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3.70  ·  Rating details ·  674 ratings  ·  96 reviews
If you had a second chance at love, would you do it all over again?

Amy has enough to deal with for one lifetime. A superstitious Chinese mother. A best friend whose mood changes as dramatically as her hair colour. A reputation for being strange. The last thing she needs is to be haunted by someone only she can see.

Logan is a ghost from the Eighties. He could be dangerous.
Paperback, 272 pages
Published April 1st 2012 by Black Dog Books/Walker Books
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Wendy Darling
Join us on the blog today for a Poolside Birthday Party Vlog with the adorable Shirley Marr! We have three copies of PRELOVED to give away, along with a beautiful sterling silver locket necklace just like the one in the book.


I had a horrible sensation in my stomach only because, like, a billion things could go wrong when you try to tell a girl that her Eighties-flavoured boyfriend from a past life was trying to hook back up wit
Shirley Marr
Jan 01, 2012 marked it as written-by-me  ·  (Review from the author)
Shelves: aussie-ya
What did you think? asks Goodreads. I'm the author! I wrote this book! It's as awesome as this book...

I lie.

Nothing can be more awesome than that book.

My book has an 80's flavour, but it's never going to be as rad as that blond dude's haircut and his grey+grey colour scheme.

In my own words...

Preloved is a ghost story. It involves past lives. It's about a modern teen girl and a dead teen boy from the 80s. It's more a bad romance, less of a love story. And it's more abnormal than paranormal! Sinc

i am sneaking this one in in the middle of my readventurer challenge - shhhh...

wow, i seem to be on a roll with reading sweet sweet books lately. and i don't mean this to be disparaging, but this book is truly a sweetie-pie almost-love-story.

and at first, i wasn't into it, i must confess. blame my need for the darkness and the edginess, but this one was so fast-paced, and was reading like the younger-range of YA, and i kept peering at it, trying to make out some of the bitchiness from fury. my
When I found out that Preloved involved ghosts, I immediately wondered what I’d gotten myself into because ghosts and I just don’t get along. If a movie with ghosts is in the theaters and my friends want to go see it, my face starts to have this weird twitch and then my voice raises a few octaves. "Oh that one? Oh, I've heard it is, like, TERRIBLE. Like worse than that Adam Sandler movie where he plays a guy and a girl. Worse than the worst Lifetime movie ever was. No I'm not just saying that be ...more
Steph Sinclair

I have to admit, Preloved truly surprised me. After finally getting a hold of Fury, I wasn't entirely sure how Preloved and I would get along because Paranormal Romances with ghosts usually make me want to roll my eyes. However, in Preloved's case it worked really well for me. In fact, there is something really special about Shirley Marr's sophomore novel because while the blurb sounds strictly PNR, it gives off a very strong contemporary feel at the same time. I actually found myself enjoying P
Jan 01, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2012, down-under, ya, own
You know what it’s like when you have a conversation with one of your bffs and you think “Oh mate, I wish someone was filming this because we are so ridiculously hilarious”? That’s how I feel when I talk to Shirley Ms Marr. If I could bottle Shirley’s Ms Marr’s personality and put it in a super soaker so I could spray passing gloomy people I would do it in a heartbeat.

Preloved read like a transcript of one of our conversations.
But instead of it being one of those private joke conversations that
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4.5 stars

"There is no ending to this story because, as I've realised, stories don't have endings, only beginnings."

Amy hasn't had the easiest life. She lives with her superstitious single Chinese mother with barely enough money to feed themselves. Her 'best friend', Rebecca doesn't exactly help either; her mood changes as rapidly as her hair colour. Rebecca seems to attract all the boys, and Amy has always just been that nameless girl who follows Rebecca ar
Mimi Valentine
This book defines the word adorable, brings a new definition to the word contemporary, and manages to mix hilarious and heartwarming scenes with the perfect degree of effectiveness! In other words, Preloved stole my heart and I'm not demanding it back anytime soon.

Preloved revolves around Amy, your classic sidekick girl. She's in love with The Princess Bride, has an amusingly superstitious Chinese mother, and has best friend that she believes will be the heroine of a story someday. Except instea
Preloved by Shirley Marr is set in the fictional town of Middlemore (loosely based on Perth, Australia). Amy Lee is 16 and lives with her mother above their vintage store, Buy Gones. Amy attends Middlemore High school with her best and only friend Rebecca.

Rebecca drops by one morning, dressed as Kylie Minogue, because their school has been raising money for the end-of-year ball by holding fancy dress days once a week in exchange for a donation and this week the theme is the Eighties. Amy is dres
Jan 01, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shirley Marr always manages to surprise me.
4 stars and review to come.


So I'm reading Preloved and incidentally I see Kylie Minogue on the paper today:

Look closer... she's wearing these:

Another detail:

Apparently, the shoes spit fire.
She really is stuck. In the 80s, I mean.
I don't usually bother with the paranormal YA reads most of the time as I'm more of a lover of the contemporary YA stuff and I have more than enough of that at the moment to keep me busy for the next, oh, several decades, I reckon. BUT, when I read a few lovely bits about this one over at Wear The Old Coat, Vegan YA Nerds and The Readventurer, my interest was well and truly caught in it's ghostly looking literary net.

A contemporary/paranormal/possibly slightly historical (?) YA. And an Aussie on
3.5 stars. *** You might come across something you consider as spoilers reading my review.***
"Amy, remember that if you get lost in a forest and the ghosts trick you into thinking every direction looks the same – take your undies off, put them over your head and spin around in a circle. Then your path will be clear."
Shirley Marr's second novel, Preloved, is thoroughly peppered with indispensable pieces of wisdom like this endearing warning the heroine's mother sends her daughter off to school
Aug 28, 2013 rated it really liked it
Delightful mix of sweetness and sadness.


Thank you book, for pulling me from the one-day-and-a-half reading slump, caused by Charm & Strange (fortunately I bounced right back up)!

“I unwrapped the fresh flowers left on the front mat and arranged it in the basket of the vintage bicycle that Mum kept out the front. I wasn’t even sure the bike even worked; it’s only ever served as a glorified vase. Like most of the things in Mum’s shop, Buy Gones, it was old or unwanted or broken or all of the a
Steph Bowe
Jan 02, 2012 rated it it was amazing
I am back! With a review! Oh, the wonderful things I have in store for you, internet-people who like reading my words!

I was dreading reading Preloved. I find this happens pretty often to me. I find out an author I love has a new book coming out, and I am excited! I read the blurb and see the cover, and I am even more excited because it sounds like exactly the kind of book I would love! I get my hands on aforementioned book! And then I stop.

It's the same when books are incredibly hyped - I expect
Monica Lamperd
2.5 STARS!

Okay, I don't usually give half stars, but today is an exception for this book. I want to be straight - this is not a supremely negative review. I did not hate the book. In fact there were some really nice things about it. But it just doesn't quite make it to 3 stars for me. The main reason?

I think it was the writing style and language used. You know, there are some YA books that really work across the age board, but I feel this one in particular was aimed directly at young teens. It
Jul 18, 2012 rated it liked it
Amy’s always been the sidekick to her best friend Rebecca, and she likes it that way. She doesn’t have to worry about all the guys loving her, and all the girls hating her; she can focus all of her energy into being Rebecca’s go-to gal and dealing with her superstitious Chinese mother. Amy certainly wouldn’t have planned to find a locket containing the ghost of a boy from the 80s that only she could see–especially not when that locket was meant for someone else. Now Amy has to deal with Logan, w ...more
C.G. Drews
Jul 28, 2012 rated it really liked it
Oh... I almost cried. It rang sweet... sweet, sad, and wonderfully un-soppy. I could have rejoiced.

Perhaps one of the most appealing elements: Amy and Logan quote movies. What's not to love? The saddest line in the entire book could be, "As you wish." (That's, of course, very handy for the author, since she didn't have to think it up.) I loved all the references to The Princess Bride. I loved that movie. And Amy must be a genius. If school is having an eighties dress-up day, dress as Buttercup.
Nemo (The Moonlight Library)
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Preloved has one of the coolest concepts on the block (a ghost from the Eighties? It was only the so-daggy-it's-cool era), and add to that major bonus points for a YA heroine who's Chinese.

However the startling brevity in which this tale was told left me breathless and a little disappointed. The book could have easily been twice as long with a little description added.

Perhaps it was the narrative style itself that didn't gel with me, but I didn't
Feb 09, 2012 rated it liked it
Shelves: aussie-nz, own

i love eating cold watermelon slices and licking off the juice that dribbles on my fingers. preloved pretty much is that equivalent. there for a good time.

mom-daughter relationship • sisterhood • ghosts • 80s • pop culture references • single parent • snarky • underdogs • sidekicks • asians • teen • dressing up • mystery • haunting
Jan 02, 2012 rated it really liked it
Four stars: A coming of age story with a sweet ghostly romance and eighties flashbacks!

Amy heads to school with her best pal Rebecca.  It is an eighties themed dress up day at school.  Amy is dressed as Buttercup from her favorite movie, The Princess Bride, while the lovely Rebecca with her blue hair looks stunning as pop star Kylie Minogue.  Amy is used to being in Rebecca's shadow.  Rebecca with her striking looks, turns all the boys' heads.  Today is no different as they reach the fountain th
I think the best way to sum up Shirley Marr's Preloved is to say, whatever you are expecting? It isn't that. Not exactly, anyway. I read tons of reviews that try to explain. Marr says it herself when she describes it as "more a bad romance, less of a love story. And it's more abnormal than paranormal," but still, I went in thinking I knew what it would be. I was wrong, and I was blown away. I tore open my manila mailer, seated myself on the couch, and started reading. I sort of grunted incoheren ...more
Actual rating- 3.5

If you are going to read this review or if you are not going to read it, especially if you are not going to read it, at least check this book ( Preloved) out!

You know those books, which aren't that popular but ought to be popular? Preloved is one such book.

Amy Lee is a sixteen year old girl, who finds a locket and with it an 18th century ghost, Logan, who wants Amy's help to reconcile with his sweetheart Stacey which is Amy's friend Rebecca. Or is that his aim?

I could conn
Apr 04, 2012 rated it really liked it

This is three and a half stars. It's really a delightful way to spend a few hours. It tells the story of sixteen year old Amy Lee. She is the self described sidekick of the beautiful Rebecca. A petite Asian girl who doesn't really fit in, not with the other Asian kids at her school, not with anyone. Even Amy and Rebecca don't really fit together even though they are BFF's. Amy finds a locket a silver heart with the picture of a boy in it. Unfortunately the locket was really meant for Rebecca. B
May 19, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shelves: ya
That rating is pretty much shorthand for a lot of wavering, mind-changing and the like, but if you're not interested in the rambling description of my reading experience to follow, you can just have the short version: it grew on me greatly.

I think I saw this book first when Wendy Darling added it - and made it sound well worth reading and was enthusiastic enough to have Marr visit The Midnight Garden. (And, I believe, to give away copies of the book, although I was already too late to benefit fr
Nadia King
Jan 20, 2019 rated it it was amazing
I really enjoyed Preloved. Think teen girl obsessed with the 1980s, add in a highly superstitious Chinese mum with a vintage shop and a hunky ghost, and boy, do we have a great story. I love the Chinese cultural references and the mystery surrounding the hunky ghost. Amy is a highly relatable, insecure protagonist who can’t seem to avoid trouble. She has questionable taste in friends and a really lovely relationship with her mum. This was an easy and entertaining read. Highly recommended for all ...more
I feel like this review is a bit sloppy and doesn't adequately convey how much I loved Preloved. It's more like a high 4.5 stars than a full 5, though, and I'll get to why eventually. But first I'd like to share with you the Mr Matey commercial that plays such a pivotal part in this novel. I'll wait.


Did you see it? I feel very cheated for being an Americ
Good Golly Miss Holly
Feb 06, 2012 rated it really liked it
Good Golly Miss Holly
If you were ever a fan of Ghost Whisperer or Gilmore Girls, you're going to be very fond of Preloved. It's a mash-up of 80's pop culture and Chinese superstition all rolled into one!

Poor Amy is a little bored with her high school routine. She simply cannot see how amazing her life is right now. Her days are filled with helping out at her mothers antique store while also suffering through the old wives tales she offers up as advice to almost any willing ear. Then there are the longing stares fro
Jul 20, 2012 rated it really liked it
Original review posted on The Book Smugglers

"I thought about Mum’s vintage shop. How she believed that if she found something broken and lovingly put it back together, that someone would come along and love it again."

16-year-old Chinese-Australian Amy Lee walks into her own story dressed up as The Princess Bride’ Buttercup and I love her already. It’s Eighties Theme Day at her school and as she makes her way there with her BFF Rebecca dressed as Kylie Minogue (and trying to avoid three Jason Do
May 16, 2012 rated it really liked it
if you're wanting a gripping, edge of your seat, passionate romantic thriller, this book is not that. This book is more lounging, feet propped up on the table, read casually as you're listening Come On Eileen. And honestly I find that very refreshing! I find Shirley Marr has certain knack for capturing the teen voice very well. You think that would be a given, seeing as she's a YA author, but in all the YA I've devoured in my short life it's more of a rarity than you'd think. The writing, overal ...more
I was excited to take part in my first ever blog tour and the lucky book for me was: Preloved, by Shirley Marr. Thanks to the lovely ladies at The Readventurer for including me!

Now of course, Shirley is a delightful person, and I would expect her books to be just as charming.

And it was.

Preloved is a lighthearted look at reincarnation, crushes, the Awesome 80's, circle's of friends and Chinese mothers who are not exactly Tiger Moms, but more like Professor Trelawney if she ran a 2nd hand store,
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Shirley Marr is an Australian author of contemporary Young Adult fiction who specialises in “writing about and for Little Lady Macbeths”. She arrived on the scene in 2010 when her manuscript was plucked out of a slush pile and published by Black Dog Books (now an imprint of Walker Books). The resulting novel, Fury, is a dark and funny murder story narrated by a petulant sixteen-year-old mean girl ...more
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