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Stories I Only Tell My Friends

3.81  ·  Rating details ·  63,241 ratings  ·  5,291 reviews
A wryly funny and surprisingly moving account of an extraordinary life lived almost entirely in the public eye

A teen idol at fifteen, an international icon and founder of the Brat Pack at twenty, and one of Hollywood's top stars to this day, Rob Lowe chronicles his experiences as a painfully misunderstood child actor in Ohio uprooted to the wild counterculture of mid-seven
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Hardcover, 320 pages
Published April 26th 2011 by Henry Holt and Co. (first published April 15th 2011)
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Helen No, that does not seem true. He had to read all those scripts & study his lines. …moreNo, that does not seem true. He had to read all those scripts & study his lines. (less)
Carolyn what a perfect choice! His truth really rings clear here. He is an excellent writer, a very perceptive human being and the stories are captivating. I'…morewhat a perfect choice! His truth really rings clear here. He is an excellent writer, a very perceptive human being and the stories are captivating. I'm so glad he shared his POV. As for topics-- any artistic angle works, (I am a playwright, actor and painter so his drive for his craft is very inspiring to me); taking on new adventures or following someone through these particular years is a wonderful journey also anyone who has any interest in recovery (every one should actually because addiction recovery is important in every community)(less)

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Sarah Wilsman
Mar 05, 2011 rated it really liked it
Okay, I have to say that I met Rob in Arizona in the early 90's...and I was very surprised then at how charming, self-deprecating and intelligent he was...and, yes, beautiful...This memoir reveals all of that, although thanks to SNL and West Wing, his wit and intelligence have already been revealed. The best review that I read of this book said that it was a love letter to his wife...and it is. He has matured and I very much enjoyed his look back at the journey thus far.



I also listened to the au
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Kat
May 13, 2011 rated it really liked it
If there's one thing I dislike about celebrity autobiographies, it's the amount of affectation and pretension that exist within the pages. While Rob Lowe's memoir certainly contains a lot of name dropping, I couldn't really hold that against him — after all, if you're telling the story of how you worked your way up in Hollywood, it'd be hard not to mention the names of other famous people you met along the way.

I haven't seen much of Lowe's work. I've probably seen two or three of his movies, and
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Tracy Miller
Apr 27, 2011 rated it liked it
Just brought this one home yesterday. Yes, I have 4 papers due Monday. Yes, I have a full-time job and two children with many end-of-year activities. But I also have a weakness for celebrity biographies - the trashier the better - and come on. It's ROB LOWE. I'm thinking he's got some stories to tell. Plus, the back cover photo is...well...inspiring. Pure eye candy and the reading is pure mind candy. Awesome.

Well, I'm finished. Rob, what can I say? You dished...sort of. Although the celebrity st
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Diane
Mar 22, 2012 rated it really liked it
Shelves: memoirs, hollywood
This was a surprisingly enjoyable read. I generally avoid celebrity memoirs, but I saw a nice excerpt from Rob Lowe's latest one, "Love Life," about how emotional he was when his son went away to college, and decided to give his first autobiography a chance.

I am a child of the 80s, so I grew up with Lowe's movies and those of the so-called Brat Pack. The Outsiders was popular when I was a kid, ("Stay gold, Ponyboy") and I also loved St. Elmo's Fire and About Last Night. Lowe's book had good behi
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Kerri
Jan 17, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Raising my rating to five stars after this second read because of my enjoyment and the fact that I have I thought of this book quite frequently in the years since I first read it. Rob Lowe is a wonderful storyteller and his life makes for interesting reading!

He has obviously lived a very interesting life, but he is also very good at telling the stories. He manages to share a lot without being gossipy or undermining those around him, which I appreciate. His encounter with Liza Minnelli was partic
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Emily
Aug 20, 2013 rated it liked it
Recommends it for: ladies of the 80s
Before I read this book, this was my entire conception of Rob Lowe:



so I was definitely surprised to run across an excerpt of this book in Vanity Fair and realize that Rob Lowe used to be a bona fide star in the 80s. WHAT.

This book is downright hilarious for any number of reasons, but it is also surprisingly fun to read. The section on the making of Francis Ford Coppola's The Outsiders takes up about 1/4 of the book, and it's absolutely fascinating. If you aren't interested in reading this wh
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Barbara
Jun 03, 2019 rated it really liked it




Rob Lowe

Rob Lowe, born in 1964, writes about his personal life and career in this memoir. It's not only an engaging story, it's a good primer for aspiring young actors. The takeaway: be bold, work hard, and avoid scandals.

Lowe has been a devoted husband and father for nearly three decades, but Rob's 'bad boy' antics as a young man almost derailed his career. At the age of 24 Rob made a sex tape with a 16-year-old girl. The videotape went public when Rob's movie 'Bad Influence' was opening and Lo
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Kelli
Apr 24, 2016 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: audio, memoirs
Color me surprised! This autobiography kept my attention and brought me to the edge of tears on at least three occasions. There was an air of nostalgia to it with talk of growing up in the seventies and so many eighties movies I had long since forgotten about, but it was also genuinely interesting and surprisingly well-written. Rob Lowe, an actor worth $30 million, comes across as humble, hardworking, grateful, and relatable...no small feat. He eluded to his big videotape scandal a few times wit ...more
Melissa
I really gained a lot of respect for Rob Lowe through reading this book. He's genuine, honest, he talks openly about his talents, his escapades, his addictions, and his insecurities. I listened to the audio version, read in his own voice and I feel like that made it more personal. I listened to it at the same time as I was reading Patrick Swayze's The Time of My Life and while I enjoyed that one also, it wasn't nearly the read that this one is. I did however, enjoy the parallels between their tw ...more
Twobusy
May 17, 2011 rated it it was ok
Um... yeah. So I read the Rob Lowe autobiography.

Why? Perfectly fair question. The answer lies in the fact that Vanity Fair ran a long excerpt from it a month or two ago, featuring the segment where Lowe talks about his experiences auditioning for and then appearing in Francis Ford Coppola's The Outsiders. And when I read it, I was surprised to find... it was good. Really, really good. Well-executed, thoughtful, and offering tremendous insight not only into what was going through Lowe's head at
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MissBecka
Apr 14, 2020 rated it really liked it
Recommended to MissBecka by: Jane
If I had not already thought Lowe was a very cool feller, this book would have changed my mind.
He flows seamlessly through the highs (and of course lows) of his life and career.
Also having him narrate this didn't hurt one bit :P
Much love to that lady Jane for the rec!!!
Ashley DiNorcia
Jan 13, 2017 rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
I often forget how old Rob Lowe is, and subsequently how popular he was in the 80's. I listened to this on audio, which I highly recommend, and found it really enjoyable. Apparently Tom Cruise has always been a bit of a weirdo, no surprise there.
Shannon
Aug 26, 2011 rated it liked it
A fun, quick read. Great stories with cameos by Cary Grant, Dick Wolf, Demi Moore. Lots of time spent on the making of the Outsiders...but breezes through the West Wing and stops there. Where's the dirt on Sally Field and Calista Flockhart and the week-after-henious week of bizarre plots on Brothers & Sisters, which drove him into a persistent vegetative state, which sounded like a good deal if it meant getting off that show?! Lyon's Den, anyone?

One item of note: you'll perhaps be unsurprised t
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Julia
Jun 06, 2011 rated it really liked it
Bought this on a whim and really ended up enjoying it. Lowe is funny, witty, and at times even eloquent (mostly when he talks about lessons learned from fatherhood, or being a recovering alcoholic). You can tell why he called this "Stories I only tell my friends," since much of the book is: "One day, I was walking down the street, and I met this girl, and she was really pretty, and really nice, and she told me she was into acting, and I said I was too. Oh and by the way, she was [insert famous n ...more
C.
Aug 26, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Insightful, inspiring, educational, well-authored, and very good! My review will come when I get to my 24 others.
Kayla
May 12, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Rob Lowe's life sounds so insanely cool that it's hard to believe it all actually happened to one man. I mean, before I even reached chapter ten he'd already befriended the Sheens and Penns, been on the set of Star Wars and seen the taping of The Muppet Movie. Then he goes on to make some of the greatest films of all time, receive random gifts from Bill Murray and got to work for Aaron Sorkin (genius). If it weren't for the acoholism and numerous deaths of family and friends, it'd be a perfect r ...more
Trudi
I don't read celebrity gossip rags or keep track of who's marrying / divorcing / screwing who at any given time (not that there's anything wrong with that people!). I definitely didn't pick up this memoir of one of Hollywood's all-time pretty boys hoping for a salacious tell-all about who wears women's underwear or who includes small animals in their sex play.

So why the hell did I pick up this book? Several reasons top the list:

1) Reviews promised it offers a poignant, self-deprecating coming-
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Linda
Jan 15, 2013 added it
Shelves: favorites, memoir
Rob Lowe was a heart throb of my generation, though he wasn't my heart throb. Emilio was my brat pack crush. Which may be why I procrastinated on listening to this highly rated memoir.

Rob Lowe tells a great story, and I'm so happy to be among his friends that he shares with. I was captivated with his unfolding of his youth, including the details of casting, shooting and immediate stardom of The Outsiders. He affectionately describes his friendships and his mentors. The book is beautifully paced,
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Holly
Jan 10, 2016 rated it really liked it
I confess that I am not the biggest follower of Rob Lowe. In fact, if you had asked me prior to listening to this audiobook what shows or movies he has been in I couldn't tell you, but I could pick him out of a lineup. I've never even seen the West Wing. But listening to this was still very interesting to me. His voices for other celebrities like Tom Cruise, Patrick Swayze, and Christopher Walken were funnily spot-on. But as entertaining as it was to hear how he met multiple people before they w ...more
Christy
Aug 13, 2019 rated it really liked it
I knew ZERO about Rob Lowe before this audio book, except that I really liked his character on Parks & Rec. I had several people recommend it so decided to give it a go! I really enjoyed this one, and he does a great job narrating the book. ...more
Joanna Silverstein
May 09, 2011 rated it it was ok
I got this book as a get well present from a friend (thanks, Jan!), and it was a decent mindless read. I only rated it ok beucase he doens't dish any dirt, whcih is what I hope for in a celeb authobiography. The way he writes it, everyone he's ever dealt with was wonderful, every movie another experience for him to grow and make BFFs (when all I want to hear is stories like "I once did PCP with Charlie Sheen and we ended up eating his cat").
Cammie
Apr 01, 2020 rated it it was amazing
At times while reading Rob Lowe's memoir, I was wowed and star struck. The last chapter left me with a major WTF moment!
The inside look at the life of a star was so completely explored through Stories I Only Tell My Friends. From Lowe's early life in Ohio where he was deeply impacted by the divorce of his parents and the early exposure to community theater to a cross-country move to Los Angeles where he becomes friends with the Sheen brothers and Penn brothers but remains an outsider of sorts.
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Vaishali
Dec 01, 2016 rated it really liked it
Shelves: biographies
Not just a beautiful face. A soulful tour through a humble childhood, high school with Charlie Sheen and Sean Penn... and the constant threat of auditioning against a young, assassin-like Tom Cruise. Get the audiobook for Rob's celebrity impressions!

Cool Excerpts :
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"I wanna see the spaceship," I say.
"It's right over there," he says, pointing to another corner of the warehouse. "It's called the Millenium Falcon."

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In history class I bond with a hilarious, madrigal-singing mania
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Mehrsa
Aug 21, 2020 rated it really liked it
Sometimes celebrity memoirs are surprisingly deep and profound (like Demi Moore or Jessica Simpson's). This is not that one--it's a decent memoir if you are a Rob Lowe fan or at least are familiar with his shows and movies. I knew him from the Tommy Boy and Waynes World stuff and never watched West Wing. It's sort of fascinating to hear him talk about his objectification as a good looking man. I know why we don't hear too many men complain about this, but it does seem incredibly annoying actuall ...more
Miss Kim
Oct 04, 2016 rated it liked it
Shelves: biography, e-book, 2016
In the mid 80’s, I had a poster of Rob Lowe in my room for a few years when I was a teen. He was dressed in a white suit, but shirtless, leaning against the wall. His eyes would follow you. Wow, I sure loved that poster…

A good third of this book is about filming the movie “Outsiders”. In 8th grade, this was required reading for me. (My son is currently assigned reading it 8th grade as well). Lowe was only 17, and it was his first movie. Honestly when someone brings up that movie, Rob Lowe does n
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Stephanie
Jul 18, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, audiobooks
Rob Lowe is an icon from the '80s and I have had a crush on him for many years. His memoir is sweet, funny, and engaging. He seems to be a very down to earth guy in spite of spending his growing up years in the spotlight and hanging around with the likes of the Sheen/Estevez brothers and the Penn brothers. Stories of his geeky youth and his Ohio roots were bittersweet, especially the parts about his parents' divorce, moving away from Ohio to California, and his mother's many illnesses.

If you're
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Holly
Sep 26, 2011 rated it really liked it
I don't believe there were many straight girls or gay boys who did not have a crush on Rob Lowe in the 1980s. That said, his career has had its major ups and downs and who didn't cringe when he hosted the Oscars? But as he tells his life story thus far, you start to get to know the "man behind the mask" so to speak. I found Lowe an intelligent, sensitive and quite eloquent man and he really has a great story to tell. I heard of his childhood and all the pain and laughter that entailed, his rise ...more
Misty
Apr 09, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I really enjoyed the audiobook read by Rob Lowe. Listening to this on a long car ride, the first two-thirds of the book was a fun guessing game of which celebrity Lowe was referring to in his story! Lowe also does great impressions of the celebrities he discusses.

Rob Lowe has definitely lived a #blessed life - his family moving to Malibu when he was young, introduced him to some of the great actors of his time and gave him lots of opportunity. It is really amazing that he turned his life around
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Debra
Jan 25, 2014 rated it liked it
3.5 stars

I really enjoyed this book. I thought he did a good job writing it. He has some interesting stories to tell but mainly keeps the stories about himself and really doesn't dish on other celebrities except to say positive things about them. He does gloss over some things like the sex tape with the underage girl but for the most part he opens up about his insecurities, his addiction and his career.
Straw
Mar 17, 2012 rated it did not like it
Wow. I wanted some hot gossip from the 1980's. Mr. Lowe I admire your sobriety and positive outlook; however, without said gossip your book bored the hell out of me.
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Rob Lowe is an American actor. Lowe came to prominence after appearing in films such as The Outsiders, Oxford Blues, About Last Night..., and St. Elmo's Fire. On Television, Lowe is known for his role as Sam Seaborn on The West Wing and his role as Senator Robert McCallister on Brothers & Sisters. He currently appears as a main cast member of Parks and Recreation in the role of Chris Traeger. ...more

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