I had forgotten I’d picked up this book used till I found it in a pile. What great timing as I feel like all I do is argue with my kids. I found the information so useful I took notes while reading it and kept the note to refer back to often. I have plans for how to calm my anger and frustration and deal with the kids better.
I just finished reading it so I can’t say the advice worked yet but I do think it’s great advice. The author includes her own advice as well as advice from other parents she has talked to.
She teaches detachment, rules with consequences, whys/whines, alleviating anger, defusing with humour, negotiating, creating a haven in your home, making a gentle home, advice from other parents, telling your child you love them and a list of handy responses to specific arguments.