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A Life of Contrasts

3.39  ·  Rating details ·  293 Ratings  ·  38 Reviews
At the outbreak of WWII, Diana Mosley, the Mitford sister who grew up with the Churchills, was imprisoned after her husband, the British Fascist Leader, Sir Oswald Mosley, was arrested under the orders of Winston Churchill. In this work, she tells in her own words what motivated her life & under what exceptional circumstances it took place, having known the two most po ...more
Paperback, 280 pages
Published April 6th 2003 by Gibson Square Books Ltd (first published 1977)
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Jul 03, 2012 rated it it was ok
Like many people I'm totally intrigued by the Mitfords, a wonderfully eccentric family. I have read and loved Hons and Rebels, other biographies of the family and a few of Nancy Mitford's novels. This however, was a disappointment. Knowing Diana's background I wanted to read this with a very open mind but I couldn't help disliking her. Even if you ignore her political leanings she comes across as spoilt, snobbish, deluded and obnoxious. That doesn't make the book bad though, what makes it bad is ...more
Elizabeth (Miss Eliza)
*Special Content only on my blog, Strange and Random Happenstance during Mitford March Mach Deux (March 2014)

Diana Mitford felt stifled in her life with her family. When she went to Paris she got a sense of the enormity of the world and how she was admired for her beauty and wit. As soon as she could she made a prosperous marriage to the heir of the Guinness fortune and started her life surrounded by artists and poets and writers to fill the void she felt in her life. Yet this wasn't her true ca
May 28, 2017 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition

Looking at the cover photograph, one is slightly puzzled, is this the face the author repeatedly claims was painted by quite so many of the supposedly top artists of the day? One could explain that with her being of the top echelons of the society (- she claims they were brought up poor, but they do seem to move from one large country home to another, have seasons in London and holidays in France and Italy, while her father went on buying house after house; her first husband was a Guinness, and
Dec 11, 2010 rated it it was ok
Shelves: non-fiction, found
hmmm. The Mitfords were a fascinating family. I've read both Nancy and Jessica's more or less fictionalised accounts of their childhood, so when I found this book, I thought it might be interesting to see what their infamously pro-Nazi sister had to say. She was both beautiful and intelligent, and it started out with the trademark Mitford sarcastic wit about upper-class life in pre-war Britain. But as Hugh Thomas said in his review it's quite disconcerting when "the characters in a witty narrati ...more
Jul 13, 2010 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I have a morbid fascination with Diana Mitford Mosley. She was one of the most hated women in Britain in her lifetime, not because she was an unrepentant Fascist, but that she could not admit that her cause was inherently in error. I suppose that is what got hold of me: she was a celebrated beauty who married into great wealth, and then when her children were very young, she left everything for Oswald Mosley, who started the Britain Union of Fascists (BUF). She was married in Germany at the home ...more
May 28, 2017 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition

If one is not repulsed when reading this book and through the chapters about fascist or nazi figures of the era, if one is not revolted to the very core and at an almost physical bordering nausea when reading the blinkered and entitled rich author's vituperation poured against those opposing the fascists, then one ought to examine one's own thinking, for one can safely bet one is a fascist.

Proliferation of evil is of course helped by active participation, voluntary subscription et al, but one o
Jan 06, 2010 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Having read Anne de Courcy's biography of Diana I really wanted to read about her life in her own words. It was an interesting read - she was a very witty writer and obviously had a fascinating life, but I found it difficult to read in parts as she was always totally unrepentant about her fascism. She admits that the she didn't agree with people being killed in concentration camps but glosses over it by saying that, of course, the Russians did far worse and even the British had concentration cam ...more
Mimi Pond
If you are as fascinated with the fabulous Mitford sisters as I am, this is a must-read. Unfortunately, what you must learn is Diana is an unrepentant fascist and anti-semite who rationalizes it all in the most absurd fashion. It does round out the canon of books on the way or another!
Megan Farr
Jun 17, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I find the Mitfords kinds of fascinating - Diana particularly (though Unity more, but she never wrote). This is interesting for her place at the sidelines of history and also for the astonishing lack of repentence. She clearly still believed not only Mosley was right but also Hitler.
Lynette Twaddle
An interesting if rather troubling read. Feel I now need to read a biography of her... A bit like Lawrence of Arabia.

Sep 13, 2008 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: mitford-reads
Well-written and unapologetic.
May 16, 2017 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
This book took me a life time to read. Having read 'The Mitford Sisters' years ago, a much bigger book, and read much faster, I was looking forward to this.

Interesting though somewhat odd. The friendship with Hitler was just bizarre. It was almost as though Diana just shrugged off his reign of terror as him merely having his own opinions on race and the rest rather than the fact that he was a racist bastard, and a mass murderer, and an absolute nut case. He liked music you know.

The most shocki
Catherine Yarwood
The book takes you through the entirety of Diana’s life - from pre-WW1 nursery room to living in Paris post- 9/11. I think the book was re-released with an extra chapter or two written in 2001/2002. She died shortly afterwards. She is brought up in the countryside with her 5 sisters and 1 brother. We see her go through an early marriage, which ends when she meets the love of her life Sir Oswald Mosely. She goes to pre-war Germany and has a social relationship with Hitler and other prominent Nazi ...more
Dec 05, 2016 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: life-stories
I'm not sure why but this book frustrated and annoyed me more than anything I have read - either in the press or as a book. I thought that it would be interesting to read, first hand, the story of one of the Mitford Sisters but this was quite ridiculous. Maybe part of it was due the massive changes over the last century between the 'haves and the have nots' and the fact that it was accepted that the upper classes were just that and better than those around them. This was the undertone to the who ...more
Erik Graff
Nov 22, 2010 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Mosley & Mitford fans
Recommended to Erik by: no one
Shelves: biography
I hadn't known that Diana Mitford had written an autobiography until I saw this volume at the Amarynth Bookstore in Evanston, Illinois. Being interested in the mentality of fascists and Nazis, I picked it up and read it immediately.

Mitford came from a background of wealth and aristocratic connections. Reaching out, as she did as a young woman, to Hitler and his circle was quite a stretch from her usual associations, a stretch not very well accounted for in this book except in that Hitler was ver
May 08, 2015 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Things in life are all about perspective. Before reading this, I had no idea who Diana Mitford was and frankly after reading this I'm still not sure if I do. I know who she is in the historical sense, but as a person not so much. I don't know if she really figured out who she was beyond her traditional female roles...mother & wife. I've read other reviews of this book & most are negative in that she didn't show any remorse for her actions. And I can see how easy it is for individuals to ...more
Apr 02, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Fascinating stuff. The last Mitford book of any significance left for me, & reveals Diana to be perhaps the most interesting - but far from the most likeable (I think Debo gets that nod) - of the sisters. Too many unfamiliar names, & the French & German needed translations (certainly the German for me), & she really is completely unrepentant. World Jewry should have sorted the Jews out, what were the Germans supposed to do?! Hitler was simply charming! I listened to her Desert Is ...more
Mar 09, 2015 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I like so many find the Mitford sisters diverse and fascinating so when I saw this book in a secondhand shop I couldn't pass it up. Diana was considered to by many at the time to be the most attractive and desirable of her sisters in their social set. I agree with other readers that there is "none so blind as do not want to see" element in the book by her selective omission of information and denial about a dreadful and very dark period in history. Amazing that she gave up a life of wealth havin ...more
Nov 29, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I have mixed feelings about this one, although I thoroughly enjoyed it.
First of all, I totally underestimated how shocking it would be to read the memoirs of an almost completely unapologetic nazi, although that makes it that much more interesting.
The problem I see is that this book completely lacks the self-reflection that makes an autobiography good. The style is very matter of fact, pretty much a description of events without pause. However, Diana's life was so fascinating that it alone makes
Diana was the Mitford sister who married a British Fascist and was imprisoned during WWII so it was interesting, and sometimes eye-opening, to read her take on her life and the history of the last century. She had a unique vantage point because she was related to Churchill and knew Hitler--and a late chapter in the book describs the many ways she believed they were alike. Reading her sister Nancy's books I was happily infected with her determined love of life. Though there are enjoyable parts of ...more
Jun 25, 2014 rated it it was amazing
I think Diana was Nancy's equal as far as delightful prose goes. She presents fair and respectful portraits of her friends and acquaintances over the years, including some of the most publically reviled personalities of the twentieth century.

I think she does essays better than whole books, though. See also: The Pursuit of Laughter, for some of her collected essays and reviews.

A must-read for those interested in the Mitfords, Hitler, Oswald Mosley, the Second World War and the British aristocrac
Dec 04, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
often portrayed as an aristocratic nobody by those who do not always read with open minds,this very brief tour through her life is thought provoking and very much an emotional journey.
Diana was cursed or blessed with a face that was beautiful as it was serene............Mosely her second husband loved her for her completeness and her strength when the chips were down.She never wavers from her beliefs and talks of the Hitler that few knew .......I enjoyed this book very much and feel it is worth
Gwyn Bailey
Jul 14, 2009 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I thought I had already reviewed this book so sorry if this is a duplicate. It is the last in a series about of books about the Mitford sisters that I have read this summer and it is definitely the worst. It should show as being authored by Diana Mosley as Diana Mitford married first Bryan Guiness and then Sir Oswald Moseley. It was written in 1977 and deals with her life up until that point but skates over her relationships with Hitler and various controversial political associations in a very ...more
Sep 01, 2008 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Fascinating family, the Mitfords - so many strong and varied personalities. Diana was personally acquainted with Hitler and I was always curious to hear her side of that, since anything else I'd read about them concentrated on her sister Unity's close friendship with Hitler. As I read her story, I was getting the real version of events and people that her sister Nancy immortalized in her books "The Pursuit of Love" and "Love in a Cold Climate".
I took ages to read this as the author annoyed me so much. Constantly harping on about how poor her family were, what a nice man Hitler was, and how terrible it was that saving the life of a servant during a house fire cost her some paintings. I really did try, but by two-thirds through was skimming and talking back to her. Could be interesting to some as a study of the idiocy of the upper classes, but I felt I'd waster my time.
Chris Passingham
Jul 23, 2016 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Not only not "hilarious" as it was billed as but the author was a totally unrepentant fascist it made for a rather distressing read especially when she attempted to pardon the unpardonable i.e. Hitler, Moseley, Mussolini, Nazism, fascism etc. If you like a name dropping fest by a Nazi apologist, this is the book for you.
Oh and how much of this book was devoted to Jessica? I think probably one page at the most. I suppose after her espousal of communism she became a non-person
Dec 03, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I'm fascinated by the Mitford sisters - children of a minor British peer, they all led remarkable exciting lives rubbing shoulders with royalty, the fashionable and wealthy, and politicians of very different stripes. But most importantly to me, educated at home by governesses, several of them became talented writers. I would love to know how this happened!
Geoffrey Rose
An interesting read for anyone interested in the Mitfords but her unrepentant fascism and her mendacious read of history - a world in which the 1945 Atlee government is seemingly characterized as more oppressive than Hitler's Germany - make this a difficult and at times infuriating read.
Oct 02, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Words fail me. I am really not aware of half of what she says, what with all the unexplained name-dropping and the shallowness and the unbelievable lack of self-criticism, but what a book. I'm shocked, and amazed, and glad it's over. So, life includes such lives. Who knew.
Luba Ruzhnikov
Jul 11, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Women from different planet

Remarkable interpretations of england during her time. All her observation is from d

Very interesting interpretation of her time from different angles.

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