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The Dressmaker of Khair Khana: Five Sisters, One Remarkable Family, and the Woman Who Risked Everything to Keep Them Safe

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The New York Times bestseller, written by a former reporter for ABC News, that People magazine called “a transporting, enlightening book” tells the story of a fearless young entrepreneur who brought hope to the lives of dozens of women in war-torn Afghanistan

Former ABC journalist Gayle Tzemach Lemmon tells the riveting true story of Kamila Sidiqi and other women of Afghani
ebook, 304 pages
Published March 15th 2011 by HarperCollins e-books
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Dana I really liked seeing the war in Afghanistan from a different perspective. Too often war is show from the military or political standpoint and women…moreI really liked seeing the war in Afghanistan from a different perspective. Too often war is show from the military or political standpoint and women are portrayed as victims and bystanders. Here is a portrait of a woman (and the other women in her family) who persevered in spite of the circumstances. She did not fight the culture but worked within it to make the best of the situation and in the process saved her family as well as many families around her. I gave this 5 stars for the story - a woman who loved her country and her family and displayed great courage to make the best of a bad situation.(less)
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Will Byrnes
Feb 12, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Gale Tzemach Lemmon offers us a profile in courage about a young woman who defied the daunting odds in Taliban-controlled Kabul to established a business that offered employment, income and hope to her family and neighbors, at a time when all three were in very short supply.

One of the many awful aspects of the extreme form of Islam practiced by the Afghan Taliban is their complete subjugation of women. Women are not allowed to leave their homes unless accompanied by a male relative. They are no
Apr 18, 2011 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I felt this book, although well-intended, was trite, shallow and implausible. The main character, Kamila, takes it upon herself to start a home-based business designing and sewing custom dresses for women in Kabul during the time of a civil war when the Taliban essentially ruled Kabul and surrounding areas. I simply do not find it feasible that women living under the Taliban would need such garments when it was a struggle to even get food on the table for their families. I would not even recomme ...more
Aug 23, 2011 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
A flawed book with the best of intentions

The Taliban arrived in Kabul the day Kamila Sidiqi received her teaching certificate. Shortly thereafter, the teenager became the unofficial head of a large household of younger siblings (mostly female) after her parents and teenage brother fled to safety in the countryside and Pakistan, respectively. The young women quickly adapted to the restrictions imposed by the Taliban on movements (leaving the house only at certain times of day, always accompanied
I was given this book as required reading at University of Florida, as a part of our "common reading" program where every Freshman receives the same book so that we share a common "intellectual experience". Let me say two things:

1) There was nothing intellectual whatsoever going on with this book.

2) Thank GOD I didn't pay for it.

This book was well intended and cut a good message: sympathize with and appreciate the women who stay behind to make things work while the men are at war.

The writing it
So after spending hours searching for a free copy of this online, eventually having to pay 10 bucks to buy the e-book, and reading this in somewhat of a hurry for college -- turns out I didn't have to read it after all.

Nice. Going. Me.

This book really wasn't my cup of tea. And don't get me wrong; it's definitely not because of the subject matter. A Thousand Splendid Suns and The Kite Runner are two of my most favourite books ever and they were also set around the same period of time and place.

Apr 13, 2013 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Megan by: Jamie Cook, Tanya Rogers
Shelves: bookgroup
My reaction to this book was, "I should feel an emotional connection to these women and their situation, but I feel nothing." I was trying to figure out if that was my fault or the fault of the author.

This book is the true story of women in Kabul during the Taliban terror. Their lives were drastically changed as they were forced from their jobs, their schooling, and the streets, to live lives of house arrest. One woman risks a lot--her own life, her family's safety, to put together a dressmaking

On completion: It didn't take me very long to read this book, that is simply because I found it very interesting. In fact it won over browsing GR! When a book doesn't draw me, I usually find something else to do; I find all sorts of other things that have to be done. I do this unconsciously. This book I read in three days!

What I liked about the book was that it provided a chance to experience life in Kabul under the Muzahideen, the Taliban and the bombing of Kabul after al Quaeda's
Feb 11, 2017 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
A poorly told yet interesting story about a family in Afghanistan after the Taliban came in. The best part was the afterward. I still don't understand/agree with the father and mother for leaving their children to fend for themselves during tumultuous times.
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The author, Gayle Tzemach Lemmon, was an MBA student at Harvard Business School, when she yearned to do some research in a subject that mattered but which no one cared for much. That brought her to the topic of women entrepreneurship in war-torn Rwanda, and then to Afghanistan. Her initial search efforts in Kabul raised no potential candidates. It was after a long hunt that she found the protagonist of this biography and this book, The Dressmaker of Khair Khana is her attempt to tell the story o ...more
Aug 08, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: on-my-ipod
Wow. Just finished this book and am still processing the tale, the truths, the atrocities and their implications. A true story of a family of (mostly) women, and the changes they faced when the Taliban came into power in Afghanistan.

This story is extremely powerful and eye-opening the reader a glimpse into life for women in this turbulent and brutal time. A government change that forced women into near house-arrest, took away personal liberties and education, and the ability to earn a
Read this in one sitting under the impression it was a work of non-fiction revealing little known truths of a burgeoning cottage industry and its subsequent hardships under Taliban rule. At the conclusion of the book there's even a photo of the protagonist posing with Condoleeza Rice. That's why I was mightily confused to read the publisher's boilerplate disclaimer that all similarities to those either living or dead was completely unintentional as this was a creation of the author's imagination ...more
Mar 17, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Everyone
I read this book overnight...and I don't usually do that since I love to sleep. This book drew me in right at the moment Gayle Lemmon landed in the airport and went into the bathroom to change into black all over and cover her hair and face....I thought I knew Middle East enough already, until I read this book. The author risked her own life traveling all the way to Kabul, to report a story about a woman who was strong and brave who sacrificed her safety to help out her family and other women in ...more
May 06, 2014 rated it it was ok
I just could not get interested in this book or connect with the characters, but appreciate the initiative of the Afghanistan women who began a sewing business in their home to survive the Taliban rule. This non-fiction work came across as emotionless for me, and I am still confused as to who was purchasing all these clothes since everyone was so poor. (I began skimming about mid-way so I may have missed something)

Perhaps my questions will be answered as the book is discussed next month at my lo

Mrs. Nicole
Oct 11, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-in-2011
Amazingly powerful biography of Kamila Sidiqi, a young educated Afghan women, as told from the perspective of American journalist Gayle Tzemach Lemmon. This non-fiction work describes Kamila's struggle to adapt to the Taliban after taking control of Kabul, the city where she spent her entire life living. As the Taliban enact new rules in regards to the education and clothing styles of women, the women of Kabul are forced to adapt or be killed. Kamila's father, mother, and two older brothers leav ...more
I was not thrilled with was strangely unsatisfying. I have seen it referred to as a fictional biography, which I think is odd. My library had it in biography and others had it in fiction. Who knows?

I thought the writing was pretty bad. Disconnected, lots of inconsistencies, poor explanations of the facts. I wonder who edited this? The author is a journalist and I do not think any newspaper editor would have approved of the "product". It sure did not live up to some of the promotiona
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It's not riveting writing, but it's a decent human interest story. I agree it is an important story that needed to be told. My review here: The Dressmaker of Khair Khana
What would you do if you were banned from public places, including schools? Could you spend years hiding at home while your country is at war? This happens to Kamila Sadiqi, a teenager in Afghanistan when the Taliban takes control. She had studied to become a teacher, even earning a prestigious teaching certificate after completing a two-year program. She had planned to go to a coed university for two more years to receive her bachelor’s degree, and hoped to become a professor, perhaps even teac ...more
Eric Wright
I rarely read a book that creates such an impression that I continue to carry with me the vivid pictures for months, years. This book is one such and it is true. It is an absolutely inspiring story of human triumph against difficulties that leave me with my jaw hanging open. Kamila Sidiqi's life was changed overnight when the Taliban took over Afghanistan. Her parents and a brother had to flee. She was left as the sole breadwinner for her four sisters and one young brother. What could she do, co ...more
A serious disappointment after having wanted to read this for almost 2 years. The book has a YA feel -- everything is simple. The sentence structure is simple, the story arch (what do you call it with non-fiction books?) is simple, the language is simple, and many stories within the arch feel like they must have been pared down or combined or something. The entirety of the book is "She did this. They did that. They went here. She said this. Her sister said that." You never feel you get to KNOW a ...more
Jun 23, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: everyone!
Reading a book like this makes me sit back and think about how lucky women are in this country. We are free to pursue our dreams. We can be whoever we want to be. We are even encouraged to educate ourselves to achieve success and enlighten our minds.

In Afghanistan, that is most certainly not the case, at least not when this story takes place. There is no limit to the admiration I feel for the women who have accomplished so much while being discouraged, threatened and jailed. Such courage I canno
Mar 07, 2013 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2013
What a remarkable woman Kamila Sidiqi is. Her brother's quote at the end the story says it all:

"I always hoped that someone would come from a foreign country and tell my sister's story. She was so brave at such a difficult time, and she did so much for all of us - not just my own family but so many other families in Khair Khana and around Kabul. And she is the reason that all of us got educated. I wanted you to know how glad I am that her story will finally be told."
Gina *loves sunshine*
If you have never read about afghan women, this is a good book to start with. It is a short simple read with a good story and sheds a bit of light on life for woman under the Taliban. A story of how one woman emerged a successful business woman and helped many others earn a living and learn. But it is a light account and doesn't go into much detail. Not much emotional attachment to the characters. It's not near the terrifying account that say - A thousand splendid suns was!! 3 stars!
Clarice Davis
The Dressmaker of Khair Khana is an inspiring book about how one family in Kabul deals with the Taliban reign. This book really makes you think. Kamila is a brave woman who has to face a lot of danger but she manages to do it and help her family survive. This must be especially hard considering the fact that her parents and older brother are away due to an unsafe background. It shows what women can do especially when they work together, this really inspires me.

I liked that this book was easy to
Jennifer Kim
Aug 02, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I am writing about this book not because I loved it (I liked it enough, but I loved the topic), but because it's an important book. Just like Imperial life in Emerald City, this book should be read by as many people as possible (should be required reading in the diplomatic corps).

Kamila Sidiqi comes from a family of eleven children. She is the third oldest, with an older sister and brother. Having blessed with an educated father who believed in education for all his children, she had big dreams.
Nicole Means
Apr 10, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
How refreshing to read a book in which Muslim women are depicted taking control of their own fate instead of waiting for the west to come and save the day. More stories such as these which empower women need to be shared so that we can overcome stereotypical images of Muslim women as victims.
Sep 26, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Brilliant read - takes you through life in the times of Taliban, through the life of one family. This book reads like fiction, but is a true account of how Kamila and her sisters built their business out of the necessities that arose from the rules of the regime. From learning to sew to building a school cum tailoring establishment, Kamila ensures the income and safety of her family through her stubborn resolve.
Nancy Kennedy
Feb 03, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
We have come to view the women of Afghanistan as oppressed victims of the Taliban -- which they are -- but they are not just that, writes Gayle Tzemach Lemmon. They are heroes who under the harshest of circumstances have carved out a niche for themselves as entrepreneurs and activists. They have no choice, if they and their families are going to survive.

Until I read this story of Kamela, a young woman struggling to stay alive in Taliban-occupied Kabul, I had no idea of what that oppression meant
In the 1990's the women of Afghanistan were experiencing the freedom to pursue an education and a career until the Taliban seized control of Kabul. The Muslim extremists required women to stay home, and not to hold a job or attend school. If a woman had to leave her home, she had to be covered completely and be accompanied by a male relative. Any woman out of her home not complying with this demand would be beaten or imprisoned.

This is a photo taken in Khair Khana, so you see what covered means:
More of a long report than a full book.

There is no doubt that Kamilla Sidiqi is an amazing woman who courageously supported her family as well as many other members of the community during the Taliban regime. However, the book lacks depth and feels more like an extended report than the characters telling their story from their hearts. The author has written many articles for prestigious publications in the US, but that is how this book read, rather than as a full length biography.

Having said tha
Lemmon is a journalist / MBA student intrigued by female entrepreneurship in war zones. In Afghanistan she learned about Kamila Sidiqi, who had become a dressmaker when the Taliban came to Kabul and demanded that women stop working, drop out of school, stay indoors, and stay veiled. The economy of the city shut down. Kamila, the oldest female at home, determined to find a way to support her family while obeying Taliban rules, so began a dressmaking business. The business also evolved into a tail ...more
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“Brave young women complete heroic acts everyday, with no one bearing witness. This was a chance to even the ledger, to share one small story the made the difference between starvation and survival for the families whose lives it changed. I wanted to pull the curtain back for readers on a place foreigners know more for its rocket attacks and roadside bombs than its countless quiet feats of courage. And to introduce them to the young women like Kamila Sidiqi who will go on. No matter what.” 4 likes
“wanted to know what war was like for those who had been left behind: the women who managed to keep going even as their world fell apart.” 1 likes
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