If you are to be a woman then… be a real one!

God has been very generous with the female gender. Maybe one of the reason is because women don`t have such great physical power like men do. As a substitute, God has blessed women with grace, intelligence, strong sense of maturity and responsibility, intuition, playfulness of the mind and soul. God knew what He was doing, this is without doubt;-)

Yet, when it comes to being a real woman, what does it mean? Or what does it imply? How does a real woman look like, how does she cope with life and its challenges? How does she think, behave…?

Well, chances are we may never find the perfect or supreme answer to all these questions, as everybody has their own way of thinking and looking at things. And for more than a million times these ways are different, which is a good thing.

We need variety, don`t we?:-)

But I do can share with you my own thoughts and feelings around the subject.

If it happens for you to get touched or inspired by them, it`s great!:-) If, by any chance, what I am about to write won`t move you, then I guess we`re on different pages and the energy of my words didn`t find a destination in you- which is fine, too.

At the end of the day, we didn`t come here to impress one another. No. We came here to explore and live life, and if it happens for our energy fields to resonate one with another- it`s even better!:-))

Ok, going back to the topic:-)

A real woman…?

A real woman, in my view, is someone who is aware of herself- this is, let`s say, the first criteria.

Aware of herself? What does it mean?, you may ask.

A woman who is aware of herself is a woman who knows her worth. She is the type of woman that lives completely in the fullness of her spirit, mind and body, a woman that knows she`s so much more than the physical layers that her mind and body secure for her.

What I mean to say is that a real woman is first and foremost, a spiritual woman, as this is the place where it all starts and where all her beauty comes from. Without spirituality, a woman is like a walking doll, being able to take care of her things and run her life as she pleases to but still- a walking doll.

Now, if I would be a man, I wouldn`t want a walking doll by my side. I am serious! If I would be a man, I would search a woman that has a strong relationship with her Creator ( I won`t say God, as I don`t want to suggest any idea of religion).

Why would I search a woman like that?

Simply because, a person (regardless female or male) without the presence of their Creator in their lives is a shallow person; is a person that won`t care too much about their fellow countrymen or anything else happening around them; is a person that has their main focus on the material side of this world and we do know that everything in this physical realm is momentary, don`t we? This type of person will most definitely yawn when somebody else will show interest or talk about the supreme force that created this world or important matters that our planet is facing right now. For all these reasons, I wouldn’t want a walking doll by my side.

Going further, a real woman takes full responsibility for herself and her life. She will not ever blame others for what`s going on in her life because she is strong and has brains enough to accept and admit the fact that she is the only one who has control over her life.

A real woman stands up for herself and speaks her mind whenever she feels she has to; a real woman loves herself ( as a main premise for a rich and fulfilling life), respects and takes care of herself and she`s doing all this without the smallest expectation of getting these “presents” from her dad, brother, friend, boyfriend, husband or whoever it may be.

How come? Because she knows that she is the center of her life and she may want to stay this way if she wants to live life fully. If there`s something she wants to be, do or have, she`ll get down to work and achieve that thing!

No excuses, no waiting, no delaying, no postponing, no “whys”, no “buts”….no nothing! She just gets to work! Simple as that!

A real woman is someone who never accept less than what she`s really deserving; a real woman is a woman with pride, dignity; she has great self-esteem and most of all- she cares about the relationship she has with herself. A woman like that walks tall, regardless of the circumstances in her life; she is both a dreamer and a do-er; a woman like that keeps her cold blood and judgment even when it seems that all hell broke loose!

A real woman has self-confidence and she approves of herself, she approves what she thinks, says and does, and she doesn`t need any approval coming from somebody else; a real woman is free in the way her mind works and her way of being, and has but only one mantra: ” I can do it !!”.

She has her own life, her own career and money and she will not ever relay on her husband for the things she needs- financially speaking. A woman like this has no fear of speaking her mind and say “No!” when it is required.

A real woman is delicate; a real woman is elegant, funny, feminine, sexy, gracious, seductive, mysterious, she`s polite and well mannered.

A real woman is independent, capable, courageous, and passionate! Oh yes, a real woman is excited about having babies and becoming a mother!:-)

She represents the perfect balance between the spiritual and material side of life; she brings peace where there is war, she brings harmony where there is revenge, she brings love where there is hatred, she brings light where there is dark.

In my view, this is how a real woman looks like.

Now, I`m curious to find out what your thoughts are:-) How does a real woman look like from your point of view?:-)

Can`t wait to hear:-)

Much love,

Cristina