The decisions we face and the people we encounter
Life is something that none of us can really call. There are some people who think that they can force situations to happen. These people are often the ones in a rut about life. I honestly have to say that I have some of these people who may force matters around me. The truth is that you can't determine who you want approaching. They'll approach you if they feel the need. And while you are sizing them up, there are looking for some sort of acknowledgement. That may seems lie a random thought but have you ever thought about what people think before they even present themself to you? Once they are in front of you, you may consider trying to get them to wrap up what they are saying.
I have been in situations where I am being talked to death. It gets to the point that you'll want to be rude but you refrain from doing so. During the times that you just want to get going you are like, "Sorry but I have shit to do." That can be funny because the person you say this to either gets the point or they want to engage in a shouting match. Here's where deciding what to do comes into play. You obviously want to avoid conflict or you want conflict to rear its ugly head. Surely, everyone has been told that the decisions they make determine the way their life pans out. What if you have made decisions that people around you truly agreed with? What happens if your life isn't going in a suitable direction?
What happens is that the same people who agreed with your decisions will openly criticize you and say that your life is not on the right track. Is that confusing or what? So, the solution I have come up with is that when you make your own decisions without the approval of others, you will find satisfaction in being in control of your life and not having numerous people telling you how you should do things. Often times, what other people are advising you to do is what they want they want to take credit for. They don't even think about whether or not they could be leading you down a bad path.
I have been in situations where I am being talked to death. It gets to the point that you'll want to be rude but you refrain from doing so. During the times that you just want to get going you are like, "Sorry but I have shit to do." That can be funny because the person you say this to either gets the point or they want to engage in a shouting match. Here's where deciding what to do comes into play. You obviously want to avoid conflict or you want conflict to rear its ugly head. Surely, everyone has been told that the decisions they make determine the way their life pans out. What if you have made decisions that people around you truly agreed with? What happens if your life isn't going in a suitable direction?
What happens is that the same people who agreed with your decisions will openly criticize you and say that your life is not on the right track. Is that confusing or what? So, the solution I have come up with is that when you make your own decisions without the approval of others, you will find satisfaction in being in control of your life and not having numerous people telling you how you should do things. Often times, what other people are advising you to do is what they want they want to take credit for. They don't even think about whether or not they could be leading you down a bad path.
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