In Quest of the Mythical Mate presents a valuable and fertile developmental model for diagnosing and treating couples that is flexible enough to incorporate a wide variety of intervention strategies, yet purposeful enough to give a clear sense of direction to couples in distress. As such, this volume provides a powerful therapeutic approach for all professionals who treat couples.
I really enjoyed this book! I’m highly interested in psychology, couples, and people so because of that this book gave me everything I wanted. Also, I loved the way Ellyn and Peter spoke about their clients; they showed nothing but empathy, grace, and curiosity.
It's an interesting look at developmental stages of couples and how to help them become more developmentally mature to make it as a couple. I liked the examples they used and the assessment tools that they share.
I like this approach and how they classified couples as having conflicts because of different developmental stages. Will probably use it in the future if I work with couples.