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How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul

4.33  ·  Rating details ·  881 ratings  ·  92 reviews


While navigating through the dating scene, every woman begins to wonder: How do I know when a guy really loves me? Am I being too picky? Do I even deserve love? Is my relationship worth keeping? Is love worth the risk? Are any decent
Hardcover, 301 pages
Published February 14th 2011 by Totus Tuus Press (first published January 1st 2011)
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Jun 13, 2012 rated it it was amazing
This book literally changed my life.
Katelynn Kiefer
Mar 03, 2013 rated it it was amazing
Solid advice. Strongly recommended! Men desire to chase us. Great book for Youth Group studies/Book Clubs! Women desire to be loved for more than just their body. No woman should settle for just " getting by ". The pressure to date in high school is insane and misleading. Clearly defines the difference between infatuation love and TRUE love. Confirms the value of saving sex for husband and wife. Second, why only ONE man will left your veil on your wedding day! Seconds after he claims all you are ...more
Jul 16, 2011 rated it really liked it
This was a good read for anyone who is a spiritual person...And it helps us feel better about relationships and marriage, both males and females...I would recommend this for young adults and teens if they have a spiritual interest as it goes into concepts of abstinance and purity until marriage etc...However, if your a person who loves sex while being single and doesn't really beleive in the institution of marriage this book is definately not for you....But, all and all a solid read...
Jun 04, 2013 rated it it was amazing
I am a Catholic Teen girl and this book helped me out amazingly reevaluating my last relationship I was in!!!! It really makes you think about what you want in your life and how to wait for sex until marriage!!!!
Aug 24, 2013 rated it really liked it
I am currently reading this book after being given it for Christmas 2012 by a close friend of mine. However, I didn't start reading it until after I got out of a crappy relationship. In some ways, I wish I had read it earlier, but then at the time I was given it, I knew it was going to tell me more than a few things I didn't want to hear.

Jason and Crystalina Evert have clearly spent a lot of time speaking to young men and women and teenagers all over the USA and hearing about their experiences o
Sep 26, 2012 rated it liked it
Self-Help/Inspirational books are probably my least favorite genre because more times than not the person who wrote their collection of tips and inspirations and got it published reveal themselves to be very self-righteous in their motivational tome - "just read my book and you'll be perfect just like me!" (Insert eye-rolling here) But, despite some annoying areas this book did offer some good things to think about and consider with regards to relationships and marriage. It also discusses at len ...more
May 11, 2012 rated it liked it
They have such a strong testimony.
Jun 09, 2016 rated it liked it
I saw this at church when they were giving out free books and I chose this one. It was decent and pretty well written.
May 12, 2012 rated it it was ok
eh. Written to younger readers.
Lindsay Wilcox
I spent the day today after-Christmas shopping with my mom and sister. I don't see my family very often since they almost all still live in Maryland, so I try to make myself available to them as much as I can when we're together. It seems appropriate for a season like the Christmas season, when we celebrate the birth of Jesus into his human family and the Holy Family as a group (this year, on Dec. 30). Being around family and friends makes me acutely aware of my in-between state in life, though. ...more
Kristen Mccormick
Jan 13, 2013 rated it did not like it
I am a very spiritual person and this book has some good points but the way they refer to being "pure" makes me want to vomit. I definitely agree that the expected sex on the 1st-3rd date makes building a lasting relationship very challenging and people should take some time to actually get to know one another before they make a physical commitment but overall, this book made me want to throw it in the trash and the only reason I haven't is because my mother gave it to me. I find the language ju ...more
Nov 29, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Amazing book! I really enjoyed this read and was amazed at how clearly things were layed out in this book, as well as how relatible it was. I am in my 20s, but I still enjoyed this book, though I do feel like it is definitely geered more towards teens, it doesn't address many of the dating and relationship aspects that relate to those outside of their teen years.
Dec 22, 2012 rated it really liked it
This was a great book! I would recommend that you read it in a group because I got a lot out of it by being in a book discussion with others. Even though it's aimed at women, there are things in it that men could benefit from as well.
Nov 16, 2013 rated it it was ok
For me, the book was good but for someone who already practices being pure the real home hitters didn't come until the last 40 pages about. But it was still worth reading for those pages and for the other odd tips, advice, and revelations.
Jun 20, 2013 rated it it was amazing
Will make you proud to be a Christian woman!
Marissa Gingrich
Apr 19, 2012 rated it it was amazing
This book is the most amazing book i have ever read. All girls should invest in reading this.
Maddie Cowley
Mar 08, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This isn’t just “another typical purity book”, it’s so much more! I was utterly surprised with how amazing and Christ-centered this book was! I had heard many people talk about it throughout my years at my Christian high school, but I thought it would end up being like all the others. NEWSFLASH! It’s not! I enjoyed this book so much and took it al to heart! I WISH high school me would’ve listen to all the people telling me to read it... it would have caused me to change how I went about some thi ...more
Maddly Peculiar
Oct 23, 2018 rated it it was amazing
God changed my heart through this book. I HIGHLY recommend reading this before, after, and/or during ANY sort of romantic relationship you are in. Perhaps, if I had read this six months ago, things would have been different. SO eye opening. Truly written by grace through the Everts. God bless them.
Katie R. Herring
Feb 15, 2014 rated it really liked it
Shelves: religion
Belief + doubt = sanity (Barbara Kruger), but belief + trust = faith.

This was given to me by one of my youth leaders back home several months ago, but I didn't pick it up until after I went on a retreat a couple weeks ago. At this retreat I had an epiphany, and as I wanted it to stay, I decided to give this book a go.

I can't help but admit I'm a little embarrassed by reading this. It's not only a religious self help book, but it's a religious self help book on finding a "soulmate." Oh please. B
Larissa Pamen
Oct 01, 2011 rated it it was amazing
The book is very interesting, so far.
The language is easy and straightforward.
I am a Christian and it resonates very deeply in my heart.
I also feel that young ladies who are not necessarily Christian and spiritual can also read this book, because it will make you re-examine your life choices in regards to sex,men, etc.
It helped me in a time of my life where I was very depressed after a bad breakup and needed to re-examine what I wanted in a relationship and how I could hopefully weed out the pe
Aubrey Farnsworth
Jul 15, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I'm actually not Catholic and most of my friends are not religious, but I'm going to make every single one of them read this book. My sister-in-law, who was Catholic once (and uses this book in her Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints lessons), lended it to me to read. I was like "What? Chastity? Is that how you feel about me?" Girl, before I was even halfway through I ordered my own copy to keep for when I have daughters. I can't praise this book enough. I've never felt so understood, an ...more
Feb 01, 2014 rated it really liked it
It was a good book, but more geared to pre-teens and teens (those under the age of 19) who have been in destructive relationships rather than those who are looking for a more enlightened approach to developing relationships with others. I would have preferred if there was more elaboration on the importance of friendships and more advice and relatable stories for those who are in their early to late twenties.
Oct 12, 2013 rated it really liked it
How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul is a beautiful book for woman of faith. In it I found comfort for overcoming my past and ways to do so. It helped to unravel why the relationships of my past were never truly solid and to give me an entirely new perspective of not simply dating but life.
Angela Good
Feb 02, 2014 rated it it was amazing
This book should be required reading for every high school girl...and then read Gannon college and post-college. The Everts share their hearts and give Godly counsel regarding singleness. AMAZING! INSIGHTFUL! AND A BEAUTIFUL GIFT FROM GOD!!!
Monica Wehbe
May 28, 2013 rated it it was amazing
By far the best book I've ever read. I could relate to many stories and experiences. This is how I want to lead my life. It's a life changing book. Good to re-read every now and then, I strongly recommend it.
Jan 20, 2013 marked it as to-read
Shelves: inspirational
Saw his presentation November 8th! Can't wait to read his book!
Jun 28, 2012 rated it it was amazing
I extremely enjoyed this book. It changed my view of how I look at dating. It is a book every girl should read, hopefully before she starts dating.
Laura C
Apr 08, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Great book. Really makes you appreciate each point in your life and look to God at all times!
Jan 01, 2012 rated it it was amazing
It is a very good book for girls who do not understand exactly what they are doing romantically.
Mary Hlavacka
Dec 05, 2018 rated it it was ok
When I got this book, I was excited to start reading it. I have read other books on dating and relationships written from the Christian view and feel like they have some merit to them. However, I was disappointed after finishing this book. I was hoping to read about tips for finding good relationships but felt like the book was almost solely centered on chastity, which covered up any other advice. I wanted to learn 21 secrets for women as stated on the cover but instead read 21 ways of saying no ...more
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Jason Evert has spoken on five continents to more than one million people about the virtue of chastity.

Jason earned a master’s degree in Theology, and undergraduate degrees in Counseling and Theology, with a minor in Philosophy at Franciscan University of Steubenville. He is a frequent guest on radio programs throughout the country, and his television appearances include Fox News, MSNBC, the BBC,
“When a man loves a woman, he has to become worthy of her. The higher her virtue, the more noble her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, and goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy of her.” 6 likes
“If you are currently in a relationship in which you are also willing to 'do anything to make him happy,' even at your own expense, I want you to stop reading our book. Mark this page, close the book, and hit yourself over the head with it. Then continue reading.” 1 likes
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