J Is For JUDGEMENTAL

We judge. We are human. We often judge a lot! Those more enlightened among us perhaps judge less, but judging is the way we compare and contrast. For example: I might say of someone: 'I judge that behaviour to be unacceptable to me'. So I may choose to avoid that person and not behave like that myself - BUT, and it's a big but, this does not mean that the person is bad. It simply means that their behaviour is not to my liking, but to them, it's perfect. It's perfect becaus...