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Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide

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From Barbara Carrellas, sex expert and author of the best-selling book Urban Tantra, comes Ecstasy is Necessary. This is not your average tips-and-techniques sex book; rather it is an exploratory journey of the sexual self and the infinite possibilities of ecstatic expression. In Ecstasy is Necessary, Carrellas teaches readers how to discover, nurture, expand, and embrace ...more
Paperback, 250 pages
Published March 15th 2012 by Hay House (first published March 1st 2012)
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I read this book mostly because I think Barbara is awesome and also because I want to learn how to have better, more fulfilling sex and I identify as being in the relentless pursuit of my joy. This book was beyond anything I imagined it was going to be.

This book is an empowerment manual for embodiment. It is a road map to learn how to go into your body and get to know yourself on a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level. I spend at least 6 hours a week diligently working on these connec
May 17, 2012 rated it really liked it
No, this is not a Hot Romance Novel ... at least in the traditional sense.

Instead, Barbara Carrellas delivers Ecstasy is Necessary as a sort of guide to discovering your own path to ecstasy. This is a very individual journey. Yes, you can have a partner. Heck, you can have more than one. But that person is irrelevant if you don't understand yourself. You will not achieve fully realized ecstasy in an intimate relationship until you know your own needs, desires and fantasies.

Carrellas is a new age
Jun 29, 2012 rated it really liked it
Barbara Carrellas' book Ecstasy is Necessary is a must read for all but especially women ages 18 - 120 + ! She provides tremendous insight on what ecstasy is, how to achieve it, and how to effective communicate your heart's desire to those people important in your life is paramount. Ms. Carrellas does an excellent job demystifying the poorly shared information some of us may have received growing up in organized religious environments, as well concepts received from well-meaning adults. Reading ...more
Jun 06, 2012 rated it it was amazing
This book was amazing. Put it down and go think about it for a while before reading the next paragraph sort of amazing. It really helped me think about how to make intimidating risks happen for myself, instead of just hoping that I'll eventually find myself in the right place to trip on them. Even the chapter on communication presented ideas in a way that was different and useful. The book ended with a chapter on not just creating ecstatic experiences for yourself, but creating an ecstatic life. ...more
Nov 11, 2015 rated it really liked it
No matter how many times you change a partner, or if you have many, or if you prefer to go solo for pleasure, or if you are with a longterm partner, for life or for eternity. All that does not matter if you don't understand your motivation for sex and pleasure. This book helps you to dive deeper into the secret and unveiled world of your subconscious of sexuality. Finding your motivations, your values and on the way to that depth - your own kinky world of true desires. Wonderful. At any stage of ...more
Feb 22, 2014 rated it it was amazing
I cannot recommend this book highly enough. In fact, it is one of the top 3 books I recommend to my coaching clients. Tremendously useful for figuring out boundaries, desires, needs and negotiations for sensual and erotic experiences.
Dec 31, 2013 rated it really liked it
Definitely a book that you need to take your time with and/or have a second reading with. Deals with figuring out what gives you ecstasy, understanding your intentions, needs, and desires, setting boundaries, etc.
Aug 03, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Best book on sexuality, joy, and ecstasy that I've ever read. A must read!
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Jan 08, 2013 rated it liked it
Shelves: human-sexuality
Enjoyable easy and practical read for thinking about living life differently
Jan 19, 2012 rated it it was ok
I didn't know that my Love/sex life was so boring till she told me....
Jan 27, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Published in 2012, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide is Barbara Carrellas’s third book, but the second book of hers I’ve read. I read Ecstasy is Necessary about one year after reading her other book Urban Tantra. As a sexologist, I read so many things about all things related to sex and sexuality that it feels like work – and I must say, I regretted not reading it earlier because it is awesome. Come to think of it, everybody I know who knows Barbara describes her work as that – Awesome.

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