Writing Wednesday---Being Critiqued

Has this ever happened to you: You're getting ready to go out, whether for an evening or just to lunch, and you ask your spouse/friend/mother "how do I look?" and they say "Fine/Great/Fantastic!". Then two hours later you catch your reflection in a store window as you go by and think "Who let me leave the house looking like this?" Then you ask your spouse/friend/mother why they didn't tell you