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The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing

3.77  ·  Rating details ·  2,701 ratings  ·  346 reviews
"After too many years of unfulfilling work, Bronnie Ware began searching for a job with heart. Despite having no formal qualifications or experience, she found herself in palliative care.

Over the years she spent tending to the needs of those who were dying, Bronnie’s life was transformed. Later, she wrote an Internet blog about the most common regrets expressed to her by
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Kindle Edition, 247 pages
Published (first published 2011)
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Deirdre
Mar 14, 2013 rated it did not like it
I bought this book due to the positive publicity which the writer received on her article the top five regrets of the dying. I expected some open and honest accounts from people who faced death and encountered their regrets about the life they had led and their fears about the future. What I didn't expect to find was a long diatribe about the author, her belief systems and what led to her writing the book in the first place. A paragraph should have been sufficient. Sadly it was so interminably d ...more
Carolyn
Apr 24, 2013 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
When I'm dying, one of my top five regrets may well be having read this book. It was like reading a dull person's diary, complete with the bad spelling and grammar you'd expect from such an offering.
This book contained mainly self-indulgent drivel, briefly punctuated by five points of wisdom gleaned from the writer's dying clients while she worked as a palliative carer. Instead of an enriching insight into their experiences and what we could learn from them to use our own remaining time mo
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Anna Lundberg
Feb 18, 2014 rated it did not like it
Hmm. Honestly I had to force myself to finish this book. I'm afraid that it's long and poorly written, all tell and no show, and very repetitive. The author has clearly led a very a troubled life, from drug problems in her youth to depression and several suicide attempts (or at least plans). I'm happy for her that she seems finally to have found her own form of peace and happiness, and in a way I think the book is a kind of therapy for her. She has also had rare insight into the regrets of the d ...more
Carrie Poppy
Jul 15, 2019 rated it liked it
The content of this book is lovely, and the author has clearly had a fascinating life, worthy of a memoir; however, she clearly was not given a very skilled editor. While the five major regrets (that she witnessed) are very telling -- and not always obvious -- Ware is gifted with more insight and compassion than pure writing prowess. She writes nearly every sentence in the passive voice, sometimes rambles for a page or two, and occasionally veers into the troublingly unscientific (she even devot ...more
Amy Moritz
Jan 09, 2013 rated it really liked it
A very interesting book. This book was recommended to me by a friend and I just jumped in without knowing much more than the title. I wasn't expecting so much memoir/autobiography from the author. At times it was wonderful and at times I felt as if it interrupted the story. But overall an incredibly beautiful reminder and message. Two regrets struck me most. One was from people who wished they had the courage to be themselves, to be true to themselves. This is a theme which comes around in my li ...more
Debbie Young
Mar 20, 2012 rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: anyone struggling with work-life balance - so that'll be most of us, then!
I bought this book (Kindle Version)having read brief but rave reviews about it on Facebook and it wasn't quite what I'd expected (the perils of buying on Kindle rather than flicking through a printed book in a shop!) - there was much more about her own life than about those she had nursed - but even so I found it absorbing and compelling. Ware breaks the last taboo by talking so much about death, recounting her personal experiences of providing palliative care and witnessing many people's final ...more
Jo
Aug 29, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: advice-for-life
Very easy to read, inspirational and challenging, makes you question whether you are living the life you want to be living.
Courtney
Jan 30, 2013 rated it it was amazing
This book has changed my life. Bronnie Ware is an amazing woman with an incredible story to tell. There's no one who wouldn't learn a lot from reading this fantastic memoir. Go and buy it.
Sleepless
Oct 28, 2016 rated it liked it
I went to my first funeral last week. Now, some of you may be surprised to know as a whole, I'm a pretty morbid person. Being interested in philosophy and constantly being on the edge of a personality and existential crisis does that. So I was curious about this book and knew I wanted to read it.

How do I begin? I have so much to say.

First of all, this book felt pale. That's my best adjective. I see death as a natural part of life. I don't think we need to be sad about it. I think we need to ta
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Ilhem
Apr 22, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: favorites
"Depression is an illness that can be the most catalytic gift for positive transformation, if one is allowed to move through it at their own pace. Depression is the name given to it in modern society. But it is in fact, an opportunity and enormous time for spiritual transformation and awakening. It may be a breakdown. But it can also be a break-through, if approached with determination, the willingness to surrender, and faith. Of course, this doesn’t actually make it fun"



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BookOfCinz
Sep 13, 2018 rated it it was ok
If I could describe this book in one word, it would be underwhelming. It took a lot for me to finish this book, only because the writing was a bit lackluster. I am generally drawn to books like this that offers advice on how I can better live my life but I just could not get into the writing.

I felt the book could have been at least 100 pages shorter, a lot of the book is repetitive and a bit forced. I wanted to hear more from the dying persons and how they put their advice into pract
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Michael
Apr 16, 2013 rated it it was ok
I had been looking forward so much to reading this book, as it's been (and still makes for) an interesting topic. Alas, it is definitely NOT written professionally and focuses way too much on the author's musings instead of the wisdom of the dying. In my view, the low point is reached when a depressive episode of the author is dealt with in a way that suggests Mrs Ware is proud of having toughed out her depression, leaving it to providence that her potential suicide has been averted.
In the
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Hilary
Jul 07, 2012 rated it really liked it
The writing is not great, and the stories of the people Bronnie cared for are interspersed with stories about her own personal experiences, which is where her writing style got too flowery. However, the stories of the people are told simply and are incredibly effective. While the "top 5 regrets" are not all that surprising, the stories give them meaning. A great perspective, I highly recommend it even if the writing isn't spectacular because the message gets through and it's worth getting throug ...more
KurdishBookworm
Sep 12, 2017 rated it did not like it
I was about to throw this book out of window
You know what thus book is? An autobiography and what's even worse author is keeping it a secret (she is not succeed tho) through all reading she keeps prasing herself while adding little stories of dying people she nursed.
"I do meditation, I'm a vegetarian I decided and did everything all my own I'm so brave."
But you know what she is so so selfish, she didn't think about the people she left behind when she decided to "live freely" and wow
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Wilde Sky
This book reflects the thoughts of people who are close to death – in terms of things that wish they had or hadn’t done.

Some of the points made in this book struck home, but a lot of it was too woolly / long winded for me – for me it would probably have worked better as a magazine article (10 pages).
Jesoos Mrtnuz
Jan 13, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Loved this book. It really puts everything into perspective!
Linda
Aug 02, 2019 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
If you want to understand what are those 5 things, read the table of contents and save some time.
Read the whole book if you want to read the biography of the author.
Kerim
Jan 14, 2013 rated it it was amazing
What a gift, Bronnie Ware has shared with the world! Through her work and journey of self-discovery, she has offered us both insight and grace. As Bronnie began her work in palliative care, she quickly realized that not only was she able to offer her healing gift to others, but received so much in return. She states, "We will all die, but this work was reminding me we all have a choice, too, on how to live in the meantime."

Through Bronnie's own life journey, she experienced both pain
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Pamela Morgan
Sep 23, 2012 rated it liked it


Enjoyed this, lots of food for thought but rather self indulgent at times. The author has had an unconventional life which I found interesting and her experiences with her clients fascinating but sometimes their words sound like her own- I was left wondering how much was actually accurate and how much edited to enable her to confer her own philosophy of what matters in life. Worth reading just to get you thinking.
Ling
Sep 23, 2015 rated it it was amazing
Wow, this book was incredibly moving and heartfelt and the stories were told with such care that I felt like I was experiencing it too. There were many tears shed over some of the stories and the author shares so deeply that it is hard not to relate on many levels. She describes many of her clients with such love and kindness it is very easy to love this author and who she is as a person.
Vanessa
Aug 03, 2012 rated it it was ok
I had heard great reviews of this book and it had so much potential to be a great book however there was much more about her own life than about those she had nursed. Having said that it did remind me of a few lessons that I have learnt along the way.
Jemma (Aussie BookWorm)
Sep 23, 2015 rated it it was amazing
An utterly astounding & life-changing book! Full review PLUS Q&A with author Bronnie Ware: http://aussiebookworm.weebly.com/ware...
Ulzii
Dec 11, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Reading this book is a heart warming wonderful experience... I read this book with tears, laughters and insights.
James Mason
Jul 11, 2018 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Sanctimonious. It took some google/dictionary searching to figure out that one word that described how I felt about the text in this book. My dissatisfaction with this book is partly (mostly?) my fault: I didn't read the full description that said that this book is largely about the author and not about what the title suggests. In fact, I think a more appropriate title would be something like "Me, me, me: The musings of a self-proclaimed spiritual being who happened to spend some time caring for ...more
Klai Khouloud
Jan 20, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Seeing how long it took me to finish this book (13 months) is unbelievable but then again remembering how I actually got hold of it is even more shocking.
This book chose me I had no idea it ever existed or even there was a writer with the name of Bonnie Ware but I've got this friend who kept on going about it and frankly I never cared I like the title just not enough to Google it I guess few months later her brother who lives in Germany got it for her (coz there was noway we can have it in
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Iris
Apr 22, 2018 rated it did not like it
Ware gives some interesting insights into how to live a meaningful life, even though unfortunately most of them seem to be in the last two chapters of the book.

It took me so long to read this book mostly because I couldn't bring myself to deal with the bad drafting, long discussions on her personal life and unnecessary added words (I have never read the word "though"so much in my life). However, I persevered to the last page, and I have to say that the last two chapters are what would bring thi
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Larkin Tackett
Apr 20, 2018 rated it really liked it
Bronnie Ware is a former bank administrator, songwriting teacher, and explorer, who became a palliative carer. The love, patience, and support she provided the dying are just as moving as the regrets/lessons they taught her. The regrets are 1) I wish I'd had to courage to live a life true to myself, no the life others expected of me; 2) I wish I hadn't worked so hard; 3) I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings; 4) I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends; and 5) I wish I had left m ...more
Bartosz Majewski
Sep 03, 2018 rated it liked it
Shelves: pleasure
At first Gary Vaynerchuck ranted about going to a hospice for a day to listen to what older people that have regret and live to avoid that. That resembled regret minimalisation framework coined by Jeff Bezos and i liked it. Then i've encountered top five regrets of the dying in "Good Life" or some other book i've read by Jacek Santorski. Long story short there are some valuable lessons here, yet i just couldn't get through the book - it took me 9 months to finish it.

I don't think it's the book.
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John Stepper
Jun 29, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Prepare to cry - and to reflect and feel good all at the same time. This is a very useful book that made a powerful impression on me, nudging me (perhaps “pushing” is a better word) to live a life free of the regrets in the book.
Faisalalhussain
Jan 16, 2019 rated it really liked it
Book highlights the thoughts and preferences of people how expect to die. The author talked too much about her personal life which diverted my attention from the main concept of the book.

Totally recommended.
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Bronnie Ware is an author, songwriting teacher, and speaker from Australia. Her inspiring memoir, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying, has connected with hearts all over the world, with translations in 27 languages. Bronnie lives in rural Australia and loves balance, simple living, and waking up to the songs of birds.
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