What do you think?


How to Be Cool in the Third Grade
It's not easy to seem cool when the whole class knows you wear superhero underwear and your mom still kisses you goodbye at the bus stop. But Robbie York has a plan. 1) Get rid of the name Robbie. 2) Get jeans. 3)Avoid bullies like Bo Haney. If only it were that simple!
80 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1993
About the author
Betsy Duffey
62 books127 followersBetsy Duffey grew up with a love of reading and writing. Her earliest experience in writing came from reading manuscripts by her mother author and Newbery winner, Betsy Byars. She began writing in 1990 and has published over twenty children’s books, including a number of popular series. Her books have been Junior Library Guild selections, Crown Award nominees, and have been nominated for state awards in over twenty states.
Her latest books are devotional books for adults. She began writing short meditations for friends who were challenged in different ways. More Peace started for a friend undergoing chemotherapy. More Hope for a young friend dealing with infertility. The series continues to grow.
Betsy splits her time between Atlanta and the Georgia mountains. When she is not writing you can probably find her outside hiking in the woods or on the porch in a rocking chair with a good book.
Her latest books are devotional books for adults. She began writing short meditations for friends who were challenged in different ways. More Peace started for a friend undergoing chemotherapy. More Hope for a young friend dealing with infertility. The series continues to grow.
Betsy splits her time between Atlanta and the Georgia mountains. When she is not writing you can probably find her outside hiking in the woods or on the porch in a rocking chair with a good book.
Ratings & Reviews
Friends & Following
Create a free account to discover what your friends think of this book!
Community Reviews
Displaying 1 - 30 of 73 reviews
October 16, 2015
I read this with my third graders. They loved it and didn't want me to stop. It's a cute story that teaches children that being "cool" goes deeper than tangible things and names, but getting to know someone and building trust.
November 22, 2012
I read this book to my third graders last year. They LOVED it :-)
August 14, 2019
Read this with my 3rd grader. We both really liked it, her probably a little more than me.
April 16, 2021
Going to try this one at school!
March 24, 2022
A little dated, but the students were really into it
Read
September 25, 2022Read to me by my own third grader.
:)
:)
November 28, 2023
Read this to my 3rd graders this year and they think I’m cool so it must’ve worked.
October 11, 2011
I don't remember why, ( I read this when I was eight, three years ago)but I hated this book. Probably because it followed the stereotypical "kid-tries-to-be-cool-and-he-then-gets-sad-so-he-stops-being-cool-for-friendship-or-whatever" plot.
I hate that plot.
I hate that plot.
January 13, 2013
This book is about a third grader who wants to be cool (obviously) he seems to be tired of being treated like a child even though he is but everyone wants to grow up so he is on a journey to get rid of all the baby stuff and finally be cool
August 18, 2015
Good Book
This was required reading for my third grader. In his words, ,"it was a good book". Good enough for me.
This was required reading for my third grader. In his words, ,"it was a good book". Good enough for me.
August 21, 2016
Matthew: I really liked this book! By the way, I am going to 3rd grade this year. I borrowed this from the library. You should try to be cool in 3rd Grade!!!
November 20, 2021
I read this with my third graders and it allowed room for safe discussion on bullying. The students have referred to Robbie and Bo Haney throughout the year as encouragement to each other on how they should act.
The students were engaged and wanted to keep reading. I work with ESL students and there are some things I had to explain because of how long ago the book was written and they were unfamiliar with certain things.
The chapters are short and perfect for a quick read each day.
The students were engaged and wanted to keep reading. I work with ESL students and there are some things I had to explain because of how long ago the book was written and they were unfamiliar with certain things.
The chapters are short and perfect for a quick read each day.
August 5, 2017
I didn't love it but I can see how it's useful. Definitely dated - the mom loads film in her camera, muppet babies are referenced, and the mom is buying all his school supplies at a department store. The kids might not notice some of the dates references. Thinking about it as a readaloud but not sure now.
September 5, 2017
I pre-read this for my incoming 2nd grader. I felt like this little dude was super shallow, and I really wanted to have a chat with him. Then again... he was clearly really stressed out. My decision was this book might give my child anxiety and a complex so I'm not letting him read it until he's well established in school.
December 4, 2017
I remember reading this when I was younger - maybe third grade? So when I saw it at my school library, I had to bring it home for the weekend and read it again. It wasn’t as good as I remembered, but kids’ books have come a long way since then. It was still an enjoyable, quick read, and I could see some of my students liking it.
March 27, 2025
Silly story of a little boy who wants to be cool in the third grade. Robbie has a plan on how to be cool, he has created a plan. The intended audience for this book is young boys who want to be cool or trying to fit in and make friends in school. The theme of this book is friends, and empathy. The reason why i chose this book is because the title of this book caught my attention.
September 8, 2021
Seems a little old fashioned, but the 3rd grade class I had today seemed entranced with it. They were all able to answer the questions and sat still and quiet during the reading. Since it's difficult to keep kids' attention today I'd say it's a keeper.
October 21, 2021
Smart, witty and fun
This little book packs a punch in teaching children about being kind, even to bullies. The author makes the characters feel very real and our main character is extremely funny.
This little book packs a punch in teaching children about being kind, even to bullies. The author makes the characters feel very real and our main character is extremely funny.
October 1, 2017
My third graders loved it.
December 3, 2017
I love how this book shows kids that there is more than being cool in the way they think.
September 2, 2018
Third grade
October 19, 2018
Did not make me cool never would read again.
September 13, 2019
Such a cute book to read with students at the beginning of third grade!!!
Read
November 5, 2020the thing is im in 3d and this is no help plus i been cOoL
Read
July 11, 2021This will be great to read at the beginning of the year. It’s short enough that it could be read aloud in one or two days!
October 13, 2022
I thought this would be a fun read aloud for my new third grader. It was! We had some good discussions about school friends and what it meant to be truly "cool" - being kind to others.
Read
October 29, 2022Idk I haven't read it yet
February 23, 2024
Read this earlier this year with my 3rd grade book club. They thought it was great!
November 18, 2024
Such a cute book to share with third graders! It kept them engaged and was funny. Loved the lesson it taught too!
July 15, 2025
I needed to know, guys, lowkey 10-year-old me ate this up.
Displaying 1 - 30 of 73 reviews

























