THE BUILDING BLOCKS TO A FRIENDLY RELATIONSHIP

The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.
Rumi

When you meet the one that's meant for you, you will know it beyond a shadow of a doubt. It's not required that the person fit the ideal image that your family, friends, or loved ones believe they should fit. It's not required that they fit into the mold that they have dreamt of for your particular life. The only thing that's required is that the person loves you unconditionally and treats you well.

We receive words of advice and wisdom from those closest to us on how to handle our relationships. Everyone from your parents to the elderly neighbor wants to give you advice.

Friendship is the most important factor of any relationship. Can you sit in companionable silence with each other? Do you have one another's back? Can you share the world with him/her? Can you sit and kick it about nothing and everything for hours on end? Whether you started out as friends or grow into friends, friendship with the one you love is critical to the survival of the relationship.

What I've learned?
It's impossible for anyone to give you relationship advice. Why? No one knows the other person in the relationship and how they react to you and how you react to them. The best person to listen to in that relationship is the other person. No one  can tell you best how to treat him/her, except him/her.

When you listen, heed, and respect that person's feelings you're building the most beautiful friendship in the world.

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WRITING MY DREAMS,CHELLE RAMSEY