Of Waffles and Spaghetti and Understanding Your Spouse

Early on in our marriage, my wife and I learned something that forever changed how we communicate and understand each other. The speakers who taught us, a couple that had been together for fifty plus years, presented an analogy that became the basis for our communication.

I realize there are some sweeping generalization and there are always exceptions to the rule, however; this has been such a powerful aid to my marriage that I want to share it.

Men are like waffles, and women are like spaghett...