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Sag Mami Goodbye

3.84  ·  Rating details ·  1,525 ratings  ·  79 reviews
Für Donna wird ein Albtraum wahr: Nach der Scheidung entführt ihr Exmann die beiden Kinder. Von nun an sind Adam und Sharon Spielbälle in einem Psychokrieg. Donna ist entschlossen, sie zurückzuholen, und macht sich auf eine verzweifelte Suche quer durch Amerika.
Paperback, 384 pages
Published August 17th 2009 by Goldmann (first published 1980)
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Deanna
Dec 14, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I read this quite a few years ago but it was a great book. I am considering reading it again.
I'm a huge fan of Joy Fielding and this early book was one of the best in my opinion.
Pardis Ahmadi
Aug 20, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
this book is really underrated if you ask me. the guy she was married to first, reminded me of my ex. i actually could imagine how my life would be if i actually married him and got kids. this is what i love about books. it helps you imagine your "what if" life with extraordinary details. 4.5 is my rating for this book. and i am a big fan of Joy Fielding!
Nina Draganova
Jan 07, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Джой Филдинг има грижата напоследък да не мога да спя по цели нощи.
И така ии с тази книга.
Изнерви ме, държа ме на нокти до последно.
Има някои не до там добри спойки и пропуски, но като цяло е доста добра книгата.
Но съм много притеснена за авторката- нямам идея какво е в главата й, щом ражда такива книги непрекъснато.
Явно моя ум не е на такава вълна и не иска да приеме такива случаи. А те вероятно съществуват навсякъде около нас.
Lissa
Apr 14, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Nancy
May 18, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Great book but I would have liked the end to not feel so rushed. Felt like she hit a deadline to finish or something. I am interested enough to find more books from this author & give them a try since previous reviewers have said this was an earlier book & not as refined as later novels written by her.

Good enough to keep me reading all day so that's a definite plus
Kristin
Nov 01, 2009 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-in-2009
THIS BOOK WAS GREAT! I CRIED TWICE! VERY VERY EMOTIONAL BOOK. If you have kids this will play on your biggest fear!
Kees van Duyn
De Canadese Joy Fielding wilde aanvankelijk actrice worden. Ze heeft onder haar eigen naam, Joy Tepperman, een paar bijrollen in films gehad en speelde ook in een enkele televisieserie. In 1972 gaf ze het acteren op en legde zich volledig toe op het schrijven van boeken. Haar debuut, The best of friends, verscheen in hetzelfde jaar en is niet in Nederland uitgegeven. Negen jaar later brak ze door met Zeg maar dag tegen mammie, ook bekend onder de titel Stil bedrog.

Op een feestje ziet Donna Edmun
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Lori Schiele
"A man plots to destroy the woman who was once his wife by kidnapping the children their love once made."
"A...story of the psychological warfare waged by two people who were once desperately in love...and of the two vulnerable children caught in the crossfire of their adult emotions."

The first half of the book: "The Past" was a bit tricky to follow as it bounced around in time during the relationship of two people, Donna and Victor (meeting, dating, getting engaged, getting married, parents of o
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AGilden
Sep 15, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Amazingly good rendering of the character of an emotional abuser.

"You weren’t at the wedding because Victor Cressy still hadn’t gotten around to forgiving you, valued coworker, for allegedly interfering with one of his prospective clients, a slight you weren’t even aware you’d committed and for which you spent almost a year apologizing before Victor, intelligent, fair man that he is, felt you had been punished enough, and deigned to speak to you again. You have ever after felt you were entirely
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LInda L
Mar 15, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This was one of Fielding's early books -- it was great. Sad, and the ending was dynamite. What a horrible father -- total psychopath. We can only hope he spent many long years in jail. The book went on a little too long in the middle, but once Mommy got herself together, it was great. The 3 books before this one are out of print, so don't know if I'll ever get hold of them . I've gotten a bit obsessed with the books by this author -- I've read all the most recent ones, but don't know about the o ...more
Christine L
Joy Fielding is such a popular author with so many books following this one (her first) that I really wanted to give her a try. Maybe her books just get better and better but I don’t know that read any beyond this one. As much as I tried to sympathize with the “done wrong” character, frankly I couldn’t like either main character.
Danielle C.
I found this book to be quite different than many of the other books I"ve read by Joy Fielding, and I definitely didn't enjoy it as much as most of her other stuff. As much as I liked how the book was framed, I found it really too predictable and not overly developed. But don't be discouraged I have adored almost every other book written by Joy Fielding, so just pick up another!
Mohammad Zanki
Mar 04, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Es ist ein wunderschönes Buch . Ich finde es sehr sehr gut . Ich habe 2 Bücher für die selbe Autorin gelesen . Und ich empfehle jeder dieses Buch zulesen . Großartig und sehr traurig. Die Geschichte mit dieser Armen Frau .
Bertha
Jul 29, 2018 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
op zich een goed boek maar het duurde vrij lang voordat er iets gebeurde , eerst heel veel wat er vooraf speelde en pas op het einde dat er iets gebeurd en dan zit je al bijna aan het eind van het boek.
Karen perry
Dec 06, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
this one was a bit slower tp get into but once it got going again i couldnt put it down,would of liked to have heard a few chapters from victor at the end but never the less a good book and still enjoying this author
Meredith Morgan
Jun 23, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A scary book about emotional abuse in a marriage, how insidious it is and the effect on everyone.
Shirley
Jun 02, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Good character descriptions--especially in regard to lack of self-confidence and impact of loss
Christine Campanella
Omg the fights that this couple had really drove me up the wall that I wanted to scream as loud as the wife! This was a fantastic example of how people can really push your buttons. Great book!
Miranda
Mar 15, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Het begin van het boek kon mij niet zo boeien, vond het langdradig en warrig. op ongeveer de helft veranderde dit en werd de spanning opgebouwd. laatste 100 pagina's wilde ik zo snel mogelijk uit lezen omdat ik erg benieuwd was hoe het zou aflopen.
Susan
بعد از به هم زدنم با سیدنی شلدون شاید بتوانم جوی فیلدینگ را جنایی نویس موردعلاقه ام بدانم.فیلدینگ یک گام از شلدون فراتر است،چون او فقط به ایجاد حادثه در داستان فکر نمی کند.برعکس،به نظر می آید حوادث به وجود می آیند تا شخصیت ها بیشتر دیده شوند.شخصیت هایی که به خوبی و درستی پرداخت شدند.شخصیت هایی که برعکس کتاب های شلدون سفید و بی عیب نیستند و فیلدینگ هم اشتباهات آنان را گردن دیگران نمی اندازد.در این کتاب زن قصه در دعواهایش زیاده روی می کند.خیلی وقت ها ما حق را به مرد می دهیم.یا اصرار بیش از اندازه ...more
Kelsey
Feb 08, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This was such a mess with you head kind of book! Donna has lived in an mentally abusive relationship for six years. It starts out all roses and ends up with her doubting every move she makes. She has brought two children into the world the first out of love; the second out of rape by her husband. When Donna asksVictor in the beginning of their relationship what would happen if they didn't work out. His answer, "I'd obliterate you." And that is exactly what he does. After the judge finds in favor ...more
Diana Hockley

This novel, quite frankly, is about a couple who should never have married. The husband is a master of manipulation and the wife an unstable character who becomes more so as the novel progresses, although with good reason when he scoots off with the kids.

However, I wanted to throttle this self-absorbed woman when she turns on the very people who love her and causes their lives misery. She doesn't deserve their care and her realization of what she is doing to them and herself comes far too late i
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Wendy
May 19, 2016 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2016
I have read a fair few of Joy Fielding's books but this book was just OK. It was a quick read which makes it a suitable holiday read but I found the story slightly predictable and very depressing.

It's a story about child kidnapping by a divorced parent. We meet Donna and Victor. At first, they are happily in love but then he becomes the controlling husband and her life changes. They have two children and eventually file for divorce. She gets custody and on one of his visits takes the children an
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Nayland
May 23, 2014 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
die story an sich ist vielversprechend. frau heiratet netten,attraktiven und finanziell abgesicherten scheinbaren traumann, der sich im lauf der ehe zum kontrollsüchtigen tyrannen entwickelt, der er vorher schon war, nur das sie die zeichen nicht richtig deuten konnte. nach einer endlich erfolgten scheidung kidnappt er die kinder usw. usw. usw.
ich hatte vorher schon einen roman von joy fielding gelesen, der mir gut gefallen hat, also dachte ich der ist diesmal auch in den stil, spannend und mitr
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Louise
Mar 22, 2009 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I'm quickly becoming a "Fielding" fan! I recently read my first novel by Joy Fielding titled "Whispers & Lies" and thoroughly enjoyed it. This is the second novel of her's that I've perused and this one was a real page turner.

From the back cover:

"Those goodbye kisses Donna received from her children when ex-husband Victor picked them up for their day's outing with him were for all time....forever.

Only Donna did not know that, and the memory of her children's kisses on the day they disappeare
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Janine
Sep 17, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is an older title of Joy's that I hadn't read. I love her books and I believe she just improves with each one. She definitely fits into the "Domestic Noir" category before it was even invented.

This one is about psychological abuse, how one can be made to feel helpless, incompetent and powerless by your husband. Despite having two children, Donna is made to feel inferior by Victor every time, how he can twist every conversation to make her believe that everything is her fault. She eventually
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Heather
Nov 10, 2010 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Meh. Definitely not Fielding's best, but it was an early one (I didn't realize the publication date until most of the way through when they mentioned an Eric Estrada poster as a gift for a pre-teen! Fortunately, at least, parental kidnapping laws have come a long way since...), and she definitely as improved with age. Soooo much build up to the whole taking-the-kids thing, and while it was all well done, it felt like once we finally got to that point, the ending was too rushed and didn't have mu ...more
TheReadingKnitter/ Kasey
Donna and Victor were once madly in love, but after years of mental abuse, divorce is the only way out for Donna. Despite Victor's threats, Donna wins custody of their two children, but when Victor takes the children for a weekend away, Donna has no idea what nightmare has just begun.

My Review - I've had Joy Fielding on my list of TBR authors for a long time and I finally gave her a chance. She's awesome. I knew what the ending was going to be but I wanted to see how she took the characters and
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Katie
Jul 25, 2011 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: my-bookshelf
I managed to find this older novel at Goodwill and thought I'd try it. It was based around a divorce court case of the custody of the children. During the marriage the husband was always questioning his wife, so you come to take her side though all this. The Ex wife wins the custody battle, but soon enough he has kidnapped their children. Since it was a court case, and that is normally not my type of book I was not completely into it. However, I did want to know the outcome so I stuck with it.
r
Oct 17, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
صه ها ودلتنگي هاي زن داستان قابل درك بود ..زني كه متوجه خيانت ها وبي مسيوليت هاي همسرش ميشود وديگر امكان زندگي با اورا در خود نميبيند به ناچار از همسرش جدا ميشود ودادگاه سرپرستي دو فرزند را به مادر ميسپارد اما همسر او وپدر بچه ها كه از وابستگي شديد او به كودكانش خبر دارد به طور مخفيانه بچه ها از او دور ميكند وبراي هميشه ناپديد ميشود ..واين جدايي انقدر براي زن داستان سخت است كه برايش بحران روحي به وجود مياورد ..غصه زن درد اور است وبي رحمي مرد كشنده
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Joy Fielding (née Tepperman; born March 18, 1945) is a Canadian novelist and actress. She lives in Toronto, Ontario.

Born in Toronto, Ontario, she graduated from the University of Toronto in 1966, with a Bachelor of Arts in English Literature. As Joy Tepperman, she had a brief acting career, appearing in the film Winter Kept Us Warm (1965) and in an episode of Gunsmoke. She later changed her last n
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