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Ask the Passengers

3.85  ·  Rating details ·  24,685 ratings  ·  2,718 reviews
Astrid Jones desperately wants to confide in someone, but her mother's pushiness and her father's lack of interest tell her they're the last people she can trust. Instead, Astrid spends hours lying on the backyard picnic table watching airplanes fly overhead. She doesn't know the passengers inside, but they're the only people who won't judge her when she asks them her most ...more
Hardcover, 304 pages
Published October 23rd 2012 by Little, Brown BFYR
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Aubrey Yes, definitely! Though I loved Ask the Passengers, it's written in a fairly different style than the other two books by her I've read. I liked both P…moreYes, definitely! Though I loved Ask the Passengers, it's written in a fairly different style than the other two books by her I've read. I liked both Please Ignore Vera Dietz and Everybody Sees The Ants a lot. (less)
Yona It's hopeful overall, I'd say, though there are some stressful moments for the protagonist.…moreIt's hopeful overall, I'd say, though there are some stressful moments for the protagonist.(less)

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Oct 22, 2012 rated it it was amazing
So, here's the thing. I finished this book yesterday and I just couldn't tell you guys because IT WAS SO GREAT I CAN'T THINK OF HOW TO EXPLAIN HOW GREAT IT IS. I WILL be doing a video review about it with more thoughts, but here's some current thinkings:

1) A.S. King writes some of my favourite main characters of all time. Characters that I genuinely love and want to hold hands with and hug and talk with.

2) Her use of magical realism is stunning and powerful and I want to write something with mag
Jan 29, 2013 rated it it was ok
I did not like this book. Ask the Passengers was disappointing because I wanted to like it, since I was interested in the premise and I knew it was an acclaimed novel. But I just had too many problems with this book to enjoy it.

Ask the Passengers is about Astrid, a senior in high school in the small, close-minded town of Unity Valley. Many of the people at her school are bigoted and the whole town is a vicious rumor mill. Her family is not understanding and for the most part they ignore her. So
Feb 24, 2019 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: lgbtqia
"I freed myself of something I was faking, and now I want to free myself of all my faking."

This is a story about Astrid, who's a nerd, loves studying philosophy and humanities and speaking to and sending love to passengers on the plane. More importantly, this book is about her struggling with her sexuality and wanting freedom from labels and wanting to find herself.

I was really enjoying myself reading the first half of this book. I loved Astrid's reflections, the perspective's we would get f
Nov 16, 2011 rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2012, 6, ya, starred-2012
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3.5 stars

If you've read as much YA as I have, I am sure this story will sound VERY familiar to you. I myself have read it once, twice or three times, in one form or another, and each version was of a different quality. I want to repeat the blurb and say that Ask The Passengers is a "truly original portrayal of a girl struggling to break free of society's definitions," but it just isn't.

Astrid's is a story that's been told before. A teen who lives in a small town full
Jun 01, 2015 rated it liked it
As always, AS King's writing is beautiful and her themes and overall messages are great. I also really liked the magical realism aspect - if you can even call it that?
However, I just didn't love it. I didn't ever really root for the characters or connect with them, and though Astrid does develop quite a bit in terms of learning, her overall characterization didn't really expand a lot.
A beautifully written book about acceptance of yourself and others & coming of age/LBQT, but the actual story a
Aug 31, 2015 rated it really liked it
Shelves: favorites
"I am equal to you. You are equal to me. It's that universal. Except that it's not."

It was my first time to read a book that is about a relationship between a girl and a girl and knowing the ups and downs of a homosexual person. Usually, when it comes to this genre, I always read Levithan's work and this book from A.S. King is really an eye-opener for me.

This book is a story about Astrid Jones who is really confused in her sexuality and who is afraid to come out because of the judgmental type o
Feb 09, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Oh this was so great. BRILLIANT. A.S. King, where have you been all my life? I feel like I had a firm grasp of the characters within the first 15 pages, I just immediately understood them. That is talent. I will definitely definitely be reading more from her in the future.

King handles the subject matter PERFECTLY - an incredibly important book about loving yourself, ignoring small-minded people and how unnecessary labels are. *claps forever*
First Second Books
One of my favorite things about this book: it features two teenagers (who are dating) actually having a sensible conversation about sex before they have it.

A lot of what teenage sex seems to be about is awkwardness, which leads to a whole lot of teenagers in books not talking about having sex before they have sex. Or else there’s the scenario, ‘We were thrown together by hormones/alcohol! Now perhaps I have regrets, but clearly it was not ME who made that sex-related decision, but hormones/alcoh
Aj the Ravenous Reader
4.5 stars

This is such a beautiful, very meaningful read and I’m kind of hating myself a little that it took me so long to pick this book up. Now I finally understand why Ask the Passengers won so many literary awards because it deserves all of it and more for this book has practically everything in it. It’s a contemporary YA but it reads more like a general fiction and I do not find it impossible that one day, this may well become a literary classic as well.

Astrid, our main character is smack–
Jan 01, 2013 rated it really liked it
Astrid Jones sends her love to strangers. She gives it away to passengers in the sky, because that's the only way she'll be free. Her demanding, over-controlling mother talks at her, her dad smokes pot, and her sister worries too much about her reputation to be of any help. Living in a small town has its downsides, and Astrid realizes just how damaging those downsides are when she finds herself falling in love - with a girl.

What a voice. Astrid's perception of her surroundings struck me as wise
Neil (or bleed)
"Equality is obvious. First, to define equality. Then to define obvious. I mean, I can even try to define is if I want, because equality isn’t really working in the present tense, is it? Because equality isn’t really obvious to most people. And I don’t mean to say the world is filled with racists or sexists or homophobes. I mean to say: Everybody’s always looking for the person they’re better than."

Ask the Passengers is mainly about breaking free about society's definition and label but thi
Dec 15, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: favorites
Here is what they say about Astrid Jones and her family in their small-town of Unity Valley:

• Their mother hardly ever leaves the house. But she’s stuck-up, and thinks she’s above it all for keeping her fancy New York job.
• The dad is a stoner – if he’s not making birdhouses, he’s taking a toke in the shed.
• Youngest daughter, Ellis, is a mean hockey player. She fits right in here, a real small-town girl.
• That Astrid Jones is a weird one – don’t know how she came to be friends with the nice Ho
Very unique story that was shared with a sense of levity by an immediately likeable character. It was because of the smooth, funny, thoughtful narrative that allowed me to enjoy this novel about a very serious subject.

Astrid Jones is from a small town called Unity Valley. We meet her at a time when she’s struggling to understand her sexual orientation and how and when she wants to make it public to family and friends. She can’t quite open up to her mother, which she finds hard to connect with o
Christina (A Reader of Fictions)
Originally posted on A Reader of Fictions.

Okay, it's official. I think A.S. King is one of the very best YA writers out there. Ask the Passengers is only my second experience with King, but I loved it just as much as, perhaps even more than, the first one I read, Everybody Sees the Ants. Even better, King falls into that realm of authors who can do something totally new every time. She has some themes in common, but the books themselves are very different. One has a younger male teen lead, one a
May 17, 2013 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: guilty
The general premise isn't bad, but it's muddled and poorly-executed. I found myself disliking all the characters, including Astrid, the main character with whom I am supposed to relate. It's like the author couldn't decide on a personality for any one of the characters, so she just jumped around without making much sense. For example, does Astrid actually LIKE her girlfriend? I DON'T KNOW. I really should know that. And, oh my God, if I have to read the phrase "send my love" one more time... NO. ...more
Jun 12, 2020 rated it really liked it
Didnt know what I was getting myself into when I started reading this story. I try to stay away from synopsis as A. S. King has never disappointed me. Perfect read for pride month. This story focuses on a girl who likes another girl but hasn't come to terms if she is a lesbian or not. ...more
Gail Carriger
Nov 30, 2013 rated it really liked it
Shelves: ya, reviewed
I enjoyed this contemporary YA, at first I was annoyed by the artifice of the inset passenger clips. I thought they were an excuse the author was using to get all essay and literary on the reader, but at the end they tied in nicely and I forgave A.S. King.
"'I don't know. I'm still not even sure, I don't think. I mean, how do I know?'

'It's not a guy?'

I shake my head.

Justin hoots. 'Dude! You're one of us!'

I keep shaking my head, and I add a shrug, but I'd be lying if I told you that his excitement and invitation into -one of them- isn't making me cringe. Because I'm not in this to be a member of some club. I'm not going through this so I can lock myself into the -one of them- box.

'So, you're questioning?' she says.

'I guess.'

Astrid Jones goes to Un
Dec 04, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Could King be any better? Seriously. This is my favorite of her books, hands down. I also think it might be the most accessible but it does not stray from her style of infusing the real with a bit of the fantastic. There are a striking number of similarities to EVERYBODY SEES THE ANTS but it's subtle. Very, very subtle.

Astrid Jones feels alone and confused and lost, but rather than wallow in that, rather than try to figure herself or her family out, she sends her love to everyone around her. Sh
Elle (ellexamines)
Oct 01, 2016 rated it really liked it
This is definitely a solid novel of the “gay coming out” genre. Yet there's something about this story that elevates it beyond the typical “I can't come out” angst.

Maybe it's the unique touch of magical realism. Here, King creates a perfect balance of the real and the fake, making the story grounded in reality but with an extra touch.

Astrid's family dynamics are also a plus. Her uptight mother and laid-back father make a conflicting dynamic. A.S. King makes all these characters so dynamic and
2.5 stars. I wanted to like this book. I really did. But I found it to be kind of unrealistic of what it's like to deal with your sexuality and I didn't find it relatable at all and when I read books about gay teens being at least a little relatable would help. I did like the main character though, which is why I didn't give this a lower rating. I didn't really like her girlfriend but I'm not sure why. But I personally don't see the obsession for A.S King. And I've read better lesbian-protag boo ...more
Mar 29, 2021 rated it it was ok
this entire book was incredibly toxic.
Jul 27, 2015 rated it liked it
3.5 stars

This was ??? an interesting read, capturing the life of a teenager struggling with her sexuality in a pretty close-minded small town and whilst some parts were great other elements could've been done a lot better.

I LOVED the writing style. The author captures the voice of a teenager struggling with her sexuality v well and Astrid's thoughts are not only genuine but relatable - especially when she holds hypothetical conversations in her head, with herself and other people. I also loved t
Nov 29, 2016 rated it really liked it
Wow, this book is the proof that I should give second chances more often.
When I first started this book this summer, I just stopped 30 pages in, for no particular reason. But then I decided that I heard too many good things about it and should give it a new try, so that's what I did, and I'm glad.
Astrid lives in a small town where everybody gossip about everybody, where some people think Holocaust never happened, where being gay is a sin and some people walk around with 'straight pride' t-shirts
Kat (Lost in Neverland)
Jun 05, 2014 rated it really liked it
Astrid desperately wants to talk to someone. Someone other than her overbearing mother, stoner of a father, distant sister, or even her pushy friends and girlfriend.
She doesn't have anyone to love so she sends her love to planes passing over-head, hoping someone will send some back.

This book is one of those 'books with main gay character where the story is all about the character being gay' ones. I still think it was brilliant, and very poignant, in the way it showed how Astrid hated being lab
Jess the Shelf-Declared Bibliophile
3.5 stars. I really loved the way this book was written. The quirk of sending love to airplane passengers along with their inner thoughts was extremely well done and a great literary skill. I enjoyed the story also, as it was relatable and very human. While the protagonist did come across as weak and made some extremely dumb decisions, I do recognize that she is a teenager, therefore it was to be expected.
Jul 25, 2015 rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2015
Good writing, human characters and interesting family relationships. I really liked it :)
Irina Elena
Lovely story - understated, but incredibly gripping. And my love for A.S. King is confirmed once again.

To love this book, you need to love its narrator, and for me at least Astrid is impossible not to love.
Sure, she's a questioning teenager, and she's confused - but she's sensible too. She's hurt, but resilient; emotional, but rational.
Her voice is calm, even through the hurdles she has to overcome, and when she finally loses her cool, she does it in a way that only made me appreciate her more.

Sabrina Grafenberger
Feb 14, 2021 rated it liked it
Shelves: lgbt
I've had a hard time trying to rate this book. I did enjoy the first half of the story, but the second half got a bit too depressing and repetitive. There were lots of issues that never got resolved and some characters behaved horribly without any consequences or explanation.

Astrid's family was my main problem. Her father is a stoner who acts like he isn't a part of this family, her mother is ignoring Astrid most of the time and when she's finally talking to her it's only to say awful things (t
Aug 26, 2017 rated it it was ok
My favorite parts of this book were about people who weren't even major characters in the book -- the random passengers and their stories. Those passages were comparable to Lucky's dreams and the left behind physical evidence in "Everybody Sees the Ants".

Astrid and her family are a hot mess and it is no wonder she is so confused. Any teen in that type of home situation is going to need to find love elsewhere and be conflicted about what form that love should take.

I has this on my To Read list af
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A.S. King is the author of the highly-acclaimed I CRAWL THROUGH IT, Walden Award winner GLORY O'BRIEN'S HISTORY OF THE FUTURE, REALITY BOY, 2013 LA Times Book Prize winner ASK THE PASSENGERS, 2012 ALA Top Ten Book for Young Adults EVERYBODY SEES THE ANTS, and 2011 Michael L. Printz Honor Book PLEASE IGNORE VERA DIETZ and THE DUST OF 100 DOGS as well as a collection of award-winning short stories f ...more

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