Shock the Monkey

Years ago, my daughter introduced me to urbandictionary.com, which is basically a reference tool for slang terms used by cool and hip folk and sub-cultures you'd normally know nothing about. It seems to specialize in naughty things.
Recently, I read the phrase "Shock the Monkey," and though I thought I remembered the definition I went to urbandictionary.com for verification ... and ... WHOA! ... I learned that the phrase means a whole lot more than I thought it did.
I won't put it here...