Will His Bisexuality Be Different From Mine?

I sometimes wonder if the benefits of labels and identities outweigh the drawbacks. Many of us take great strength and comfort from our various identities. Whether they are linked to gender, race, class, age, or a hobby or interest, being able to identify a community of people who have shared experience, and feeling like you are part of that community can make the difference between surviving and not.

But these same identities and labels are undeniably narrowing, and they often influence majo...