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If you have struggled personally against the powerful draw of pornography, or if you have ever tried to help someone fighting this battle, you know how hard it is to break free. But real freedom isn’t found by trying harder to change. Nor is it found in a particular method or program. Only Jesus Christ has the power to free people from the enslaving power of pornography.


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Paperback, 176 pages
Published August 12th 2013 by Zondervan (first published August 6th 2013)
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Josh
Aug 09, 2013 rated it it was amazing
Quite simply, this is the best book on freedom from addiction to pornography that I have read (and I have read my fair share of books of this type over the years). The depth and thoroughness to which Heath Lambert goes to strike at the root causes of pornography addiction, and how God equips each of us to fight this addiction, was so refreshing and Christ-centered that I found myself driven to a deeper love for God and His Word through what I was reading from Lambert. If you have read any other ...more
Nathan Schneider
Jan 31, 2015 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: manhood
Great resource for men in their call to live in purity. Very helpful. Lambert is both practical and theological. Both are necessary in the fight for purity.
Mathew
Sep 09, 2013 rated it it was amazing
Finally Free is one of those books you buy a dozen of and keep on hand. Pornography is an epidemic. It’s a huge industry, widely and easily accessibly, and the percentage of people who view it is high. Many of these viewers start at a young age. Heath shares his own story. He viewed it for the first time at eight years old. I also was introduced to pornography at eight years old. It’s not uncommon. A lot of people who are introduced early fight it late into life. Finally Free provides hope and p ...more
Alex Stein
Jan 15, 2020 rated it it was amazing
Praise God for this book! You will leave it wanting to put sin to death through the power of God’s transforming grace!
Reed Schafer
Jul 02, 2018 rated it it was amazing
6/5

My great friend Kyle Beckrich's review couldn't be more true...
"This book is a must read for anyone who wants to seriously fight their sin as well as for those who are mentoring/discipling others. This book from start to finish was Christ-centered and grace-filled, yet did not shy away from the serious consequences of sin."

Heath walks the reader through the seriousness of sin, its consequences, and how we can put our sin to death by God's transforming grace. And like Kyle said if you want to
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Kyle&Jenn Beckrich
Jun 12, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This book is a must read for anyone who wants to seriously fight their sin as well as for those who are mentoring/discipling others. This book from start to finish was Christ-centered and grace-filled, yet did not shy away from the serious consequences of sin.
Patrick
Apr 14, 2016 rated it really liked it
Heath Lambert has written a highly practical and gospel-centered book which is sure to help anyone willing to apply the principles it teaches. Written specifically to help those ensnared in pornography, Finally Free offers eight straightforward strategies for freedom, all of which are rooted in a Biblical perspective on human sin and our dependence on God's grace for victory over it. Lambert offers insightful advice on familiar strategies (e.g. confession and accountability) and suggests other h ...more
David Jamison
Jan 26, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This book is Christ saturated. I’ve read a few books on the subject but this one delivers the best advice for real victory and change - Christ. Although Lambert does offer practical measures to take in overcoming lust, he makes clear that these things are just watering and planting and clearing the way, but it’s Christ alone who gives the growth (victory). He truly believes the gospel is powerful and has dealt a deadly blow to sin’s dominion over the Christian and he presents that biblical truth ...more
Pete Williamson
Sep 19, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: pastoring, counseling
Very good resource for helping people who struggle with sexual sin.
David West
Mar 23, 2018 rated it really liked it
A short, but good book on an important topic. If you struggle, or you are counseling someone who struggles, this book will be helpful. Action items are included at the end of each chapter. A great book to use for people disciping others one on one.
T.C. Robinson
Apr 12, 2014 rated it really liked it
Recently someone came to my office, seeking counsel. This person had been struggling with pornography since they were 14 years old. This person was burdened with guilt. They needed help. I wanted to help.

I remembered I had ran across Finally Free: Fighting for Purity with the Power of Grace, a book on how to be set free from pornography. I went ahead and purchased it, seeking answers on how to help others with what has been described as The New Narcotic. Below is a review:

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Kevin Sorensen
Sep 10, 2013 rated it it was amazing
Let me begin my review by saying this has just become my 'Go To' book in helping anyone deal with sexual sins like pornography. However, don't let the word 'pornography' scare you off. These strategies Lambert lays out would be great in the fight for faith against so many other sins: jealousy, envy, greed, discontentment, anxiety, fear, worry, covetousness, gluttony and any number of other sins.
How can I claim a book that clear has as it's subtitle 'Fighting For Purity With the Power of Grace' b
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Jonathan Roberts
Aug 10, 2013 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: own, 2013
What an incredible book! Let's start right off with the fact that this is like no other book on pornography I have ever read. Instead of being about statistics, guilt and strategies to keep pornography away from yourself, it is a book about what is more excellent. I am reminded of a famous sermon by Puritan Thomas Chalmers, The Expulsive Power of a New Affection, which says it does no good to remove idols and sinful acts from our lives if we do not replace them with something greater. And this i ...more
Chris Wray
Nov 02, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: 2016
This was very good. Although written primarily to address pornography, everything Lambert says applies equally to all manifestations of lust. As such, this is a great book for all men to read. There were a number of things I particularly appreciated:
- His focus is not on modifying behaviour, but on real, lasting, Christ centred, grace fuelled heart change, from which all else flows.
- He pinpoints the root of all sin (and particularly sexual sin) as greed and selfish, arrogant pride (these chapte
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Scott
Sep 06, 2013 rated it really liked it
Intensely practical book on how to fight addiction with the power of grace. The focus is on lust, though the principles could be broadly applied to anything. With such an excessive amount of books on this topic, it's nice to have one that is both helpful and practical. I'll be using many of the principles in this book in my own pastoral ministry.
Philip Mcduffie
Jan 09, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: christian-living
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I do believe that his chapter on fighting for grace with thanksgiving was the best. It is amazing how thanksgiving can destroy sin!!
David
Three stars for good insights. I think this book has some really helpful things to say about battling pornography use. I especially thought that Lambert's advice on effective accountability is going to be key for readers. The chapters on radical measures, confession, and renewed focus on one's spouse are really good, too. These insights are worth the price of the book.

The biggest weakness that I see is that Lambert ignores the biological side of pornography addiction. For many men, pornography u
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Parker
Nov 01, 2019 rated it really liked it
I am not in full agreement with Lambert on counseling methodology. I am convinced that a more integrative approach between Scripture and psychology is not only good, but often necessary. That being said, I fully endorse this book.

One may complain that Lambert neglects the ways in which a sex addict is, in at least some sense, a victim of the aggressive porn industry, or of whoever introduced the sufferer to pornography. While acknowledging that there is a legitimate addiction at play, he focuses
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Nate Bate
Nov 23, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: human-sexuality
"This book is about the amazing power of Jesus Christ to free you from pornography." (Page 12). The reality is that many men to some degree or another feel the powerful pull of pornography. Its widespread affect is astonishing. I have read a few books dealing with various aspects of human sexuality, and so far this one is my favorite. I'm not saying I don't find the other books useful. What I am saying is that many books by the nature of this topic will, to some degree, stir up desire in people. ...more
Rachel Lawyer
Jun 24, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: physical-library
This might go on my “read annually” list. His treatment of this specific issue is broadly applicable: “Whatever you perceive the degree of your struggle to be—whether minor or major—your sin is enough for a just and vengeful God to send you to hell forever. As true as that statement is, whether your struggle is major or minor, your sin is not nearly as strong as the grace is Jesus to transform you.” (p. 159)
Collin Campbell
Nov 19, 2019 rated it it was amazing
I highly recommend this book to everyone in the Church. If you struggle with pornography, read this book right now. If you have a spouse or significant other than struggles with pornography, read this book right now. If you are a pastor or ministry leader in your church, then read this book right now.

Heath Lambert is grace-filled, giving those who struggle with pornography true hope to overcome their addiction through the gospel of Jesus Christ. I will use this book for years to come as I couns
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Amie Geyman
Jul 08, 2018 rated it it was amazing
As a mom of all boys, I started this book to prepare me for their teenage years. I was overwhelmed by how helpful his advice was for all sinful habits. It was the most helpful, straight forward, non sugar coated advice to biblically dealing with all sinful habits (focusing on sexual sin) I have ever read. I would highly recommend this easy read to all christian adults.
Connor
Sep 04, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Really a synopsis of what I already had the privilege of listening to in person from Heath last year at the ACBC Biblical counseling conference in Montana. The principles are helpful as he hits on the power of God's grace, having humility, and the one that really helped me greatly was a lack of gratefulness and contentment for all that God has given us. To fight the battle against lust and sexual immorality it's beneficial to focus on all that we have to be thankful for.
Noah Calcagno
Oct 25, 2019 rated it really liked it
Shelves: theology, psychology, 2019
Incredibly helpful, especially the anecdotes Lambert draws from a wealth of pastoral experience dealing with men who suffer from pornography addictions.

The book is also succinct and to the point, not giving itself to the longwindedness of other books of the genre.
Brittany Durr
Feb 29, 2020 rated it it was amazing
Systematic. Gracious, yet pointed. I love his emphasis on the Gospel. The chapter about worship and gratitude was especially meaningful to me.

The guy knows what he's talking about. I recommend highly!
Caleb
Mar 01, 2020 rated it it was amazing
A grace-centered encouragement for purity.

This book is gospel-centered and filled with truth to help you and others fight for purity. I thought the intro was a bit pretentious, but the book was an encouraging read. I'd recommend this over other books, but I think I'm still on the hunt for a #1 recommended read.
Ernest Amenyo
Jan 01, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Finally free indeed

I love this book. It is Christ centered and preach the gospel of Grace. This book has changed my mind. I will recommend it to everyone suffering from any type addiction.
Jesse Macabasco
Sep 04, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Found this book to be very biblical and practical. Will personally utilize this in counseling people struggling with the sin of pornography. Highly recommended.
Smooth Via
Jan 31, 2019 rated it really liked it
One of my favorite books that I've read about fighting for purity as a Christian man. I do wish that Lambert would have focused on more than pornography. Nevertheless, the principles he puts forth are applicable to pretty much any situation and any man fighting for purity.
Phillip Howell
Apr 11, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Excellent Resource

If you are struggling with a pornography addiction or trying to help someone who is, then this is an excellent resource to use.
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Heath Lambert (PhD, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary) is the Executive Director of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors and is the Associate Pastor at First Baptist Church Jacksonville, FL. He is also a visiting faculty member at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Lambert is the co-editor of Counseling the Hard Cases: True Stories Illustrating the Sufficiency of God's
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