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I Lyckofällan får du lära dig att leva ett rikt och meningsfullt liv med hjälp av ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), en tredje vågens KBT som fokuserar på mindfulness och ett nytt sätt att se på tankar och känslor.

Olika övningar och exempel hjälper oss att tänka nytt, att få ett nytt förhållningssätt till oss själva och allt vad livet innehåller. En övning är att int
Mass Market Paperback, 304 pages
Published February 2012 by Natur & Kultur (first published 2007)
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Gina Maybe because so many people aren't grateful for what they do have and instead fixate on what they don't.....sometimes on true "first world problems."…moreMaybe because so many people aren't grateful for what they do have and instead fixate on what they don't.....sometimes on true "first world problems." Or, if they get stuck in depression or anxiety over their situation, sometimes perspective into how others deal with adversity might help? (less)
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May 08, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
It’s worth it in the end. - That is my first thought that describes this book. When I began this book I did not enjoy it. Honestly, it annoyed me.

By the time I finished it I realized ways I could make substantial improvements in my life.

First: The annoying part.

The author (Dr. Harris) seems to assume that all his readers have the same thought processes, make the same mistakes, and can be fixed the same way.

He begins by telling us we likely believe four myths.

Myth 1: Happiness Is the Natural S
Jun 18, 2009 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I want to hate this book. It's so patronising and at times seriously flawed, logic-wise. It explains things with lots of exclamation marks! And drawn-out metaphors! And basically it's just the author going on, without drawing on any examples from the real world!

Despite all this, I'm persisting because, in amongst all the guff, there are some strategies in here that bloody well work. And they work fast. This pains me because I, like the people Harris loves to patronise in the book, am one of thos
4.5 stars

An excellent book I would recommend to anyone interested in mental health, either their own or those around them, or the concept at large. In The Happiness Trap, Russ Harris crafts a persuasive, intelligent argument for why we should stop aiming for happiness and instead aim for a mindful, values-driven life. His ideas in this book come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a newer, third-wave cognitive behavioral therapy that has shown promising effectiveness in research studie
I don’t know how I feel about this book. It’s basically a client-friendly overview of Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) and offers instructions on how to implement associated techniques and interventions.

Essentially, ACT suggests that there is no way to eliminate pain in life, so learning to accept it and channel your energy into activities that have value to you leaves you more prepared to live effectively and without a lot of wasted time fighting reality.

I agree with the central theory.
Philip Glennie
Nov 02, 2013 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I'm a little at a loss about this one. But I'd like to start by saying that this book has made a significant impact on my motivation and overall quality of life. It's been months since I read it, but its message is still paying dividends. I've always been skeptical of the self-help genre, but this book came at the recommendation of a trusted friend, and I can honestly say that it's one of the most important things I've ever read. My approach to my own mind has always come from a psychoanalytic p ...more
Daniel Taylor
Mar 21, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: People struggling with negative emotions
Recommended to Daniel by: Adrian Booth
When I got into self-help books, I had two problems I wanted to solve: how to become likable and how to solve an addiction I'd had since I was 13-years-old. The books were able to help with the first, but nothing I tried worked with the addiction. That was until I started seeing a psychologist trained in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).

After our first session, I got instant results. Over the weekend that followed I had many changes to indulge my addiction and I had the desire, but I was
Mar 29, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
(Dr) Harris uses a great story of 2 kids in the car with mum on their way to the zoo. Both have been looking forward to the visit for weeks. Johnny is looking out the window playing "I spy" with mum, looking at the cars passing by, waving at the trains and the truck drivers. Counting cows and sheep along the road side. Billy is slumped in the back, anxious and irritated "when are we going to get there" he keeps asking. A few kilometers from the zoo the car breaks down and has to be towed back to ...more
Chanel J
Oct 24, 2013 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
While the ideas and techniques discussed in this book are interesting, the way it is written is insultingly patronising and alternates between speaking to you like a child and yelling at you like an impatient parent. This attitude ruined the book for me.
Apr 25, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
It must reveal something if I feel cagy about advertising that I've read a book subtitled "How to Stop Struggling and Start Living." Who doesn't imagine people are paying way more attention to your insecurities than they really are? "Gracious, I didn't know Josh was struggling! The poor dear. Let's make him some soup."

Well, okay, I'm not actually struggling. Life's mostly all peach these days, but I'm (almost) always interested in self-improvement. We get one go on this globe and studying ways o
Sep 11, 2013 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nonfiction
If you are willing to read just one self-help book - this is the one. Especially if you prefer advice on how to find out what you like and why you are better off behaving in a certain way, to 'just so' statements about beliefs you must adopt and the way you should think-feel-behave to achieve a specific goal / way of life some guru says is best.

The advice is based on a third wave CBT approach (more behavioral than cognitive) called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). If you are looking for
Dec 12, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I found this book extremely helpful--I had previously read about Acceptance and Commitment Therapy on the website Apparently it is a successful and empirically proven therapy, so I was very much intrigued. I ended up going pretty slowly through the book, which allowed me to think about the principles it contains on a daily basis for a couple of weeks.

From what I understand, ACT takes a lot from Buddhist philosophy, and I can totally dig it. Some of the important things ACT t
Hayley Waterhouse
Jan 08, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I don't really know how to summarise this book. When I first started reading it I thought I would read the whole thing through, just to see what it is like, without doing the exercises. If I thought it had some merit I would read it a second time doing all the exercises and taking my time with it. As it happens some of the exercises really got stuck in my head and I found myself doing them anyway! This book felt like it was written just for me. I think I have so much to learn from it and that it ...more
Daniel Taylor
What if you could find a way to handle the thoughts that derail you and the emotions that overwhelm you?

This book introduces Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) as that solution. Think of it as a workbook for fully experiencing life.

The three parts of ACT are:
• Defusion: where you see all thoughts as just stories and so unlink yourself from them.
• Expansion: where you make room for uncomfortable feelings and sensations rather than seeking to avoid them.
• Connection: where you bring your awar
Paul Daniels
The author comes across fairly quickly as a self-serving "I wrote this book to glorify myself" type. There are several good techniques in there but you find yourself wishing to tell the author to come down from their high position a bit.

Personally I much preferred the style of Charles Linden's guide over this book and would actually recommend the Linden method for those who are trying to break out of anxiety disorder as opposed to general depression.
Ryan Norbauer
Aug 01, 2010 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I read this because it's based on the research I was involved in at university. Turns out to be an amazingly science-oriented form of practical existentialism. Much more thoughtful than its pop self-help cover and title would suggest. ...more
Robin Gillmore
Sep 30, 2013 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I have read a lot of self-help books over the years, but this one is different and has made a significant difference to my quality of life. Acceptance Commitment Therapy is very different to traditional approaches to anxiety and depression because it teaches tools of acceptance rather than control, using three principal mechanisms:

1. Diffusion - decoupling ourselves from our thoughts

2. Expansion - accepting and making room for uncomfortable thoughts, feelings, urges and sensations

3. Connection -
Sara Lorenz
Dec 27, 2013 rated it really liked it
The Happiness Trap is one of the best self help books I've read. Definitely recommend it if you want to learn more about ACT. ...more
Alysa Craigie
Jan 24, 2021 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book... changed my life...


I had grown up with the idea that I had to fight my own thoughts and feelings to keep an average level of happiness. If I had a thought that wasn't in line with how I wanted to live or feel, I would stop everything and try to rationalize my way out of thinking it. Of course, thoughts like "my parents are going to die and I'm going to watch them die" aren't irrational, just horribly unhelpful. So instead of finding some loophole to rationalize thoughts li
Jun 11, 2018 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
Like many others, the first part of the book just really annoyed me. It felt like Harris was putting all of us readers into this box “people who have unrealistic views on happiness”. His way of trying to tell me happiness is not what (he thinks) I think it is made me very uncomfortable, because 1. I don’t consider myself someone who believes in the myths he states, but rather in a realistic variation of it and 2. Other therapies like CBT are not by default unhelpful. Although I’m still stuck in ...more
Nov 25, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I had been hearing about ACT here and there and was mildly curious, but decided to pick up this inexpensive book at the encouragement of one of my students. I'm happy I did.

ACT takes a refreshing approach to negative feelings. Stop struggling against them, says the theory. They're part of life. The more you fight them, the worse it is. After using a lot of CBT with mixed results, I appreciated an alternative to arguing with negative cognitions.

ACT is based on six principles: Defusion, or the imp
Poyan Nabati
Jan 04, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition

"The Happiness Trap" is a lovely toolbox of different perspectives and techniques you can use to live a more meaningful life and is based on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). None of it is really original content, but rather it's pulling pieces from many different places into one nice little summary.

With my frame of reference, the book basically has three main parts.

First part is about "defusing" which basically is a set of tools to help you take unhelpful thoughts less seriously. It's
Triecia Gibney
Apr 16, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
If I am using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to treat a client this is one of the books I will usually recommend (the other is Things Might go Terribly Horribly Wrong by Kelly Wilson). I find this book most useful for treating anxiety when a client is keen for a bag of techniques to help them cope. Paradoxically what is often most helpful about this book is the realisation by clients that giving up the search for a tool that will rid them of their anxiety is what ultimately frees them to get ...more
"ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) is not a religious, mystical, or spiritual path, although it may have some parallels. ACT is a scientifically based program for creating a meaningful life through accepting our internal experience, staying present, and acting on our values."

The 6 core principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy are Defusion, Expansion, Connection, The Observing Self, Values and Commited Action. It teaches that purely trying to replace negative thoughts with positive
Jan 22, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: anyone struggling with negative self talk
This book is a quick read and a fresh perspective on negative thinking.

This book is a very good self-help book for anyone who is having trouble with negative self talk. Very simply written and very amusingly illustrated, this book was easy to read and leaves you with a warm fuzzy feeling. The book reminds you that it is okay to feel sad/upset/disappointed as these are normal feelings in life. The author points this out using various exercises and illustrations. Not only do the exercises get th
Jan 25, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
It took me 6 months to read the first part of the book, because mindfulness skills were not new for me and I have my own issues with mindfulness, so I was quite dissapointed while reading it. I was afraid, that if the main idea of this book is mindfulness it won't be very useful to me.

But when I got to the values and commitment part of the book, it was a complete change and really important to me. It definitely helped to gain a new perspective, helped me to get unstuck with the question about my
Chase Parsley
Jul 07, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I started this book with skepticism but by the end was really into it. Harris combats cognitive strategies for being happy with more behaviorist methods, and some of his arguments are quite persuasive. He also does a good job talking about the importance of values in your life. A very good and easy to read book.
Jem Friar
Nov 17, 2015 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Don't Buy this book as a Kindle!!!

This book has not been formatted properly as a Kindle book. All of the pictures are tiny and the writing is illegible. I wish it were possible to get a refund. Useless and disappointing!
Jul 12, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: mental-health
My quibble with this book is the same quibble I have with most self-help books. These books remind me of Pastor Mike. Pastor Mike, you see, had a good command of the English language, had a soothing voice, but he underestimated the intelligence of his parishioners and would reiterate his main message over and over, heaping on one illustrative anecdote after another. God bless Pastor Mike, and God bless self-help books like this one, which help many people. I'm sure that some enjoy this communica ...more
Simon Eskildsen
The book preaches the methodology "ACT": accept your emotions and feelings, connect with your values, and take action. The 'happiness trap' is that we typically define happiness by the intensity and quantity of positive emotion and only a little negative. Instead, he advocates we elicit a mindful practice and let our thoughts pass through, label them, and distinguish them from our own. He uses the analogy of quicksand: that fighting anxiety and fear will fuel it, making it worse. He describes an ...more
Danny Mindich
Feb 21, 2021 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Pretty comprehensive guide on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, a very powerful, mindfulness based therapeutic approach. Would recommend this well-written book to all curious to learn more!

It's a self-help book, so you get what you pay for. Sometimes it seems a little passive aggressive, hitting me up, saying "Danny please, put me down, don't read me, DO me!" and I'm just like "Chill book! I'm just trying to get an overview of ACT!" I did the exercises and all of that so don't @ me.

Defusion s
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Dr Russ Harris is a medically-qualified doctor, stress consultant, executive coach, trainer, author, and a leading authority in the powerful new paradigm of Psychological Flexibility. (This is a revolutionary new development in human psychology that enhances performance, reduces stress, and improves health and wellbeing.) Dr Russ regularly presents workshops on Psychological Flexibility at both na ...more

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