I fell in love with my best friend about a year ago, and we had been together ever since the beginning of this month when she broke it off with me. She's over in another country for 7 months and said what she needed was a best friend. Not a boy friend anym

You move on. This woman that you are involved with, or were involved is obviously overly selfish. She doesn’t actually care about your relationship, maybe your friendship, but not the romantic side of what you had. I mean, she went to another country and told you she just wanted to remain friends and then goes and gets a boyfriend? She seems to not want to be lonely. She’s most likely expecting you to be waiting for her when she comes back. Don’t wait. You are just going to give her what she wants when really you need to focus on what you want. And do you want someone who wants you when it’s convenient for them? Or do you want someone who want you always, no matter where they go or what they do? That’s love right there. Love is not about going away for months and leaving someone behind who you once were with, just because you won’t be able to see them for 7 months. And honestly, 7 months is not a long time to wait. It’s actually incredibly short compared to the amount of time that people wait for their significant others to return home from wherever they are. So basically, you can do one of two things. You can remain in the mindset you are in now, and wait for her until she returns because I can assure you she will want you back when she comes back and will do to this new man what she did to you. Or you can move on, make yourself happy, and create new relationships that may lead to something serious. You can either keep breaking your own heart by letting her break it for you, or you can find ways of forgetting, letting go, and just moving on. Really, it’s all up to you. I’ve been, and I think a lot of people reading this have been in this situation before and they can support my overall point. I hope you do what is right for you, love. Just remember, you’re better than all of this.