Dear Baby Boomer, Please Don’t Downsize Until You Read This

The survival guide for what to keep, toss, and stop arguing about
(+ 3 mistakes I’ll never make again!)

Let me guess.
You’re in your 60s or 70s, sipping your morning coffee, staring at a house that somehow expanded to hold your entire life story.

And now it’s time to shrink it all down.

Downsizing—something you’ve talked about for years—isn’t just knocking at your front door.
It’s practically moved in… with boxes, bubble wrap, and a whole lot of emotions.

If you’re anything like I was, you’re torn between:

Keeping the stuff that might be useful somedayTossing it all in a decluttering rageArguing with your spouse or adult kids about who gets to keep the box of old trophies

Here’s the good news: you’re not alone.
And the even better news?
You don’t have to make the same mistakes I did.

Before you pack a single thing, let’s talk about what really matters when you downsize after 60.

The 3 Mistakes I’ll Never Make Again

Mistake #1: “I’ll Just Figure It Out as I Go”
That’s a great mindset for road trips—not for downsizing.
I ended up sitting on the floor, surrounded by boxes of things I didn’t even remember owning.

Lesson?
Have a plan. And bring snacks.

Mistake #2: Letting Guilt Pack My Boxes
You know that thing you feel obligated to keep—like Grandma’s sewing kit—because tossing it feels like betrayal?

Yeah. Guilt can convince you to lug things with you even if you know you’ll never use them.

Lesson?
Don’t fall for it. Let it go with love.

Mistake #3: Expecting Everyone to Agree with Me
Spoiler: they won’t.
Your partner wants to keep every tool in the garage.
Your kids don’t want the china—until you try to give it away.

Lesson?
Set boundaries. Invite conversations, not debates.
And remind yourself: this is a whole new chapter.

What to Keep—And Why

Downsizing isn’t about living with nothing.
It’s about living with what matters most.

Keep what adds ease, beauty, functionality, and comfort to your life today—not 20 years ago.

Keep what makes you feel like you… even if it’s a little quirky.
My favorite pillow has moved with me to four homes. It has a quote from Katharine Hepburn:
“If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.”

Keep your core comforts:

That chair that fits you just rightThat pair of jeans that makes you feel 10 years youngerThat mug that feels like a warm hug

Quick test:
If it’s useful and makes you happy, keep it.
If it’s just taking up space or emotional energy—it goes.

The “Nope” List: What to Toss with Humor and Compassion

Lovingly but firmly release:

Clothes from three sizes agoInstruction manuals for appliances you no longer own20 plastic containers with no matching lidsBroken lamps you swore you’d fixYour kids’ third-grade artwork (they don’t want it, and you don’t need it)

And no, you don’t need:

12 throw pillows11 coffee mugsEvery gadget you bought on late-night QVC

You really don’t. Let them go. You’ll feel lighter.

What to Stop Arguing About

Downsizing stirs up all the emotions. These are the usual suspects:

1. The Spouse Standoff
You’re ready to let go.
He’s ready to keep… everything.

Try this:
Give each person one sentimental box. No judgment. No pressure. Just choices.

2. The Kids Who Suddenly Care
They didn’t want the china cabinet until you tried to sell it.

Solution:
Let them know: if they want it, take it now. If not, you’re letting it go.

3. The Inner Critic
That little voice that whispers:
“You might need this someday…”

Ask yourself:
When was the last time I actually used it?

Bottom Line: Stop Arguing. Start Deciding.

Your Downsizing Survival GuideStart Small.
A drawer. A shelf. A corner. That’s it.
Small steps lead to big wins.Give Yourself Grace.
Downsizing is emotional. You’re not just organizing—you’re letting go. Cry if you need to.Be Consistent.
Twenty minutes a day beats three hours once a month.Make It Meaningful.
Share stories about what you’re letting go. It’s healing.Celebrate Progress.
Every empty shelf is a step forward.Closing Thoughts

Downsizing in your 60s isn’t just about stuff.
It’s about choosing freedom over frustration.
Clarity over clutter.
Designing a space that reflects who you are now, not who you used to be.

And trust me—once you get started, it feels less like loss… and more like liberation.

What’s one thing you know you need to let go of—but haven’t yet? Tell me below. 👇

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