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All That Is Bitter and Sweet: A Memoir

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In 2002, award-winning film and stage actor Ashley Judd found her true calling: as a humanitarian and voice for those suffering in neglected parts of the world. After her first trip to the notorious brothels, slums, and hospices of southeast Asia, Ashley knew immediately that she wanted to advocate on behalf of the vulnerable. During her travels,
Paperback, 432 pages
Published February 21st 2012 by Ballantine Books (first published January 1st 2011)
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Connie Faull
I'm not sure how I feel about Ashley Judd after reading this memoir. I liked her before I read it and now, I'm not sure. Although I admire and give her credit for her work with PSI and other NGOs in raising awareness of gender inequality & HIV/AIDS around the world, she did reinforce my dislike of celebrities & causes. I somehow feel that they think we're all stupid and it's up to them to enlighten us on the ills of the world. Why someone like Bono or Ashley Judd should be able to secure ...more
This book is not a page turner. It is at points very hard to read because of the sheer hopelessness Ashley encounters in her work with those struggling in third-world countries. Her book opened my eyes to the many, many women who are forced into prostitution and sex slavery. However, I would highly recommend reading it because after processing what I read I realized there is hope and Ashley is just one of the very curageous and brave people who are doing the work to make change. Also, if you com ...more
Apr 13, 2011 Caroline rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
You would never know this poised, beautiful and confident person was suffering nearly all the years we have seen her perform. This book is about her suffering and her from clinical depression (for which she was treated for in a 42 day clinic) and her generous spirit to people in dire need. I think her ability to give so much fills the void or attemps to, from her chaotic experience of growing up in the shadow of her mom and sister (The Judds.)

She managed to flip her fate around through her heal
May 09, 2011 Renee rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Ashley Judd’s memoir is actually two books in one; a memoir of her highly dysfunctional childhood growing up as a Judd (but not at all part of her mother and sister’s singer duo), and walking away from her TV and acting career to travel the world as an ambassador for PSI and NGO. Personally, I was much more interested in the latter than the former.
I read a couple of reviews that say this book has a lot of clichés and is (over) emotional however, Judd longs to bring a voice to the voiceless and s
Yes, I am reading Ashley Judd's memoir. Whatever you may think of her acting(I happen to like her), she has devoted most of her adult life to aiding the poor and disenfranchised and using her celebrity status to bring awareness to topics like AIDS, African poverty, sex trade, etc. It's a sad state of affairs when a "celebrity" like Charlie Sheen gets more press for his behavior than a celebrity like Ashley Judd gets for hers.
Ugh. I went into this liking Ashley Judd a lot - I came out much less enthused. At one point in her book, Judd tells Bobby Shriver that her vocation is to make her life an act of worship - I'm sorry to say that she has succeeded in worshiping herself. I have never read a biography that was more full of self-love than this one. She is the supreme example of a person who pursues a life of "doing good" in order to be thought a saint.

Walk away very fast.
Apr 07, 2011 Julie rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I really wanted to like Ashley Judd. I like some of her movies and I have always thought she was so pretty. She does a lot of good work for some very worthy causes. But I don't like her, in fact I'm totally turned off by her. She seems to be one of those people that thinks her opinions are right, always, and everyone who does not agree is just ignorant. Everybody else has messed up priorities, come on people don't we all know there is severe suffering out there! I am seriously put off by her and ...more
Apr 20, 2011 Tina rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Couldn't even make myself finish this book! Went into it all admiring Ashley Judd for both her talent and her philanthropic work and found myself wanting to throw the book against the wall more than a couple of times until I finally gave up completely. I found her to be pretentious and totally self-absorbed. She really seems to like to play the role of the victim as well. Most of what I read had a real poor me tone to it. Very few of us have perfect childhoods, but unless she left a bunch out, h ...more
Jun 02, 2011 Lisa rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I probably shouldn't mark this read considering I couldn't finish it. It jumped all over the place, especially in regard to the start of her career, and primarily spoke about her charity work. While her work is admirable, it gets boring reading about how she cuddled this group of people and snuggled that group of people, on and on. I found the tone a bit superior too.
Apr 07, 2011 Denise rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This exquisite mixture of a deeply personal journey and a world-sized caring for the needs of women and children living in poverty, often drowning in disease, slavery and genocide. This book is a must read. While far too many actors waste their celebrity and their treasure, Ashley Judd has flung her gifts out to the world like a raft in an unspeakable storm.
Eh, this book is okay. Sadly, I think I liked Ashley Judd more before I read the book than now after finishing it. By this I mean that I always thought she was an intelligent, passionate, strong woman (from my sorta home state of Kentucky, no less!). After reading this book I still think she is all those things but now I also think she's a bit of a hot mess, way too histrionic, overly sensitive, and still dealing with her pain. Then again, if I had her childhood, I'd probably be a hot mess too, ...more
Jun 07, 2011 Terry rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir
This book is about 1/3 Ashley Judd's personal memoir and about 2/3rds a non-fiction book about third world countries and their struggles with population control, sexual and physical abuse of women, and sexually-related commerce and its dangers.

So if you're looking for a juicy, gossipy memoir, THIS IS NOT IT.

However, if you are genuinely interested in Judd's work around the world, there is a LOT of information about what she experiences and what various NGOs do, with heavy end-notes directing r
Jul 28, 2012 Bex rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-2012
I rarely read memoirs, let alone ones written by current celebrities but Ashley Judd has led a fairly fascinating life.

Of course she's an actress that comes from a famous (and famously dysfunctional) family but she has also spent a great many years as a feminist activist, quietly traveling the world with NGOs and coming face to face with the poorest, most exploited people on the planet.

And this memoir balances those two lives, providing insight on the tumultuous personal life that formed her d
I am a fan of Ashley Judd as an actress and of her mother and sister's music career, so I was intrigued to read the memoir of Ashley Judd. It wasn't really what I expected at all. There is a lot more heartache and pain, more strength and giving, more prayer and grace in this woman than I had previously believed.

Judd's volunteer work with a group that helps underprivileged women and children all over the world takes up a big portion of this book, as it ought to. It has really defined much of the
Intellectualized and skim-worthy.
Apr 05, 2011 Darcie marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
I want to start a new book group dedicated to the celebrity bio. Who's in?
All That Is Bitter and Sweet is several stories in one: the story of Judd's commitment to social justice work among global, at-risk populations for HIV, malaria, TB, and infant mortality; the unpacking of the story of her childhood, the details of which fuel so much of her work; and the story of her continuing recovery from abuse, co-dependency, and depression.

There's a discomfiting truth at the heart of the book, of which Judd is articulately aware - that a white, American movie star has better
Dec 01, 2012 Odette rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Powerful memoir about a woman walking a wounded healer path. It shows the intersection of recovering from private trauma and addressing international human rights abuses, in this case sexual trafficking, slavery, and health issues.

The way Ms. Judd connects her own depression and wounds to those of the women and children she aims to help has an equalizing effect. She doesn't try to equate her life of great privilege with their lives of huge deprivation and abuse, but she steps out of the role of
This book is actually two books in one. I don't mean for that to sound as complimentary as it comes across, by the way. When i say that this is two books in one I mean that this is one book that tells a good story and one book that should have remained in Ashley Judd's head, or at least in her therapist's head.

I could not figure out what this book was supposed to be. It's kind of like "My mom is a famous superstar but as a mom she is awful. I like kittens. My entire family is dysfunctional. I li
Jul 26, 2011 Elizabeth rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
The book is perfectly balanced. Alternating between stories of Ashley Judd's difficult work as a world ambassador and her childhood and rehab experiences, it was amazing how the two stories could be told hand in hand. Seeing the similarity of her sisters around the world is Ms. Judd's greatest gift. Holding them with compassion and sharing their stories is the best work she's ever done.

This was a difficult book to get through. Not because of the way it was written, but because it
covers such dif
Apr 07, 2011 Samineh rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Ashley Judd has an incredible vocabulary so it came as no suprise that her book was well written. I felt her memoir was primarily about her activism and really shed light on the circumstances of women/children in poor countries, but it also included intimate details about her life. I really enjoyed reading it and honestly had some trouble sleeping after reading about some of her encounters. I completely empathized and found myself processing the information and pain right along with her (to me a ...more
Apr 07, 2011 Heidi rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I'm really enjoying this book. Don't judge me. I appreciate what she says about the roots of her depression being found in childhood - I can so relate to that - and how acting became a natural way to live other, more satisfying lives, if only for a time. What this book is really about, though, is her work with a nonprofit that seeks to educate women in the global South about HIV/AIDS prevention.

“All That Is Bitter and Sweet,” is, at its heart, the story of Ashley Judd’s awakening. In sharing the secrets of a childhood fraught with neglect, abuse and debilitating depression, she confronts the stigma of mental illness and celebrates the serenity that comes with the hard work of recovery. The reward is a new role on a new stage -- global advocate for HIV/AIDS sufferers. The humanitarian pursuit of social justice and gender equality is gritty work, but the people she meets in the s

For some reason, I've always felt a kinship of sorts to Ashley Judd. I'm not really sure that I can explain it but when I'd hear her interviewed, she always reminded me a bit of myself. I've always wondered what it must like to be the daughter of Naomi Judd and the sister of Wynonna! When I heard that Ashley was coming out with a memoir, I was very intrigued to get her perspective on her life and all of the work I had heard she was doing all over the world.

Overall, her memoir tells two stories -
Apr 16, 2011 Laura rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: People who wish to learn more about modern slavery
Shelves: memoir
This memoir was very enlightening, both regarding Ashley's journey to self-discovery and healing and her journeys into the poorest countries in the world. I knew sex slavery was rampant, but I had no idea how horrific conditions for people all over the world are. There are so many things we Americans take for granted, such as being able to sleep in a bed or use a toilet, that we have difficulty imagining the circumstances plaguing people all over the world.

Ashley Judd does an excellent job of pr
Quite a few people are commenting on this book not being a celebrity tell-all type of memoir. I would argue that it is, but this celebrity is someone who is educated, self-reflective, and concerned about others. Ashley Judd is a talented actor and sibling to Wynonna Judd and daughter to Naomi Judd, and is married to race car driver Dario Franchitti.
However, the bulk of this memoir is focused on two elements: Ashley's work as a global ambassador for PSI's YouthAIDS program, and her recovery from
As surprised as I was to find myself reading Ashley Judd's memoir (it was immediately available at my digital library site), I was equally stunned to find myself enjoying it.

Though I've never really been a fan or her acting work, I vaguely was aware that she was an advocate for social justice, specifically women in poverty. People who spend their time resources helping those in adverse circumstances always have my respect. But, Ashley is deeply engaged in the work she does around the world to ad
Apr 27, 2011 Victoria rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: books-i-ve-read
This was definitely a hard book to get through. Ashley Judd jumps around at times from her current life of advocacy in speaking up for AIDS/HIV victims, those who suffer from hunger and poverty, those who are victims of human trafficking, and then backtracks through her own struggles and upbringing. I will honestly say these should be two separate books or it should just be shortened.

I have no disrespect for Ashley Judd, and believe it or not her story actually made me relate to her more than I
I've always though Ashley was a beautiful, talented woman who lived in the shadow of her famous mom and sister. I was interested in finding out more about "her life" and as I read, I felt sad for her because of neglect by those who should have loved and provided for her. She was left to fend for herself a good portion of her childhood which left her suffering from depression and low-self esteem.

As she grew into a young woman, her acting career blossomed but she was also drawn to a need to reach
Kat Asharya
This is one of those random reads that I pick up at the library when I'm wandering around and I want something different from my usual steez, as they say. I am neutral on Judd as an actress herself; liked some of her films, not others, so I've never really had a strong opinion on her as a celebrity in either way, so I approached the book with a sense of openmindedness and curiosity. As many people mentioned, it's rather like two books in one: a memoir of a childhood full of neglect and how it re ...more
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Ashley Tyler Judd, nee Ciminella, is an at least 8th generation Eastern Kentuckian. She currently resides on a farm in rural middle Tennessee and maintains close kinship and cultural ties with Appalachia.

A celebrated and acclaimed actor, she has starred in 20 films, both box office hits and independent treasures, and on Broadway. Titles include, Ruby in Paradise, her debut, which won the Sundance
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