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The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving

3.77  ·  Rating details ·  9,515 ratings  ·  1,379 reviews
Jonathan Evison has crafted a novel of the heart, a novel of unlikely heroes traveling through a grand American landscape, and most of all, a story that offers a profound look into what it takes to truly care for another person. Bursting with energy and filled with moments of absolute beauty, this bighearted and inspired novel ponders life’s terrible surprises as well as i ...more
Hardcover, 278 pages
Published August 28th 2012 by Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill
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Ben Loory
Sep 15, 2012 rated it it was amazing
the secret to jonathan evison's success, i think, is that he's both emotionally courageous AND funny as hell, which is a rare and electrifying mix. i read this book straight through in one sitting and then i went out and ran around the block. (i don't run.)
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I read The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving in the olde times of 2013 back when my reviews consisted of sheer eloquence and brilliant observations like “it was guud.” Then I learned how to use Google and picture these sumbitches up to make up for my lack of writing skillz. Last year this became a NetFlix original movie which I watched while lying in bed like a fat slug when my family went out of town one weekend. A couple of months a
Julie Christine
Humor is such a delicate thing. Handled badly, it’s like those last tiny shards of potato chips at the bottom of the bag—pointless, greasy, annoying reminders that you should have quit while you were ahead. Humor done well is a bite into an ethereal croissant—a pleasure of taste and texture that is both rich and light—an uplifting of the senses. Of course, broad humor and slapstick comedy return us to the open-mouth, gasping hilarity of childhood, when we laughed so hard we farted, and that only ...more
Oct 20, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Recommended to Carol by: Robin Beerbower
Shelves: fiction
Thank you, thank you, Robin Beerbower for shouting out this title at the 4th Annual Librarian Shout 'n Share at Bookexpo 2012. I knew the minute I heard Robin pitch The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving by Jonathan Evison that I had to read this book. Robin's shout out was back in June and considering several other GoodReads friends rated it highly,what took me so long? I really don't know but don't make my mistake. Read this book!

Having read Evison's West of Here and liking it, I'm not certain
Jan 24, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I would put this book in a catagory I call quirky characters/feel good stories (which is a good thing). This is the story of Benjamin Benjamin (yep) who has suffered a great tragedy, after which he takes a course to become a licensed caregiver. He gets a job care-giving for Trevor who is a typical teenage boy except for his diagnosis of muscular dystrophy. Eventually they take an adventurous road trip and meet some wonderful characters. I really enjoyed this heartwarming story. It was just what ...more
Shelby *trains flying monkeys*
Oct 27, 2013 rated it really liked it
Shelves: read-2013
The book starts off with Benjamin Benjamin (yes that's his name) taking a class on care-giving because he is living off his credit card and just taking a break from life. Ben takes a job sitting with Trev a young adult with MD. Trev has routines. He watches weather channel, eats flax seed waffles, doesn't go out much. I fell head over heels for both these characters. They are funny, strong men.
I hate giving away a lot of details in books but this one includes a road trip that changes both these
Elyse  Walters
Dec 12, 2013 rated it really liked it
Simple -sweet- funny- irresistible warmth - sad....

This story kicks it up a notch when Benjamin and Trevor take a road trip. They take off to visit Trevor's dad who has been an absentee father most of his life. The hitchhikers they meet on the road are quirky & odd ....adding just the right mix of hilarity and irrepressible characters.

For Benjamin and Trevor -- its an ongoing honest and sometimes painful examination of who they are --Who they are in the world and what they contribute to each oth
Feb 13, 2013 rated it did not like it
I'm about 1/3 of the way through, and I think that's enough. I hate the way the protagonist sees and talks about other people and his environment; it's making me feel bad about myself and the world. Also, I have zero interest in seeing what happens.

There are other, more inspiring books out there for me to read.

Update: On further thought, I suspect that a large part of what turned me off of the book is the way the characters talk about women's bodies. It makes me angry and hits all my buttons abo
John Luiz
Sep 05, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Jonathan Evison has been on my radar ever since I saw All About Lulu in bookstores, but I just hadn't gotten around yet to reading any of his novels. After reading the Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving, though, I'll be sure to catch up with what I've been missing by reading Lulu and West of Here. Revised Fundamentals provides everything I look for in a novel - a fully fleshed out protagonist caught up in something that the author explores in both a serious and comic vein, a supporting cast of f ...more
Melissa Crytzer Fry
Feb 27, 2013 rated it it was amazing
This is the kind of book I savor: spectacularly descriptive, literary writing; flawed but likeable main character in need of redemption; a story of internal growth; and a cast of truly unique supporting characters. And because I have a soft spot for geology, I found the landscape descriptions completely delicious and filling. I confess: I didn’t want this book to end!

The voice of the main character, Ben Benjamin, swept me away from the start. Something horrible happened to his young family, caus
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Pgs: 276
Publisher: Algonquin
Release Date: August 28, 2012

Can I just say "Fucking Awesome! Go Buy It" and call it a day? Do you really need me to go into all the reasons why I want you to experience Jonathan Evison's The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving for yourself? Because I will. Oh, you can bet I will.

For starters, it features some of the coolest man-speak I have ever come a
May 03, 2013 rated it really liked it
(3.5) The tone – outright witty yet earnestly heartfelt – has a lot in common with novels by Jonathan Tropper and Nick Hornby. The road trip element, and Dot especially, also reminded me of Mosquitoland by David Arnold. This is about the different ways we care for each other and try to express our affection with varying degrees of success, all while disaster lurks around the corner. My favorite character was accident-prone Bob; I especially liked a description of him looking at a map as “lik ...more
Nov 16, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Get in the Car

Our guy is a loser. No he’s not but Benjamin Benjamin is definitely at a low ebb in his life. After a family tragedy he and his much loved wife break up. He’s been Mr. Mom and hasn’t been in the job market so when it comes time for him to find a job he hurriedly takes a course in home health care which leads him to a job caring for 19 year old Trevor who’s suffering from muscular dystrophy. Ben actually does quite well with his care giving duties. Ben also bonds well with Trevor th
Iris P
Aug 30, 2015 rated it it was amazing

I know I am late to the party, but what a heartwarming, sweet story.
I'll try to come back with some thoughts later...
A really wonderful book though, full of heart!
Apr 24, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Does anyone today write with more heart than Jonathan Evison?

Ignore the critics who stupidly focus on the teenage boy elements of the novel. Yes, they are present, but they are not the focus of this novel. The comments, banter, and trash talking lend credibility to two very insecure and broken characters. The subtext of those comments reveals that the comments made about women are just guys being guys (one-upmanship), revealing insecurities, overcompensating, and are not who Trev or Ben truly a
Dec 13, 2013 rated it did not like it
AWFUL. JUST AWFUL. Quit at 71%. Supposed to be be funny? No. Most disgusting main character ever. Can't handle it any more. I said I was going to power through but I'm DONE wasting my time. DONE!
Sep 13, 2012 rated it liked it
I am feeling terribly cranky with my reading of late. Well, first I have to remind myself that 3-stars is not "bad," but still I do not usually get through more than a handful of books without being at least a little wow'd by one of them. I was recently a bit disappointed with the latest Jonathan Tropper book (One Last Thing Before I Go), but as I started The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving I thought that perhaps *this* was the Tropper book I had been hoping for. It is my Jonathan Evison book ...more
Apr 21, 2013 rated it it was ok
I was actually enjoying this book right up to the time of the road trip, which was the whole point of the story. The narrator is a doofus who lost his wife and two children, and is now employed as a care-giver for a teenage boy who is afflicted with MD, Duchenne muscular dystrophy. Benjamin (the narrator) is a good match for Trevor, the boy in his charge. Benjamin is childishly humorous and I couldn't stop picturing him as Seth Rogan. Everything he said sounded like Seth Rogan, which is probably ...more
May 23, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shelves: american-fiction
This book is a beautiful balance between humor and pathos, deeply felt and a lot of fun to read. One of the benefits we strive for in my prison book group is to read titles that encourage an empathy with the characters, as having this skill is a step towards seeing life outside one's self, and acknowledging that our past mistakes or crimes impact others in ways we may not have anticipated. Benjamin Benjamin does just that here -- he's made a few mistakes or strange choices in his past, one of th ...more
Ron Charles
Jul 25, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shelves: special-needs
Jonathan Evison’s new novel, “The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving,” sounds like it’s about as much fun as cleaning a catheter. And that long, textbooklike title — an actual 28-hour course required for people who work in adult family homes in Washington state — is just the book’s first turnoff. The plot involves a young man wasting away from muscular dystrophy. The narrator is bankrupt, depressed and being sued for divorce. His two dead children hover in the background.

I ate it up.

More than 20
Apr 22, 2012 rated it it was amazing
We’ve come-of-age with Will Miller, traversed the Olympics with Mather and drank kiltlifter with Krig, now Evison is taking us on the road with Ben Benjamin and Trev, a young man cursed with muscular dystrophy.

The book however, is more than the story of a road trip, it is a story of loss, suffering, alienation and redemption with a cast of very real, and flawed characters. While reading I found myself relating to each of the main characters at different points. This is one of the big things I a
Kerry Dunn
Apr 23, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: read-in-2012
With each new novel, Jonathan Evison proves that he can’t be pigeonholed as an author. You want an atypical bildungsroman? Read his All About Lulu. Looking for an ambitious historical epic? Read his West of Here. You want a buddy, road trip story that transcends that clichéd description? Read his new novel, The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving. Evison writes with humor, honesty, and a snappy cadence that propels you through the story even when you’d like to take your time relishing his rich ch ...more
Oct 02, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Recommended by Lisa Casper in an Indie Book webinar.

This book gets it right everywhere. Character development, story, imagery, setting, all of it. There's a perfect balance between wit and pain, awkwardness, insight, and growth. One review of Evison's other book said "tragicomic," which fits, I suppose, but I desperately want a better word for it.

The book is an ode to the awkward, painful "trying to make it right" sort of love of the Dad who screwed up and can't win, can't seem to get it right,
Neil McCrea
Apr 25, 2012 rated it it was amazing
In the last few years I have been suffering from a surfeit of empathy in regards to my reading, a juvenile tendency to see myself in protagonist after protagonist to a troubling degree. This may explain the increased amount of genre fiction in my reading fare, as I seek a more comfortable distance between myself and those I read about.

Jonathan's book just about did me in, and I wince in over-identification every time I read a review that describes Benjamin as a loser.

Benjamin's problems are not
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Ben Benjamin has lost almost everything - his wife, his family, his home, his livelihood. With few options, Ben enrolls in a night class called The Fundamentals of Caregiving taught in the basement of a local church. There Ben is instructed in the art of inserting catheters and avoiding liability, about professionalism, and how to keep physical and emotional distance between client and provider.

Ben is assigned to nineteen-year-old Trev, who is in the advanced stages of D
Noah Pindak
"Maybe that's what happens to crazy people, they become too honest. They can't see anything but truth anymore, and they're compelled to share it, when they ought to shut up about it."

Back in 2016, I watched 'The Fundamentals of Caring', the film based on this book. I loved it. If you haven't heard of it, it's a Netflix Original, and it stars Paul Rudd and Selena Gomez. Seriously, go check out the movie. Fast forward to this year - 2018, I decided to read this book. And while there are difference
Aug 30, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Evison's novel is an entertaining homage to little victories. Each of Evison's characters is genuinely, individually trapped, yet capable of celebrating successes and accepting setbacks.

The novel lives up to its title in that you do revise the way you might care about someone whose circumstances have defined them. Evison's Ben sets a fine example for friends everywhere as a relaxed, frayed observer barely nudging you toward your next step.
Greg Zimmerman
Aug 22, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Life is near-constant revision, because even the best-laid plans go awry. Take, for instance, the writing of this review of Jonathan Evison's new novel, The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving. I planned to tell you how the novel is part roadtrip buddy comedy, part meditation on parenting, and part blueprint for pulling yourself up by the bootstraps when you hit rock bottom. I hoped to convey how funny and cool and downright irreverent (German Knuckle Cake, anyone?) Evison's writing is. And I was ...more
Larry H
Oct 08, 2012 rated it really liked it
Even though the title of this book makes it sound like a textbook, Jonathan Evison's new novel is a wry, funny, and (dare I say) heartwarming journey of one man's emotional recovery through the unlikeliest of processes.

To say Benjamin Benjamin's life has fallen apart would be an understatement. A former stay-at-home father, in an instant, he lost everything—his family, his marriage, his home, and his livelihood. After a long period of self-loathing and drinking, with no job prospects on the hori
Jeffrey (Akiva) Savett
Dec 03, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Call me sentimental but I LOVED this book. Based upon the quickly crumbling life of Humbert Humbert, ooops, I mean the equally curmudgeonly (though much younger) Benjamin Benjamin, the novel becomes part Little Miss Sunshine, part Garden State. Our narrator takes to the road in a Handicapped Van with his "side-kick," Trevor who suffers acutely from Muscular Dystrophy. To Evison's credit, he does not romanticize Trevor's condition nor does he attempt to make his suffering a metaphor for anything ...more
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Jonathan Evison is the New York Times Bestselling author of All About Lulu, West of Here, The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving, This is Your Life, Harriet Chance!, and Lawn Boy.

In his teens, Evison was the founding member and frontman of the Seattle punk band March of Crimes, which included future members of Pearl Jam and Soundgarden.

Born in San Jose, California, he now lives on an island in Wes

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