscuous in order to have "status" in the social hierarchy. In one portion of the book the author discusses a study in which children are asked what they would think if their bodies were switched for that of the o
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Kiwi
Jan 15, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Recommended to Kiwi by: Snoopy
Snoopy handed me this book to read. I'm very glad she did.

Reading this book alerted me to some high school aspects that had gone reasonably beyond my observance. I was pinned a "prude"--a gay prude, which somehow confused people more, but one nonetheless. I did not experience the bad reputation of being pegged for a "slut" for sexual acts OR just being a freak. (Rather than girls calling me a slut just to encompass my not fitting in, they went along to say I was just a strange freak. I appreciat
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Sarah
Dec 19, 2011 rated it really liked it
I think this is an important book. At least, the subject matter certainly is, and I've yet to read another book that discusses it so well, though I've heard good things about Reviving Ophelia. The author manages to present the facts and psychological impact of the issue on both boys and girls, and remains fairly objective. Though it occasionally comes across that she's advocating sexual promiscuity, I think that those who believe that's actually what she's advocating are missing the point: Tanen ...more
Su
Feb 23, 2014 rated it liked it
Slut! was a pretty good book. I found it to be extremely repetitive and narrow in its treatment of "slut-bashing" or as we more commonly refer to it today "slut-shaming", but it did offer many good insights into the culture that informs the practice - particularly from an American perspective.

That being said, I would like to note that part of my reason for not "loving" it is due to the edition I have. I'm not sure if an updated edition of Slut! has been released, but the copy I own is from its
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Allison
Jun 29, 2010 rated it really liked it
This book covered a lot of ground in not a lot of pages, and the author was able to bring most of it together using some really interesting and insightful analysis. She has some excellent ideas for the motivation behind girl-on-girl sexual harassment -- competition arising from a sex-wide society-imposed inferiority complex -- and the word "slut" as a catch-all phrase to enhance the divide between "good girls" and "bad girls." Her discussion of slut-shaming as a false deterrent from "promiscuous ...more
Erin
Jun 15, 2008 rated it did not like it
Wow- two bad books in a row! This book was so bad that it was funny. The author, Leora Tanenbaum is a perfect example of an ugly girl who hates society because she never fit in. She champions abortion as a form of birth control and seems the type to cheer a Girls Gone Wild commercial instead of understanding just how bad an influence that type of trash is. She mistakes promiscuity for equality and thinks that in order to be equal, women must lower their morals & values to that of basest men. ...more
Amalia Acorda-fey
Mar 18, 2008 rated it really liked it
This was a good book. I of course was initially attracted to this book because of the title, but as i read on it gave great insight into the real happenings of slut-bashing. I bet you all can figure out what slut-bashing is, and i wonder if you realize that i happens in women of all ages, not just junior high/high school. The author shared many stories of girls and women that were labeled sluts themselves, and how they either prevailed and left high school with dignity, and also how many girls w ...more
julia
Mar 10, 2008 rated it really liked it
Recommended to julia by: NPR
What a great idea for a book. The author solicited women through the newspaper to tell their stories of being the "slut" of their highschool. Its amazing how many women felt exactly the same, how they had to deal with the same bizarre stories of gangbanging the football team and hotdogs and every other gross thing girls and boys say about their highschool "slut". And sadly, many of them still deal with the damage that did to their self-esteem.
Jennifer
Feb 11, 2013 rated it liked it
C'est un livre dont j'ai beaucoup apprécié la diversité des expériences de vie relatées dans les témoignages et qui est venu me chercher à plusieurs niveaux. L'analyse était plus que pertinente et toujours d'actualité.

Or, le contenu était très redondant et j'ai fini par perdre l'intérêt. Dommage car cette formule de livre et son thème sont clairement un must.
Haylie
Aug 11, 2017 rated it it was ok
It's taken me a bit to read this. To be fair, it's a bit dry and I picked it up and put it down multiple times so I still have mixed feelings about it.

When I began the book, I remember feeling gung-ho to read about the moniker, "slut", and its implications. The book actually had me for a bit with me contributing an understanding nod as I read through the chapters.

But then I noticed something near the middle to end of the book: it mainly revolved around women's tales in school and (in my opinion
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Michaela Greeley
Jun 20, 2017 rated it it was amazing
This was extremely informative. I had no idea that this kind of shaming goes on starting at a very young age. (I wonder if America is the only place this happens.) I grew up in foreign countries so I was spared the "American high school experience," but jeez! It's so sad.
Virginia Rand
May 23, 2017 rated it really liked it
I found this book a bit hard to read, because of the things it talked about, but it's a really good book about a really important topic.
Mckenzie Richardson
This was a truly amazing book! Janenbaum conducted a sort of unofficial qualitative study comprised of interviews of fifty girls and women from various age groups. The stories these interviewees tell were emotionally difficult to read at times, but all of them carried an important message. Janenbaum did a superb job of analyzing the girls' and women's experiences in an easy-to-understand fashion. She also incorporated popular news stories dealing with the subject as well as her own personal expe ...more
Michelle
I picked up Slut! on the strong recommendation of a friend. Leora Tanenbaum's compilation and commentary from her interviews with women and girls who have been labeled as "sluts." I felt like it was really important for these women to have their say. Given that many of them were labeled regardless of circumstances (one for refusing to have sex, one for being raped by a friend's boyfriend, all of them for sticking out in some way). The problem with slut-bashing is that once someone is labeled as ...more
C
Dec 20, 2013 rated it it was ok
Confession: I didn't enjoy reading this book, but I want it to be rated highly so that others will read it.

Thing is, this was basically my story. So while I was initially grateful to see the reality of my experience validated and to nod my head at the recognition that what I endured made me a stronger person, at some point I started to feel that I already knew everything she was saying. And at that point, reading about and thinking back on all the cultural bullshit that girls have to deal with
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Natalie Logue
Aug 11, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
This is a collection of lives told from women who were once girls living on the outskirts of their societies - not always socio-economically. I'm always desperately attracted to these books about girls who get reputations for being a whore, slut, bitch, whathaveyou, and I think it's because there is this huge double standard that goes into the creation of these stereotypes as well as the utter falsity of the accusations. In fact, what amazes me most, is that often the girls who engage in sexuall ...more
Angela
Jun 12, 2007 rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: teenagers
Recommended to Angela by: Monica
Shelves: nonfiction, feminist
I read Slut! for the first time as a senior in college on the recommendation of my roommate. She commented to me something along the lines of having read it long after coming to many of the realizations described in the book & wished she'd read it in middle school or high school.

I read it and had to agree; I found myself wishing it were required reading for ALL teenagers, male & female. As for me, I'd already learned those lessons -- in middle & high school, the hard way.

As someone w
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Tortla
Mar 04, 2009 rated it it was ok
Shelves: feministy, memoiry, essays
Incredibly dated narratives of "sluts," centered around the author's own experience as a "slut" but too personally invested to have the proper distance for insightful representation of these narratives. Overall a simplistic, self-indulgent, repetitive, and disappointing read. Full of misplaced (stereotypical "feminazi") reactionary feminist rhetoric.

It would be a suckysuckybook, but Tanenbaum is self-aware enough that the book seems aware of some of its anecdotal/reactionary flaws (if not how ut
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Tina
Aug 27, 2014 rated it liked it
Ugh! Well, it had some good moments but the stories are not universal, as few experiences of feminism and sexism can be. It is the story of one woman's experience and the experiences of others like her- white, upper- middle to upper class. I think, it did give a fair account of the kinds of behaviors that girls enter into both willingly and unwillingly and that affect girls' reputations and their self-views. It does offer a few reason why girls are willing to "become" sluts, but I do not think i ...more
Sophia
Slut! Growing up female with a bad reputation is an exploration behind the common practice of 'slut-bashing.' Leora Tanenbaum, labeled a slut herself in high school, intersperses the stories of her interviewees with a critique of what she sees as sexual double standards and sexual harassment. Though somewhat dated (it's been a while since I've seen Jenny Jones mentioned), this subject has become more relevant in the age of technology-enabled bullying. Most girls get called sluts or worse to be m ...more
Le'jayah
Apr 05, 2008 rated it liked it
Recommends it for: 13 and up!
Recommended to Le'jayah by: Sally, Amalia,
This book opened my eyes to the little things around me. For example, gossip and why it happens. I learned that even after many years many things have not changed. Nowadays slut is put in casual conversation still meaning to degrade someone. This book was published in the year 2000 and things were changing then. But now its 2008, eight years later and the similarities outweight the differences. From this book the thought of being yourself was reinforced for me. Because no matter what anyone says ...more
Terese
Feb 10, 2014 rated it liked it
I started out with high hopes for this book but was disappointed to find it kind of shallow. At least that is my first impression, I will probably return to it and might find something deeper the second time around. That said it is thought provoking as well as a good start into the subject. I think every reader will get something of worth out of it.
For me where the book really got good was around the section; "The culture of sexual entitlement", which started to address more of what I had expec
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Amy
Sep 11, 2007 rated it it was amazing
I read this book for a project in class and just loved it. It gave some great insight into the sexual inequalities that still exist for women in today's society. What's more is that this sexual inequality is often perpetuated by other girls/women within the language which we choose to refer to one another. The book also explores the after-effects of such a damaging label. I tried to be cautious of using this four letter word before, but now I think I have completed erased it from my vocabulary.
Rachel
Jan 24, 2009 rated it it was ok
I had the same frustration with this book that I experienced in Women's Studies classes- oh the ennui. I get bored listening to stories of people's experiences when we should be discussing the causes of modern sexism and misogyny. We should be asking, "Why isn't rape a hate crime?" We should be compiling hard data and campaigning for legislation- and we (women) should be publishing nonfiction that is well-supported, well-documented, and well-written (see The Body Project, Reviving Ophelia, Bitch ...more
Sarah
May 08, 2010 rated it really liked it
A really interesting book on why girls are called sluts, what that even means, and how it is harmful to them. When a girl/woman is called "bad", it pretty much always is a comment on her sexual life, whether or not it is true. A very provocative quick read, from start to finish about 3 hours. I would highly recommend this to any female for sure, and any male who wants to understand the societal pressures put on girls to maintain a pure image (hopefully any male who has any type of relationship w ...more
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“Abstaining from sex, hitting the books, and wearing loose-fitting clothes are common ways that girls try to molt their "slutty" image. But more often their shame leads them to self-destructive behavior. They become willing to do things that they wouldn't have dreamed of doing before they were scandalized because they now feel they have so little to offer. Some girls do drugs or drink to excess in an attempt to blot away their stigma. Others become depressed and anorexic. And others think so little of themselves that they date boys who insult or beat them.” 23 likes
“When a stranger on the street makes a sexual comment, he is making a private assessment of me public. And though I’ve never been seriously worried that I would be attacked, it does make me feel unguarded, unprotected.

Regardless of his motive, the stranger on the street makes an assumption based on my physique: He presumes I might be receptive to his unpoetic, unsolicited comments. (Would he allow a friend to say “Nice tits” to his mother? His sister? His daughter?) And although I should know better, I, too, equate my body with my soul and the result, at least sometimes, is a deep shame of both.

Rape is a thousand times worse: The ultimate theft of self-control, it often leads to a breakdown in the victim’s sense of self-worth. Girls who are molested, for instance, often go on to engage in risky behavior—having intercourse at an early age, not using contraception, smoking, drinking, and doing drugs. This behavior, it seems to me, is at least in part because their self-perception as autonomous, worthy human beings in control of their environment has been taken from them.”
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