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The End of Normal

3.68  ·  Rating details ·  3,945 ratings  ·  449 reviews
An explosive, heartbreaking memoir from the widow of Mark Madoff and daughter-in-law of Bernard Madoff, the first genuine inside story from a family member who has lived through -- and survived -- both the public crisis and her own deeply personal tragedy.
ebook, 221 pages
Published October 1st 2011 by Penguin Group USA, Inc
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Dec 08, 2011 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
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Oct 29, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
When I first started reading this book I almost put it down. To think any of the Madoff's deserved sympathy from anyone when they destroyed so many other people's livelihoods was absurd. Reading about their fairy tale lives full of lavish, extravagances that they knew nothing other than was nauseating. But I put aside my initial judgmental feelings and anger and continued on. The truth of the matter is that Mark Madoff, Bernie's son, was innocent of any wrongdoing. But his life was torn down and ...more
Jan 11, 2012 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: biography-memoir
I went into this book knowing about the back story and scandal of the Madoff's and with the knowledge that the family was and still is extremely wealthy, so I was prepared to enter into this life of glamour and luxury and knew that things in it would probably seem ridiculous to a non-millionaire like me. I guess what intrigued me to read this was the idea of seeing inside the Madoff scandal through the eyes of the widow and the aftermath of Madoff's decision to end his life. What surprised me th ...more
May 09, 2014 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I wish I could give it zero stars. The author was married to Mark Madoff. Mark was the son of Bernie Madoff and Mark committed suicide 2 years after Bernie's scheme unraveled. Stephanie and Mark had been married for 6 years and had two children.
She has the gall to claim that Mark "was the greatest casualty" of his father's fraud. If only her editor had let her finish her sentence the way she wanted, it would have continued to read "and next to Mark, nobody suffered more than me." She spends the
Sep 22, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nonfiction
Holy guilty pleasure. This is definitely a quick read (under 24 hours around here) and very compelling and interesting. That is not to say I completely bought it.

The best lesson to be learned from this book is one of perspective. I'm not going to read Ruth's book, but I'm sure if I did she would have a compelling story of her own to tell. Stephanie is a spoiled princess (but of course she wouldn't see herself as such): she complains that she was one of the poorest girls at her elite NYC high sch
Stacey Buono
I was really interested in reading this book because I do believe that Mark Madoff was another one of his father's tragedies. I found Stephanie from the very beginning to be negative and extremely self centered. Even before the fraud was exposed, she painted herself as jilted and a victim. I cannot imagine what it is like to be in her or her children's shoes and I truly feel sorry for both. I do, however, think that she has painted an unbecoming picture of herself with this book. If her intentio ...more
Jan 08, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Sad. Just a sad, sad situation. I wasn't sure what to expect going into this book considering what Stephanie's father-in-law, Bernie Madoff, had done to his investors. However, I found Stephanie's account to be...honest. She didn't try to hide her short-comings or smooth over her emotions or make it sound like she was a saint. Maybe she'll have regrets later, but she wanted to tell her husband's and her story after having to stay quiet for so long, and she did.

Don't get me wrong - some of it is
Becky Sandham Mathwin
I ending up reading this book because for whatever reason the whole Bernie Madoff case has always been sort of intriguing to me. While it wasn't dull and I found some of the revelations about the Madoff family interesting, I really didn't care for Ms. Madoff Mack (she was married to Mark Madoff, the Madoff son who comitted suicide). She seemed somewhat spoiled and superficial. I thought it was very tacky and unnecessary that she trashed her deceased husband's first wife (the mother of his oldest ...more
Nov 08, 2011 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, 2011
Unique look into a slice of the Madoff world. Stephanie Madoff Mack is the widow of Mark, son of swindler Bernie, who died at his own hand. Her story is heartbreaking but she is almost too generous to her husband, which I understand, but this approach didn't allow the reader to see the full spectrum of her feelings. He tries to kill himself once and eventually succeeds and she paints their marriage as very happy and rosy. There is an entire year she glosses over between the first attempt and the ...more
Nov 30, 2011 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
She is a piece of work! I obviously feel badly that she lost her husband, but she pretty much blames everyone for everything, besides herself of course. First she hates her in-laws, then they are wonderful grandparents and then she hates them again. Sometime on the same page it seems.
Jaclyn Day
Apr 19, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I’ve found memoirs to be touch and go in general, but I was especially wary when starting this book because I wasn’t sure how Mack would approach the subject matter…and I wasn’t sure what route she would take with her story. If you aren’t very familiar with every detail in the Madoff case, you may assume that Mack perhaps knew about her father-in-law’s massive Ponzi scheme, or that she was kept in the dark but her husband, Mark Madoff (Bernie’s son) knew about it. Neither is true. Like everyone ...more
Well written depiction of one family member's perspective. But I would give the book 3 stars instead of 5 stars. I came away feeling as if Stephanie lives in a plastic bubble in some respects. First off, most people who might find themselves in this kind of situation would have to scramble around and find a job to make ends meet. It seems that is not the position she is in, and for that, she should be forever the Madoffs. Instead, she spends a lot of energy trash talking. I'm sure ...more
Nov 05, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: audio
Stephanie Madoff Mack had it all: homes in Soho, Greenwich and Nantucket, a doorman, a dog walker, reliable childcare for her two beautiful children, a handsome rich husband who adored her, a famous even wealthier father-in-law, luxury cars, nice clothes. Then in December 2008, her father-in-law Bernard Madoff, confessed to his two sons that his entire life and business was a giant lie. The rest is history. Thousands of people lost millions of dollars from "investing" with Bernie Madoff, includi ...more
Jun 10, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
My husband was getting ready to leave for Iraq while most of this was going down so I was busy and missed a lot of this.

The way she depicts Mark and Andrew is almost completely opposite than a lot of other in depth pieces depict them. It's almost the other way around in most pieces. Somewhere there is truth but I doubt we will ever know.

If only he would have been able to hang up that life and move away to start a new somewhere like she urged.

I am surprised she stayed in NYC after he died.

I don'
T.Kay Browning
For me, this book was primarily fascinating by testing my limits of sympathy. Like, if Stephanie was one of my friends, I would feel really bad for her, she seems like she would be a really good friend. But as a reader at a distance, it is often so hard to feel sorry for her. But having your husband commit suicide and leave you with two kids is terrible for everyone. No amount of money or privilege makes that okay. But it's not just her situation, its the way she writes that makes it so hard to ...more
Oct 22, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
The End of Normal reads like fiction. Stephanie Madoff does a beautiful job vindicating her late husband, Mark Madoff. Her emotions are raw, but honest, which makes this book very emotional and hard to put down. I have gained a lot of respect for Stephanie and I feel she has no reason to lie. Bernie Madoff not only stole from thousands of people, but he duped her own parents out of their savings as well. I’m sure that writing this book was not easy; she takes the reader into her very personal li ...more
Jun 12, 2012 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Fairly well written but the author seemed so caught up in her fantastic NYC lifestyle that she came across as really furious with her father-in-law for ruining that for her when he got caught. She did do a great job of describing the anger that is associated with grief, especially after a sudden death, but I think she just wanted to punish everyone, including her husband for what happened. In retrospect I think she had a chip on her shoulder before she ever married Mark Madoff regarding his rela ...more
Jeanne Morigeau
Oct 29, 2011 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: personal
ug! I ordered this from Amazon and once it arrived I was unimpressed right away. Nowhere on the cover does it let you know that it was co-authored. Stephanie and the writer really portray her like a dime store romance novel heroine - the language is that sappy. Oh, she blows up from time to time, but she is always right and always gets her way. I'm not going to pass judgement on anyone involved with the scandal, but this is a poorly written, nauseating book. I only finished it because of a morbi ...more
Kristen Hellenga
This woman is rich girl entitled and doesn't really own it all the time. But I WILL say that what she went through is soooooo much more than I could've imagined. Her account is both devistating and eye opening. You might think you know what happened during the Bernie Madoff scandal but you have no idea....
A memoir by the daughter-in-law of Bernie Madoff, telling her side of the story of finding out about Madoff's Ponzi scheme and the family's reaction, including her husband Mark's suicide.

Mack gives an intimate look at how the Madoff family imploded after Bernie was arrested and convicted. It was difficult to read how Bernie's sons' lives were ruined, even though they had nothing to do with their father's crimes, but what was worse was how their family was torn apart at a time when they could ha
Jim Ainsworth
Yep, that Madoff, as in Bernie’s daughter-in-law. If you have not heard of Bernie Madoff, you probably might not be interested in this memoir. Or maybe you live on another planet. Or you never heard of a Ponzi scheme. As he spends the rest of his life in prison, Madoff’s name will probably loom as infamously large in investing history as Ponzi’s has.

Madoff understood greed and capitalized on it and the ignorance and naivete of his investors. What is amazing is that so many wealthy, otherwise in
Jul 15, 2017 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
“Life, they showed me, could go on no matter how unpredictable, no matter how unfair.”

"Hurt people may hurt people, but ultra-rich hurt people REALLY hurt people." - Mr Eric

I read The End of Normal by Stephanie Madoff Mack. Book #99 of 182, 272 pages, finished 7/15/2017.

Rating: 2/5

The End of Normal tells the story of Mark and Stephanie Madoff, the son and daughter-in-law of the infamous Bernie Madoff, who in 2008 was caught for a decades-long Ponzi scheme in which he defrauded his friends, fam
May 07, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: made-me-cry
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I was very interested to read this story about what it must have been like to live in the shadow of such a monumental event in our history. I was prepared to feel sympathetic towards the sons and their families. However, I found that as I was reading I was not very fond of Stephanie. She struck me as incredibly self-centered - only able to see the breakdown of this family for what it had done to her. The oversimplification of Ruth Madoff seemed silly - it appears irrational to have expected Ruth ...more
Nov 15, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: biographical
Yes, just like everyone else, I am sick of hearing any news about Barnard Madoff. His heartless Ponzi scheme destroyed many, many people and their families; his horrible swindle put many financial professionals' jobs at risk, including my husband's. People became so wary and dubious with almost any type of financial professionals. And we all quickly to judge that everyone in the family is in this for at least 3 decades, no doubt about it.

But Bernie Madoff's daughter-in-law, Stephanie Mack had b
Oct 29, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: biography
Wow! I can only imagine being the person who knows that their greed for money and power destroyed their family right down to the smallest grandchild. I feel so sorry for this family who was left to deal with the trickle down effects from this man's greed. It is too bad that his son could not get past the speculation that he was in on his father's lies and betrayal because he really did have so much to live for in his children. I think it takes a lot of courage for Stephanie to write about her tr ...more
Sherry Stacey
Dec 25, 2018 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Couldn't finish it. 'Stream of consciousness' is the best way to describe this writing. With too much information, (birth of the children--why does the reader need that?). Seriously, Mark Madoff just sounds like a wimp in his wife's eyes. And then there are sentences thrown in about what a great guy he was. Incredible amounts of anger, which I get. Bernard Madoff stole ALOT of money, and ruined so many lives while doing so. If one is looking for something that tells us how Bernard Madoff managed ...more
Jan 05, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I picked this book up twice before finally deciding to grab it. So glad I did! What an incredible book I read it cover to cover in about 8 hours. It is a beautiful love story with a tragic ending. It sickens me that the media has the ability to hold a persons integrity in question to the point it can smother someone and make them feel as if there is no other option. I went into this book thinking 'poor privileged people' with a hand caught in the cookie jar. I came out of it thinking how lucky I ...more
Dec 26, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This was an amazing book. Stephanie is a strong woman who has had to deal with a lot. I can't even begin to imagine the pain she has felt first from her father in law's deception of the financial world and then from her husband Mark's suicide. I want to think that they, Stephanie and Mark could have somehow worked it out and truely lived happily ever after and got rid of the demons that Bernie had envoked on them but I think that Mark took the easy way out. He was a coward and by committing suic ...more
Mar 01, 2012 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
The wiring certainly isn't going to win her any prizes, but I'm sure no one is reading this for its literary value. It was interesting... Clearly her husband was a tormented soul, probably even before the scandal broke. But every time I started to feel sorry for her, she would tell some story that erased the sympathy. You wandered the streets of NY with a shopping bag filled with containers of your husband's ashes... sad. But then you were running late for a conference at your daughter's school, ...more
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