You're no idiot, of course. You negotiate successfully with your boss for a raise, work out problems with your neighbors, and even manage to talk to the kids about the birds and bees. But when it comes to working out problems in your marriage, you feel like you're speaking a foreign language. Don't give up yet! The Complete Idiot's Guide to the Perfect Marriage takes the anxiety out of working on your marriage. Feel confident discussing sex, money, even the in-laws! In this Complete Idiot's Guide you
Great overview of practical advice for supporting a harmonious, productive relationship. I underlined several things that may seem common sense but are hard to act on in reality - like remembering to be NICE to your partner daily, do fun things together, and plan for time to discuss serious serious things - as opposed to just coexisting and hoping things sail along well. The only negative critique I have is that some of the little "male perspective" notes rubbed me the wrong way as being a bit stereotypical and lame. Third edition is definitely dated at this point, but overall it's a great resource!
Creating a marriage that makes it through the long haul.
Here is an updated and revised edition of the popular guide to marriage in the 21st century. Whether you are newlyweds or have 50 years under your belt, this guide will give you the knowledge you need to make yours a marriage others will envy and want to emulate. In this new edition, there is a male perspective, additional material for newlyweds, an expansion on “thinking and feeling for two,” and much more.