You once loved the things that annoy you

Some of the things that annoy you about your partner or spouse, you once loved very much. The process from loving it to hating it is usually unconscious and involves a re-framing or re-labeling. You fell in love with her attention-to-detail, but ten years later her “perfectionism” drives you up the wall. You fell in love with his peaceful nature, but 20 years in, you are fed up with how…

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