lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

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This Thursday is a big announcement on the site, watch for it!
So, who went to 50 Shades of Gray screening? What did you think of it? For those of you who read the book, how did it compare?
What do you think the impact on the community and BDSM in general will be now that the movie is out? How can we help novices wishing to explore safely?
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Now for the week in review:
This Week on Submissive Guide
This section highlights the articles posted this week on Submissive Guide and other updates to the blog, if any.
How Giving a Blowjob Has Taught Me That Service and Pleasure Are One
Talking Even When Words Are Hard by andyiccee
Woven into BDSM relationships is love by moonlight
When He Slapped Me: My Impressions of Face Slapping
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Ask lunaKM Advice Column
The advice column where I try my best to help you with your questions and personal situation challenges.
Ask lunaKM – How To Ask for Attention
I have a Dom friend that has been helping explore and figure out this wonderful world of BDSM. I have been seeing him for a few months and we are moving into more of a relationship and not just scenes. My question is how do I ask him for the discipline/attention when I am needing it? Don’t want to be demanding. I feel like this is silly question but one I have to ask. Thank you for any advice you have to offer.
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Dug Out from the Archives
Let’s dig into the archives and reconsider some of the older articles on Submissive Guide that you may have missed.
In 2014: What a Romantic Dominant/submissive Relationship Looks Like
In 2013: To Have Children Or Not, Now THAT is a Question
In 2012: 22 Deal Breakers that May Be Preventing Your One from Approaching You by Laney Doll
In 2011: Ask SehAnru | Where to begin: Books, and more
In 2010: First Playtime Jitters and How to Arrive Prepared
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Next Submissive Guide Chat Night
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Date: February 24th, 2015
Time: 8PM Central (Not in CST? Find out the time where you are!)
Topic: Free Chat
Recent Journal Prompts
Submissive Journal Prompts is a thinking prompt and quote site that can help you with topics for your journal or your own thinking.
What has to happen before find your place in service to another?
“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” -Robert Heinlein
If you are in a M/s dynamic and are largely dependent on your owner, have you discussed what may happen if something fatal happens to the owner? Is this something you feel should be discussed prior to committing to the dynamic?In a different scenario, how have you handled release if it has occurred?
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Featured Podcast of the Week – Erotic Awakening

EA349 – Dominance
9 Feb 2015, 7:49pm GMT
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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, Dan & dawn share their perspective on dominance; how to be one, if integrity plays a part, and what are the other key components? PLUS we are featured in a magazine; someone self pleasures to us; the Space Tags? Oh yea we got tags. #bdsm Don’t miss an episode! Click here to subscribe via iTunes or here for any other method Part of the Erotic Awakening Podcast Network Click the banner above for other great shows spanning the realm of BDSM, Sacred Sexuality, Tantra, and simply fun kink! Need canes? Get 10% with the discount code dananddawn15
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Ask lunaKM – Forced to Lose Weight, Snarky Submissives and Looking for Community
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After the Scene is Over – Clean-up, Aftercare, and Check-Ins
#domsubchat – Transcript of Twitter Chat – Dating and Finding a Partner in BSM
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