Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving: 25th Anniversary Edition

by Charles Muir, Caroline Muir

This provocative and timely work, based on Charles and Caroline Muir's popular seminars, offers modern couples ancient Tantric secrets for deepening relationships, intimacy, and passion. With the fear of AIDS and with couples too tired to tango because of double careers and parenting, sex is losing its luster. This unprecedented book familiarises readers with physical, spiritual, and emotional methods of achieving ecstasy in love.

Genres: Sexuality, Nonfiction, Relationships, Love, Spirituality, Self Help, Psychology

134 pages, Paperback

First published June 1, 1989

Reviews

[Kaya · Rating 4 out of 5]

Well, I picked this one up at the Methodist thrift store for ten cents, which in itself is fabulous for so many reasons. Naturally, I picked it up thinking I might learn some new tricks (I didn't learn any that I was interested in), but what I really got out of it was much more profound, particularly the tantric approach to conflict resolution which I will be using and expect will be life changing. There was another chapter about the healing opportunities in loving relationships that was beautiful to me. I really appreciated a view of sex that was far more loving and far more intentional than anything I had been exposed to in my own culture. I think this is going to be my new go-to wedding present.

[Christian Franchini · Rating 4 out of 5]

Un interesante libro que leí a mediados de este año que representa una guía inicial a parejas que les interesen indagar en el sexo basado en una filosofía de vida que permite establecer relaciones más profundas y sensuales. Un escrito dirigido al público occidental que desde hace unos años se muestra interesado en aprender sobre el manejo de energías que se liberan en este acto sagrado conocido como el ¨amor tántrico¨. Si bien el libro es inicial aporta referencias que vale la pena profundizar con todos los sentidos ;-)

[Lexi · Rating 4 out of 5]

I thought this book was tasteful and respectful. It aligned with my views on sex as a unifying force within a marriage. I loved the descriptions of how we as partners can act as healers for one another. I think the nurturing meditation is a game changer.

[Brandye E · Rating 5 out of 5]

I really enjoyed this book! It is very well written, not too long and a really easy read because it’s so informative and interesting. I couldn’t put it down. I read it in two sittings lol

[Mathieu · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great, beginner-level. Short. Describes a bunch of practices at the end but doesn't go in depth. Feels like a curriculum for his classes.

[Pato Bello · Rating 3 out of 5]

Es un libro que se queda en lo superficial de la filosofía y el culto del Tantra. Esta muy dirigido al amor en parejas heterosexuales y es “muy manual”.

[Sofia Fernandez · Rating 5 out of 5]

Very interesting intersection, reading this while trying to navigate the current sexual landscape. Good book! Might be a better help to people who are more sexually inhibited than I.

[Dani Star · Rating 5 out of 5]

Incredible.

[ThymeOperator · Rating 3 out of 5]

Part interesting. Part common sense (to me, anyway - I know a lot of people would be surprised over things that should be obvious). Part hilarious.

[Erika · Rating 4 out of 5]

Interesting intro to the topic and ancient way of life outside of the famous parts of it

[Pavel Bakunovich · Rating 4 out of 5]

🔷 Про книгу в трех предложениях
Тантра - это какое-то древнее учение про любовь, отношения, секс. Авторы книги изучили эти древние писания и изложили это простым языком. Тантра - это далеко не только про секс, а прежде всего про глубокие и осознанные отношения между мужем и женой.

🔷 Впечатления
Необычная книга! Наверное, самое откровенное, что я оттуда почерпнул - это про наше личное отношение к сексу. Еще со школьных времен, когда на уроке биологии речь заходила про «пестики и тычинки», то парни гыгыкали, а девчата смущенно улыбались. Большинство из нас смущает слово «секс» и названия половых органов. В то время как это является чем-то абсолютно естественным. И наше чрезмерное смущение по этому поводу необязательно и только создает ненужные преграды.
А вообще когда знакомый посоветовал прочитать эту книгу, то я его описание воспринял как «книга про секс». Но когда я ее прочитал, то понял, что эта книга совсем не про секс. Она про отношения между мужем и женой. Секс - это важная, но все же «приправа», дополнение. Для того, чтобы постоянно пребывать в счастье, любви и радости в семье, над отношениями надо работать. Это не что-то, что «само собой как-то сложится».

🔷 Кто должен ее прочитать?
Не уверен, что эта книга прям обязательна к прочтению, но я думаю, что она однозначно будет полезна тем парам, кто стремиться работать над своими отношениями, преумножать любовь и осознанность.

🔷 Как книга меня изменила?
Но могу сказать, что книга меня существенно изменила, но она позволила посмотреть на интимные отношения под новым углом и избавиться от некоторых стереотипов.

🔷 Топ 3 цитаты
✏️ «К сожалению и вопреки тому, во что нам хочется верить, мы не рождены от природы хорошими в сексе и в отношениях.»
✏️ «Отношения как сад. Если его не поливаеть, не пропалывать, не удобрять, не ухаживать - то урожай страдает. Одна из главных причин ухудшения отношений - в том, что партнеры пренебрегают ими.»
✏️ «Секс нас всех немного смущает. Некоторых очень сильно смущает. Мы краснеем. Мы опускаем глаза. Даже наш словарный запас про секс и половые органы нас очень смущает - он слишком «больничный», слишком сленговый, слишком грубый.»

🔷 Как я нашел эту книгу
Решил прочитать эту книгу по рекомендации хорошего знакомого.
Интересный факт. Я читал книгу, купленную в электронном виде за $7 на Амазоне. Когда я пытался найти ее в русском переводе, то наткнулся на что-то сложно объяснимое. Во-первых, ее почти нигде нету. Есть куча разных других книг про Тантру. Но именно эта - по всей видимости, жутко редкая. И, во-вторых, там, где она есть в наличии, она стоит каких-то фантастических денег. За такую б/ю книгу один человек просит 100 000 RUB.
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[T.L. Cooper · Rating 3 out of 5]

Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles and Caroline Muir applies the principles of ancient Tantra to modern relationships. They explain a little about ancient Tantra but focus on how couples can use tantric traditions and rituals to enhance their relationships and their sex lives. The Muirs spend the first part of Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving discussing harmony, communication, and healing through the use of tantric principles. Part Two of Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving concentrates on using tantric principles to enhance sexual pleasure for both the man and the woman as well as usuing sexual interactions to better connect spiritually and emotionally to one's partner. Don't skip Part One though because Part Two builds on Part One. The Muirs describe in clear language and graphic detail how to achieve the benefits of tantra through physical touch. Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving is filled with interesting concepts and concrete principles as well as guidance to incorporate those concepts and principles in a practical manner. The Muirs make tantra accessible to any couple willing to read the book and try the tantric principles described.

[Michael · Rating 5 out of 5]

I found this to be an excellent introductory book to the path of tantra. There is so much here that I am unable to experience first hand given my status of being alone. However, this book will be required reading for anyone serious about developing a relationship with me in the future. As with my other reviews, I will let the authors' own words speak to the books intentions and content.

"Remember that these exotic techniques are not an end in themselves; they are only vehicles for traveling the tantric path, a path towards Unity. It is a journey of the spirit that Tantra offers, and intimate, passionate, spiritual love is its fuel, its energy. Tantra uses love's energy to spark the light within us so that we may come to know ourselves and one another better. This light of love is a healing tool for lovers; those who walk in its reflection can achieve a radiant partnership, unique and everlasting. We hope the tools we have offered here will light your way."

Namaste,

Mike

[Bob Couchenour · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is one step beyond the "the Heart of Tantric Sex". Where "Heart", written from a feminine perspective expressed certain prejudices and preferences to avoid some sexual practices, this current volume makes no such avoidances. Both books I would consider Neo-Tantric or quasi-tantric. Although Tantra: the Art of Conscious Loving, provides a much more detailed introduction into tantric sex. The whole purpose of Tantra is not to lay down a lot of laws or rules but rather to facilitate one on an individual journey of love and ecstasy leading to our proper union with truth and reality.

[Stephanie · Rating 4 out of 5]

No, this isn't a book filed with sexual positions and lovemaking techniques. Yes, it's in there, but there is also an abundance of information and specific exercises for strengthening your connection with your lover. This book changed the way that I perceived sex and the power of sexual energy as a connective tool in my relationship. There are also some great 'his' and 'hers' names in there that brought great amusement to my love & me. (Wand of Light, Gateway to Heaven)

[Sam Motes · Rating 5 out of 5]

Illumination of the Tantric wisdom

A truly beautiful read on building a strong bond with your significant other through tried and true advice from the ancient Indian Tantric writings. Muir makes this a very approachable read. I picked this up at the advice of someone special to me and my soul is very thankful that I did.

[Karin Szubzda · Rating 5 out of 5]

Although this may be something you know If tuned in to Your femeninity, a lot in todays society makes sex very agressive and non loving and piosons our souls. The art of conscious loving should be taught as a corriculum. Alll we have to do is to tune in to our selves and pur hearts and this knowledge is within us as human beings.

[saraswati · Rating 4 out of 5]

"Shiva and Shakti are one. They are the univese. Shiva isn't masculine. Shakti isn't feminine. At the core of their mutual penetration, the supreme consciousness opens".
A re-reading, a homecoming visit for a good weekend, a reminder for unspoken thoughts.

[Molly wemder · Rating 3 out of 5]

Interest viewpoint of Tantra and tantric practices.

[Pyxiqueen · Rating 2 out of 5]

some sweet spots of the book, but hetero.

[Evie · Rating 3 out of 5]

Better for learning how to relate to and appreciate your partner than for sexual technique. A very quick (138 page) and thoughtful read. I found it kind of sweet.

[Carol · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wonderful book, would be better if read with a partner.

[Jos-Madelaine Standing · Rating 5 out of 5]

Between 2008 and 2010 I read this book about 3 or 4 times - it is the guide to happiness and greater pleasure in loving your chosen partner of today.

[Yalın · Rating 4 out of 5]

Introductory and entertaining.

[Giovanni Alberto Orlando · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great Book. Of course a girlfriend is necessary for practice.

[Eamon Ryan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Insightful introduction with some useful information!

[Anna · Rating 3 out of 5]

One of worse books on Tantric sex I ever read. Nothing much to add.