Comment on My Favorite Heuristic for Evaluating Relationships: The Antifragile Person by Zack Kanter

This was great. For the most part, I love finding out that I’ve been doing it all wrong – as an introspective person, this gets harder to do as time goes on…the low hanging fruit is all picked. Some are more painful than others to realize, but – for antifragile people – ignorance is not bliss. Glad to have a term for it now.

One word of caution. It’s easy to let something become part of ‘your story’ – “I’m bad at first impressions.” You then react to fix this – perhaps successfully, but it’s...