The checklist for building the perfect spouse?

I love lists. I didn’t used to, but then my brain got too full. Without lists, I wouldn’t get anything done. Now I make them for everything–tasks for the day, groceries, the process of book production, scenes left in novels, etc. But some folks make lists for things I’d never even though of–like lists for what they want in a spouse. I heard about this phenomenon years ago when an…