Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read.
Start by marking “Learning to Breathe: My Yearlong Quest to Bring Calm to My Life” as Want to Read:
Learning to Breathe: My Yearlong Quest to Bring Calm to My Life
Enlarge cover
Rate this book
Clear rating
Open Preview

Learning to Breathe: My Yearlong Quest to Bring Calm to My Life

3.79  ·  Rating details ·  747 ratings  ·  123 reviews
Priscilla Warner has had a great life: a supportive husband, a flourishing marriage, two loving sons, and a bestselling book, The Faith Club. Despite all her good fortune and success, she suffers from anxiety and panic attacks so debilitating that they leave her unable to breathe. She’s tried self-medicating—in high school, with a hidden flask of vodka—and later, with pres ...more
Hardcover, 288 pages
Published September 20th 2011 by Atria Books
More Details... Edit Details

Friend Reviews

To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up.

Reader Q&A

To ask other readers questions about Learning to Breathe, please sign up.

Be the first to ask a question about Learning to Breathe

Community Reviews

Showing 1-30
Average rating 3.79  · 
Rating details
 ·  747 ratings  ·  123 reviews

More filters
Sort order
Start your review of Learning to Breathe: My Yearlong Quest to Bring Calm to My Life
Read It Forward
Sep 20, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: memoir-biography
Imagine: The Glass Castle meets Eat, Pray, Love. Priscilla Warner writes about her journey in a way that's accessible to anyone who wants to find more peace in their lives.

Her story is heartbreaking in places, comical in others. She lived with panic attacks her entire life until one day (after a particularly bad, eye-opening episode) she decides she has to face her anxiety head-on. I love her curiosity - she's willing to try anything! Some of the techniques she tries I'm familiar with (meditati
Feb 21, 2012 rated it liked it
I really wanted to love this based on reviews I'd read, but I didn't. What I liked most about it was exposure to some things I was unfamiliar with, such as some of the Jewish rituals the author details. What I disliked was the "poor me, I had a traumatic childhood and bad parents" attitude the author has.

I found the author to be honest but self indulgent. She doesn't realize what a fortunate life she's had and how her "traumatic childhood" is a joke in comparison to most people's childhoods. Hon
Aug 25, 2013 rated it it was amazing
My dear friend, Sanna, bought this book for me a few years ago. It sat on my night table underneath a photo of my son. I think it was the death of my mother that made me pick it up recently. It took my a couple of months to read it. I varied between following with my heart and mind on Priscilla's quest and being totally annoyed at her jumping all over picking at this practice and that. I think my annoyance was based on how similar that is to me in my spiritual practice. But in the end, it was a ...more
Sep 23, 2011 rated it it was amazing
I thouroghly enjoyed this book. I am somewhat jealous of Priscilla's yearlong journey - I wish I had the time and means to meet all those amazing people myself :) Second best, though, is being able to read her book about it. Thankyou Priscilla, for writing it. I loved it and I took many tidbits away to carry with me. Now to find myself a guide on lovingkindness meditation. Suggestions appreciated!! :-)

9/23/11---Saw Priscilla on the Today show this morning, and was captivated by her idea for a bo
Sep 26, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Like Priscilla's first book, this book also made me think. I found the book to be well-written, interesting, funny in parts, sad in parts and open and real. Priscilla shares her story of her yearlong quest to find tranquility and a cure to the panic attacks that she has suffered from all of her life. She shares her experiences with meditation, yoga, different therapies, massage, Buddhist teachings,and getting to see the Dali Lama. I find it encouraging that she was able to use these various tech ...more
Rachel Kramer Bussel
Nov 29, 2011 rated it it was amazing
I started reading this book because I've struggled with panic and wanted to learn more about Warner's quest. What I found was about so much more than panic attacks and meditation, though it certainly covered that as well. Warner is dealing with her mother's Alzheimer's, as well as trying to unpack many childhood memories and hurts. In the process of seeking wisdom, she visits everyone from Tara Brach to Pema Chödrön to Sharon Salzberg to the Dalai Lama. She goes on retreats and looks closer to h ...more
Mar 01, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoirs
At the end of a book tour, successful author Priscilla Warner decides to spend a year addressing her recurring panic attacks, seeking therapies that will re-tool her brain to be more like the brain of a Buddhist monk. She starts meditating, seeks out teachers and therapists, and tries healing methods such as Ayurvedic massage. She also has her brain scanned, both at the beginning of her quest and after a year of work, to get scientific feedback on how things are going.
Although our lives have bee
Jude (NYJudester) Fricano
Mar 21, 2013 rated it it was amazing
Have now read this book for the second time. First time it jumped off the shelf at me at the library. Fall of 2011. Savored each page and didn't want to let it go. Then I won a signed copy from the author on Pinterest and read my own copy again just now. I feel calmer after I read this book - now it will be a necessary re-read for me. Once a year seems like a good goal.

Priscilla takes you on a journey from frenzy to calm, showing her adventures seeking peace and ultimate comfort with herself. S
My favorite book of the just dawned new year, and this is a keeper. In Priscilla Warner's journey from panic to peace there are so many gems to explore, from lovingkindness phrases to Trager work, Ayurveda and EMDR. Her honesty is refreshing, her generosity astounding, her experience inspiring. Highly recommended! ...more
Aug 02, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I thoroughly enjoyed reading about Priscilla's yearlong journey. Having experienced panic attacks and growing up in a dysfunctional family myself I was impressed with her positive attitude and healthy relationships with her husband and children. Although I hardly accepted all of her "truths", there are many life-lessons in this well-written book. A good read for those curious about meditation. ...more
Mar 19, 2012 rated it really liked it
If you're intrigued by the idea of meditation as a potentially useful tool, yet you're skeptical, or afraid to dive right in, this book is a great place to start. The writing is crisp and wonderful, and her journey is surely worth the time. ...more
High Plains Library District
I wanted to like this book, really I did. And there were parts that were interesting - it was fascinating to see the many different methods she tried to get rid of her panic attacks, and there was beauty in her attempts to understand her relationship with her parents. But I couldn’t get over the sense of privilege inherent in the fact that almost everything she tried cost money, sometimes quite a bit of money.

Initially, the book seemed fairly light-hearted. The author decides that she wants to j
Marjorie Elwood
May 25, 2020 rated it it was ok
Shelves: memoir
I wanted to like this book, really I did. And there were parts that were interesting - it was fascinating to see the many different methods she tried to get rid of her panic attacks, and there was beauty in her attempts to understand her relationship with her parents. But I couldn’t get over the sense of privilege inherent in the fact that almost everything she tried cost money, sometimes quite a bit of money.

Initially, the book seemed fairly light-hearted. The author decides that she wants to j
Paul Lyons
Priscilla Warner had everything a woman could ask for. She had a successful career for many years. She had a loving, long-lasting marriage, along with two healthy children. She had friends, money, and lots of love in and around her. So why was she still having the panic attacks that have haunted her since she was a teenager? If only Priscilla could achieve the joy, peace, and tranquility of a Tibetan monk, her life would be so much better. Such is the question, and the journey of Priscilla Warne ...more
Mar 24, 2015 rated it did not like it
it's "Eat, Pray, Love" with more meditation. While not experiencing the same panic attacks the author does, I've felt more and more stress in my life and decided to explore meditation more as a way of coping and learning how to not stress out so much. So when this book popped up for me, it sounded like an intriguing project.
Priscilla Warner is an empty nester who has suffered panic attacks for just about all of her adult life. Burdened with parents who weren't extremely nurturing or loving, the
Nov 02, 2011 rated it liked it
Recommended to Pam by: The author
I really liked parts of the book, some made me laugh others nearly cry. It did keep me reading, even if I felt it was disjointed at times. Then I thought aren't all of our lives and thoughts disjointed at times. I know mine are often. I felt like I got to get to know the author more, which was nice. I met her in the book THE FAITH CLUB. Over all, I don't think too many of us could go on year long search to do this, financially. But it did encourage me to seek out some books on Buddhism and medi ...more
Tess Jones
In Learning to Breathe, Priscilla Warner goes on a year-long journey to heal herself from lifelong panic attacks. She leaves no stone unturned as she attends meditation workshops, meets with advisors, tries massage techniques, learns about Jewish mysticism, and even goes to hear the Dalai Lamai speak. She submerges herself in the process of self-exploration and healing, and through the sweet and tender bearing of her gentle soul we bear witness her experiences. Her perseverance and openness to n ...more
Heather Fineisen
Apr 30, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shelves: spirituality
"I'd become just another unhappy person on the planet...leading a life of quiet desperation."

Priscilla Warner and her yearlong quest to bring calm to her life is handbook of heavy hitters in the "peace" genre. Warner wishes to find her "inner monk" and consults Sylvia Boorstein, Pema Chodrom, the Dalai Lama, and Sharon Salzberg among others to learn how to quell her anxiety. This is a great reference for exploring different techniques for anyone interested in meditation or various types of thera
Sarah Bringhurst Familia
May 29, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shelves: natural-healing
The past few years have been a little difficult on me. Things are getting better, but I have some residual anxiety that surfaces every so often. Like Priscilla Warner, I've been trying "to bring calm to my life." The personal narrative format of this book really worked for me. I loved accompanying Warner as she met with people from different faith/spirituality traditions, learned their ways of finding peace, and incorporated them into her own journey of the soul.

She includes quite a few beautif
Katie Hilton
May 15, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: first-reads
*******THIS WAS A FIRSTREADS GIVEAWAY FROM GOODREADS***************************

I loved, loved, loved this book. Though Priscilla started her 'calm quest' due to her battle with panic attacks, I think this book is applicable to anyone who experiences stress and struggle--um hello, all humans!

I don't believe I have any unique insights to offer in my review that others haven't already contributed, but I am happy to give my sincere seal of approval and I would highly recommend this book.

Thank you P
Dec 08, 2013 rated it it was amazing
I am so grateful for Priscilla's book, Learning to Breathe. I learned so much about my own journey of battling anxiety, even though it is mostly in my past, by reading her account of the year she dedicated to finding peace for her brain. There are forms of meditation I had no idea existed, which Priscilla details in her book and I'm enjoying exploring them myself because I see how much calmness they brought to her life. This book is such a gift and I recommend it to everyone because we can all b ...more
Sep 28, 2011 rated it it was amazing
I cannot speak highly enough of this book. Priscilla's writing is accessible, elegant and exquisitely honest. In this book she writes of her year-long journey to bring calm to her life. She narrates her quest from the point of view of living it, but also as wise observer. This is a great gift to the reader because she offers a valuable opportunity for everyone to truly learn from her experience. If you've struggled with anxiety or depression, or simply feel lost in your life, this book will insp ...more
Nov 26, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: 2011
It's been a long time since I've read a book that I was so captivated by. Every chapter took me deeper into Priscilla's journey for truth, peace and healing and I was most intrigued by the choices she made along the way to move from panic to peace. I feel very lucky to have stumbled on this book at my library and know that I'll be thinking of Priscilla for a long time. Reading her story touched a nerve and I'm eager to try some of the techniques she tried in hopes for some similar success. ...more
Louise Mathewson
Apr 02, 2012 rated it it was amazing
WOW!! Excellent book - the story of her journey to heal panic attacks that she had had for near 40 years! The author really wanted healing, was willing to face her demons, her history, her thoughts and feelings and in doing so she found relief from terrible attacks of panic. I really admire Priscilla for her strength, courage, determination and persistence to find healing and peace and then to tell her story! I learned things for my own journey as well.
Sep 08, 2011 rated it really liked it
Shelves: yoga, meditation, anxiety
4 1/2 stars. I really enjoyed joining Priscilla on her quest. I learned a lot about various therapies and meditaion methods and a bit about myself. Obviously, not everyone can spend the time or money to experience all these different systems and wonder people, but in a way I felt that I was right there with her. I think I have a better handle on my own anxiety issues after reading this book.
Jan 09, 2012 rated it liked it
a refresher with all the biggies: pema chodron, sharon salzberg, sylvia boorstein, jack kornfeld, even the dalai lama re-enforcing the need to find calm in our lives with meditation practice. the background of childhood trauma the author faced was most interesting and makes you think about even the smallest incidents in one's life that triggers emotion for years after. ...more
Angela Joyce
Feb 05, 2012 rated it it was amazing
What a delightful book. I like how Ms. Warner avoids the "poor me" mentality, making it clear that everyone suffers in this life in different ways. Her sense of humor is excellent-- the "channelling Joe Cocker" thing gave me a good laugh. I liked learning about just how much help is out there for those who need it, and I like the humility and love she put into writing this book. ...more
Mar 09, 2012 rated it really liked it
Because I also have suffered from anxiety and panic attacks for years, I was extremely interested to see if the author would find a way to "cure " her over active mind and adrenal glands. She's a terrific writer, and her experiences and journey gave me hope. But I wonder if those of us without her connections and resources can find similar peace?

I'm willing to give it a shot!
Jan 30, 2012 rated it it was amazing
I just could related to her quest and where she came from. I so appreciated her insight and the things she learned along the way. It also shows that no matter what you believe, especially faith wise, we are all the same.
Kristy McCaffrey
Jul 20, 2012 rated it it was amazing
The author documents her efforts to overcome years of debilitating panic attacks. Her story is very inspiring and hopeful to people with anxiety/panic issues.
« previous 1 3 4 next »
topics  posts  views  last activity   
Yoga Folks: Learning to Breathe-Chapters 1 to 10 53 126 Sep 18, 2013 11:15AM  
Yoga Folks: This topic has been closed to new comments. Anyone up for reading Learning To Breathe for December? 48 35 Dec 06, 2011 11:47AM  

Readers also enjoyed

  • The Art of Noticing: 131 Ways to Spark Creativity, Find Inspiration, and Discover Joy in the Everyday
  • Barely Functional Adult: It’ll All Make Sense Eventually
  • Good Morning, Monster: A Therapist Shares Five Heroic Stories of Emotional Recovery
  • Camgirl
  • Idiot
  • Sex Object: A Memoir
  • 24/6: Giving up screens one day a week to get more time, creativity, and connection
  • Childhood Disrupted: How Your Biography Becomes Your Biology, and How You Can Heal
  • The Dancing Girls (Detective Jo Fournier, #1)
  • The Christmas Train
  • Chrono Crusade, Vol. 3 (Chrono Crusade, #3)
  • A Cuddle For Little Duck
  • Christmas on the Island (Mure, #3)
  • Chrno Crusade, Vol. 2 (Chrno Crusade, #2)
  • Chrno Crusade, Vol. 1 (Chrno Crusade, #1)
  • The Book of Longings
  • The Last Garden in England
  • Sweet Child of Mine: A Caroline Jayne Church Treasury
See similar books…

News & Interviews

At Goodreads, we love reading (shocker, I know). There's just nothing like curling up on the couch with a cup of coffee or tea and burying...
33 likes · 9 comments